Preamble:
In the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, the story of Wang Xiaofei and Big S is like a serial drama, with ups and downs in the plot and fascinating.
From their encounter, acquaintance, to falling in love, to finally parting ways, every link is full of drama.
However, let's not talk about the wind and snow today, let's talk about the ownership of the children behind this marriage, which is more exciting than the TV series.
Having said that, the love story of this golden boy and girl used to envy others.
In 2010, Wang Xiaofei met Da S at An Yixuan's birthday party, and the two fell in love at first sight and quickly fell in love.
This relationship has developed so rapidly that people can't help but sigh: "Love is coming, and you can't stop it!" After only 20 days of acquaintance, the two decided to join hands in the palace of marriage, and that passion and courage made countless single dogs envious and jealous.
After getting married, Da S gave birth to two cute babies for Wang Xiaofei, and the happy picture of a family of four is simply a realistic version of a fairy tale.
But fairy tales often end at a good beginning, and the reality is full of challenges.
The issue of the children's birthplace and household registration became the first problem between the couple.
Big S insisted on giving birth in Wanwan, perhaps because there was a familiar environment and family there, Wang Xiaofei chose to compromise for the sake of her beloved wife, after all, in the world of love, compromise is also an art.
However, the good times did not last long, and the cracks in the marriage gradually appeared.
When the two finally decide to break up, the most distressing thing is the innocent children.
The custody battle has become the most tragic part of this marriage war.
As a mother, Da S naturally hopes that her children can stay by her side, while Wang Xiaofei is eager to participate more in the growth of her children.
This tug-of-war not only tested the patience of the two, but also affected the hearts of countless melon-eating people.
Da S showed amazing firmness on the issue of custody, and her refusal to apply for mainland passes for her children seemed to be a declaration of sovereignty, which made Wang Xiaofei feel extremely frustrated and helpless.
As a father, the pain of not being able to accompany his children to grow up is indescribable.
Wang Xiaofei's confession on social media seems to be a cry to the world and a release of her inner struggle.
However, life must go on, and Wang Xiaofei did not sink into the pain of the past.
The union with Xiaomei gave him new hope and made him rethink his responsibilities as a father.
He began to fight more aggressively for custody, no longer just emotionally cathartic, but taking practical action in the hope of solving the problem through legal means.
This transformation is not only a reflection of personal growth, but also a manifestation of responsibility for the children's future.
The public has a variety of opinions about this custody battle.
Some people support Big S, believing that she has the right to protect her children as a mother; Some people sympathize with Wang Xiaofei and feel that as a father, he should have equal rights to participate in the growth of his children.
The heat of discussion on social media is enough to prove the influence of this turmoil in the minds of the public.
It is not only a personal feud between celebrities, but also touches on the society's concern about marriage, family and children's rights.
From a legal point of view, the issue of child custody and hukou actually touches a sensitive nerve in the legal system, which is not only strictly regulated by many laws such as the Marriage Law and the Law on the Protection of Minors, but also involves a series of complex judicial procedures.
When parents fight for custody and ownership of their household registration when their marriage breaks down, the core consideration of the law always revolves around the principle of "the best interests of the child".
This means that when the court makes its decision, it will comprehensively assess multiple factors including the child's emotional needs, educational environment, health status and the quality of his or her interactions with his or her parents, so as to ensure that the child does not fall prey to the strife of the adult world, but can grow up healthy in a stable, harmonious and loving family atmosphere.
This principle emphasizes that parents should put the well-being of their children first while pursuing their own rights.
After all, children are innocent, and what they need is a stable and harmonious living environment, not to become a bargaining chip in the struggle between parents.
On the moral level, the way Wang Xiaofei and Da S deal with children's problems is indeed debatable.
It's a mixed bag.
We are all ordinary people, who hasn't ordered a scripture that is difficult to read? But, having said that, children are innocent, and their little hearts are like a blank sheet of paper, on which every word and deed of our adults has left a mark.
Imagine that after Wang Xiaofei and Da S, after the two parted ways, their children were caught in the middle, which was really uncomfortable.
After all, children are not bargaining chips for adults, they are independent little beings with their own joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
Therefore, no matter how the grievances and hatreds between adults end, the happiness of children should be put first.
We all know that marriage is sometimes like a marathon, some people run to the finish line, and some people quit halfway.
But that doesn't mean that the game is over and the child's life should be over with it.
On the contrary, parents after divorce should continue to fight side by side for the sake of their children, just like teammates.
After all, what children need is stability and love, not the mood swings of adults.
Therefore, if Wang Xiaofei and Da S can maintain their sanity and maturity after the divorce, and put the needs of their children first, then they have really achieved "breaking up and seeing character".
This is not only to give children a healthy growth environment, but also to teach them a big lesson in life - even in the face of the ups and downs of life, they can move forward hand in hand and support their children.
In the final analysis, parents after divorce are like two actors who no longer love each other, but they still have a common role to play, that is, "parents".
As long as you remember this, you can find a solution to the problem, no matter how difficult it is.
After all, everything is worth it for the sake of children.
Epilogue:
The story of Wang Xiaofei and Big S, although full of twists and turns and challenges, also gave us a lot of inspiration.
It tells us that marriage is not just about two people, but about the happiness of the next generation.
In the face of disagreements and difficulties, we should learn to compromise and understand, and make the wisest choice for the sake of our children.
I hope that in the future, whether it is celebrities or ordinary people, they can be more rational and less impulsive when dealing with family problems, so that love can become the key to solving problems, rather than the fuse of disputes.