The years are quiet, time flies, and we are all looking for our own happiness on the road of life. Sometimes, however, happiness is not so easy to come by. Especially when we step into the palace of marriage and face the attitude of our in-laws, we often feel confused and painful. So, why don't your in-laws see you? There is only one real reason, heart-piercing and helpless.
Your in-laws don't want to see you, perhaps because they don't think you fit into their family. As said in "Dream of Red Mansions": "People's hearts change people's hearts, eight taels and a half catties." "In this world, people need to understand and tolerate each other. However, sometimes, for various reasons, we can't get the other person's approval.
Your in-laws don't want to see you, perhaps because they think you've robbed them of their son. As Jane Austen said in Pride and Prejudice, "Marriage is not the end of love, but the beginning of love." "In marriage, both parties are independent individuals with their own emotions and thoughts. Sometimes, however, your in-laws see you as a threat and try to bend you to their will.
Your in-laws don't want to see you, perhaps because they don't think you're up to the job of a housewife. As Leo Tolstoy said in Anna Karenina: "Happy families are all alike, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes." "In real life, the role of housewives is often seen as a vulnerable group, and their efforts and sacrifices are often overlooked.
Maybe your in-laws don't want to see you, maybe because they don't think you can meet their expectations. As Victor Hugo said in "Les Miserables": "Life is like a dream, and years are like a song." "In this world, everyone has their own dreams and pursuits, and family is the harbor of our dreams. However, when your in-laws' expectations of you are far from your real life, contradictions and conflicts are inevitable.
Your in-laws don't want to see you, perhaps because they don't think you can share family responsibilities with them. As García Márquez says in One Hundred Years of Solitude: "Life is a grand solitude." "In this world, everyone is destined to face the ups and downs of life alone. However, when the in-laws put all the family responsibilities on you, loneliness and helplessness will envelop you.
In this complex world, we are all looking for our own happiness. Sometimes, however, happiness doesn't come easily. There is only one real reason why your in-laws don't want to see you - that is, they can't understand you and can't accept you. As the ancients said: "Hold the hand of the son, and grow old with the son." "May we all find the person who understands, loves and cherishes you on the road of life, and spends a good time together.
"Flowers bloom and fall, spring goes to autumn, and the years are long." In this world, we are all lonely travelers, looking for our own home. I hope that you and I can strengthen our beliefs and move forward bravely on the road of life, and we will eventually reap our own happiness.