As we all know, Lu Yi is a person who cares about his family and pays attention to family education.
He probably never thought that one day his daughter would be on the hot search entry for "bullying others".
In the past two days, some netizens broke the news that Lu Yi's youngest daughter Xiao Yezi bullied her in language, hoping that Lu Yi could take good care of Xiao Yezi.
According to netizens who broke the news, Xiao Yezi posted "Little Sister's nose has always been so funny" under each of her videos
And also attached a photo of the person concerned under each comment.
What's even more unexpected is that this matter quickly became a hot search, and the reporter quickly contacted Lu Yi himself.
When interviewed, Lu Yi's response at the time was that they had paid attention to public opinion, and the propaganda staff was already investigating, and they wanted to know about it.
On the evening of July 4, it is estimated that he understood the ins and outs of the matter, and Lu Yi personally sent a long post in response to the incident.
He said that what happened was as follows:
Two children used short video platform special effects to record videos, and during the recording process, the children's special effects fell, and Xiao Yezi thought it was more fun, so he published "Little Sister's nose is so funny". Xiao Yezi had no intention of attacking her friend's appearance, nor did she make remarks attacking others' appearance, and the remarks made by the two children were also normal laughter and play between friends.
Finally, Lu Yi also called on everyone to protect minors, not to spread remarks that harm the legitimate rights and interests of minors, and to create a green and healthy online environment.
After Lu Yi posted a clarification, netizens had their own opinions, some people felt that the person who said that Xiao Yezi bullied her had ill intentions, and some people felt that it was indeed a joke between children, and it should not be put on the platform, and it also guided everyone to cyber violence.
But some people think that when a joke is made between friends, both parties should find it funny. But the party has clearly expressed his dislike, and asked Xiao Yezi to delete the comment, but Xiao Yezi still hasn't deleted it, which is wrong.
Some people feel that Lu Yi's behavior is a typical behavior of a bully's parents, using jokes between children to cover up his harm to others.
Personally, I think this matter is really difficult to evaluate.
First of all, Xiao Yezi's comment is indeed inappropriate.
Moreover, when the other party has already expressed her displeasure and asked her to delete it, she refuses to delete it, which is really wrong.
However, she asked the blogger to delete it herself, and I personally feel that this is really like a gamble between good friends, and there is no malicious intent in itself.
Secondly, if a blogger really doesn't like other people's comments, there are actually many ways, such as blocking the other party.
Even, after the incident, she can go directly to the other party's parents or even the school, instead of posting the matter on the Internet and guiding netizens to attack Xiaoyezi.
Compared with Xiao Yezi's sentence, I personally think that the blogger's behavior is more malicious.
In the end, if things are as Lu Yi said, Xiao Yezi said the sentence when the other party's special effects fell, I personally think that she really has no malicious intentions, and the other party overinterpreted.
However, Lu Yi's response does give people the feeling of favoring his daughter.
I think that in the face of this kind of "the speaker has no intention, the listener has a heart", everyone should deal with it according to the method that Yang Youning taught Song Zuer in "Flowers and Youth" before.
That is, when the speaker has no intention and the listener has a heart, it is actually time to apologize.
Because despite their own no malice. But the offended feelings of others are real.
At this time, there is no point in arguing about whether you are wrong or not.
Even if the final result of the argument is that you are right, it still can't change the other person's feelings, and it will only add to the estrangement of the otherwise good relationship.
Therefore, if Lu Yi apologizes first when responding, saying that he is sorry that Xiao Yezi has no malicious intentions and causes trouble to the other party, and then explains the cause of the incident, I believe that netizens' favorability towards their family will rise instead of decreasing.
At present, the original blogger has deleted the article and apologized, admitting that she did not handle the matter well.
Therefore, what Lu Yi said should be true, I hope everyone will stop attacking them and let this matter pass.