Recently, a school bullying incident in Zhaotong, Yunnan Province has aroused widespread concern in the society. A 21-year-old female college student, Yang Xiaoqian, was bullied by her classmates for a long time, and finally chose to commit suicide by drinking pesticides. Now the mother is grief-stricken, and she has spoken out about the specific situation and the school's response, and wants justice for her daughter.
Details of the event
Yang Xiaoqian, a 21-year-old girl, was born in an ordinary farming family in Yunnan Province, and has an introverted and sensitive personality. She is not only smart, but also hardworking, and has always been at the top of her academic performance since she was a child. Therefore, although her family is not wealthy, Yang Xiaoqian has won many scholarships with her own efforts, and even plans to take the postgraduate entrance examination, hoping to change the fate of herself and her family in the future.
However, the beautiful dream was frustrated after entering a university in Zhaotong. Yang Xiaoqian has been ostracized and neglected by some of her classmates in the dormitory and class for a long time in school. She hardly dared to speak in the dormitory, and she was always careful in her work, for fear of causing dissatisfaction with others. Her introversion and sensitivity made her particularly vulnerable in this environment, and the long period of mental stress made her feel lonely and helpless.
On April 20, 2024, this accumulated pressure finally drove a tragedy. That day, Yang Xiaoqian and her classmates had a conflict again because of some trivial matters. Faced with the accusations and incomprehension of her classmates, Yang Xiaoqian felt extremely heavy pressure, and she chose to escape from all this, leaving the school alone and going to a sparsely populated hotel. There, she bought pesticides, intending to end her life. Part of the reason she chose to be so desperate was that she didn't dare to take her medicine in her dorm room for fear of causing trouble for others.
At the hotel, Yang Xiaoqian recorded a video in which she knelt on the ground and kowtowed to those who had bullied her, saying that she was louder at the time, but she did not maliciously yell at people. The video captures her helplessness and despair, the final explanation given by a helpless soul in the final moments of her life.
Although Yang Xiaoqian's family found out about her situation in time and sent her to the hospital, it was too late. After more than a month of resuscitation in the hospital, she finally died on June 20. Although the school paid all the medical bills after her suicide, the school did not respond or hold her accountable for what happened to her at school, and even after her death, there was no condolence or memorial service.
Yang Xiaoqian's death was a huge blow to her family. Her mother found it difficult to accept that such an excellent daughter would die suddenly, and it was even more difficult to accept that her daughter chose to end her life because of long-term school bullying. She hopes that the school will investigate deeply to find out what the real problem is, and why a good child with an introverted personality and excellent academic performance would be treated in this way at school and end up dead.
It wasn't until the moment her daughter chose to commit suicide by drinking medicine that her mother really realized how deeply her daughter had been wronged at school. I always thought that her daughter's life at school was going well, but when she heard the unhappiness, she thought it was just a small friction between children. However, the truth is far more serious than she thought. The daughter didn't even dare to choose the final place to end her life in the dormitory, but ran to a hotel outside the school. The helplessness and fear behind this decision is poignant. My daughter did this because she didn't want the people in the dormitory to see her last appearance, and maybe she didn't want to cause trouble to others.
At present, this matter has attracted widespread media attention, and it is believed that relevant departments will soon intervene in the investigation, and the legal responsibility of the relevant responsible persons will be investigated in accordance with the law. The attention of society and the intervention of the law may bring some comfort to Yang Xiaoqian's family, and may also promote the attention of the school and society to the problem of school bullying and prevent similar tragedies from happening again.
Netizens are hotly discussed
Some netizens said that girls like Yang Xiaoqian are more docile and well-behaved in character, and they are not very good at expressing themselves, and they usually choose to be patient in the face of bullying and injustice, and will not easily express their dissatisfaction or sadness. Such girls tend to bury all their grievances and pain in their hearts, and to outsiders, they may have remained calm and smiling all the time. But the inner pressure and conflict accumulate more and more, and over time, this suppressed emotion can easily turn into depression. When stress builds up, they may choose extreme ways to release these emotions, such as self-harm or more serious behaviors. In this case, attention and understanding from the outside world are particularly important, and if the people around you can detect and support them in time, they may be able to avoid the tragedy.
Some netizens commented that it is really regrettable that a young and excellent girl like Yang Xiaoqian finally chose to end her life in this way. Maybe she cares too much about what others think, and lacks a proper way to vent and deal with her emotions. After a long period of stress and loneliness, she did not find a suitable outlet to release these negative emotions, and eventually went to a dead end. It also reminds us how important it is to find a healthy way to vent your emotions when faced with difficulties and stress. At the same time, I also hope that her family can take care, although the pain of losing a loved one is indescribable, but life has to go on, and I hope they can slowly recover from this blow.
Some netizens commented that Yang Xiaoqian, a girl, is too simple and kind. In the face of difficulties and injustices, if we can find the right way to deal with them, the problem may be solved. But unfortunately, she chose a very extreme path, which is really regrettable and heart-wrenching. In life, we often encounter various difficulties and challenges, and the right way to deal with them can often help us resolve them. But for Yang Xiaoqian, it may be because she cares too much about the opinions and evaluations of the people around her, and she herself is more introverted, so she has not found an effective way to express and deal with her inner pain and pressure. The accumulation of a long time eventually led to her being unable to bear it and choosing a tragic ending.
This incident also reminds us that society and everyone should pay attention to the mental health of those around them. Especially for those who are introverted and not good at expressing themselves, we should give more care and help to help them find the right way to vent their emotions and solve problems. At the same time, I also hope that all people can learn to be stronger and self-protective, and bravely face and solve problems when they encounter them, instead of choosing to escape. Yang Xiaoqian's story makes us deeply realize how important it is to have the courage to face difficulties and the right way to deal with them.
epilogue
It's ironic that we always start speaking out after a tragedy and talking about how to improve it, how to prevent it. When a young life chooses to end his life because he can't stand the indifference and bullying at school, we suddenly realize that our care and attention are late. Many people in society expressed their condolences and regrets, but what can these after-the-fact kindnesses make up for? If we could have put this care into everyone in need earlier, and if our system and education could have intervened in a more timely manner, perhaps, there would not be so many "ifs". Now, we can only find solace in reflection, hoping that this is not just another brief emotional vent of the public, but a real awakening.
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