#头条首发大赛#
The world is complex, but the division of people is simple. Directly divide the good and the bad, and you can also divide the poor and the rich.
Obedient to adulthood, reverse to immortal, good or bad is in a thought. Good people can become bad people, and bad people have good thoughts at certain times. It's easy to be a good person.
But the transition between the poor and the rich is less optimistic.
If the poor want to become rich, they have to work hard for generations. Once which link lifts wrong. That may have to be recalculated.
Otherwise, that ordinary family has a descendant, even if he is admitted to a prestigious university or something, and has a good job, he will be said to have burned high incense on his ancestors.
This shows that it is difficult for the poor to become rich when they become rich.
So, some people asked, why is it difficult for the poor to work hard?
There is no leader in the family
In the past, the famous Wang clan would have a person at the helm to lead the development of the whole family and standardize the behavior of the clansmen. According to certain rules of development, it is not allowed to deviate from the direction. Family development is the goal of all. And pass it on from generation to generation.
Including, and now, too, it is the family business that often amasses a lot of wealth.
And, since ancient times, the families of the poor will also have brothers. However, most of them lack the spirit of solidarity and tend to focus more on their own selfishness.
In the song, one chopstick is easy to break, and multiple chopsticks are firmly held together. A fence with three piles, a hero with three gangs. That's it.
It is difficult to break through the inherent circle
Everyone's life is fixed. The circle determines a person's thinking, vision, growth and experience, including future development.
People in each circle, from small to large, receive different information. This is often referred to as the "information cocoon".
It is often said that others are born in Rome, and we will never reach the beginning of our lives. That's a heart-wrenching fact.
So, it's hard to get from one circle to the next.
Networking resources are limited
Society is an invisible net, and those who can succeed need a certain amount of connections. Networking does not mean having a lot of friends and a lot of friends. It's about resources and relationships that can be shared with each other.
The rich have a natural advantage at this point. Perhaps when they were born, their elders helped pave the way for them.
And the poor really come out of nowhere. If you don't want to leave with nothing, you have to put in more and harder efforts.
It's hard to break your own mindset
The poor also have a different mindset than the rich. The same is to make money. The poor mindset is to sell labor to make money. And the rich think about how to use their brains to make money.
Back then, my father organized his friends and family to open a small processing factory. Everyone worked hard for half a year, and everyone made some money. However, it is hard money.
And the neighbor's second uncle is different. He invested, bought and sold, but made more money. Our family has always been at a subsistence level. And the neighbor's second uncle is very rich.
And my father's hope for our siblings is just to have a stable job and earn money to support the family.
And the second uncle next door has been training his children to do business since he was a child. His sons and daughters followed him as teenagers. He wanted his sons and daughters to surpass him.
There is a saying that being poor is lazy. I don't think so!
The poor actually work hard, too. Or even do your best.
I think, I'm working hard. I had mediocre qualifications and worked hard to get into college. The work is crawling and rolling, and he is alone in his own way. But he has always been a poor man.
However, my classmate was not admitted to university and was sent by his parents to study abroad. When he came back to take over the family business, he immediately became a real rich man.
There is such a passage on Zhihu that I think is particularly worth learning.
If the poor want to change the thinking of the poor, they must start from the following points.
1. Don't look down on yourself. Set limits on how you label yourself. Everyone's background is different, but they all have the power to choose to change.
2. Don't refuse to learn, refuse to learn, choose to escape, is a typical poor person is a dimension.
3. Don't lose self-confidence and courage.
4. Be grateful with good thoughts, be grateful to those who have helped each other, and be grateful to the nobles you have met.
5. There is no need to look up to wealth, what is worth looking up to is always the thoughts and fighting spirit of those who have wealth and have not forgotten their original intentions.
We can't choose where we come from, but we can try to make our lives better. This year is better than last year, and 10 years later it is better than now.
Friends passing by, what do you think is the reason why it is difficult for poor people to get rich and become rich?