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Preface
In 2014, Huang Yali, a girl from Anhui, was introduced to her husband by someone.
The two get along very well, but after getting married, Huang Yali found that her mother-in-law was very strange.
When my father-in-law was present, my mother-in-law didn't dare to say a word, and when my father-in-law was away, my mother-in-law became cheerful and talkative.
Not long after, Huang Yali learned that her mother-in-law had been abducted.
Huang Yali decided to help her mother-in-law find a home.
The first time Huang Yali met her mother-in-law Yang Bidian was in 2014, when Huang Yali and her boyfriend had reached the point of talking about marriage, and Huang Yali went to her husband's house to meet her parents.
The first time she met her parents, Huang Yali was very nervous, and she kept asking her boyfriend what his parents liked and what their temper was.
The boyfriend said a lot about his father's likes and tempers, but he didn't mention his mother in half a sentence, Huang Yali was a little curious, because her boyfriend rarely mentioned her mother before.
Huang Yali asked her boyfriend, but her boyfriend didn't care and said, "You don't have to worry about her." ”
Even though her boyfriend said so, after all, she was her future mother-in-law, and Huang Yali still carefully selected a gift for Yang Bidian.
On the day of the meeting, Huang Yali felt very strange, it was her boyfriend's father who was talking all the time, and her boyfriend's mother was busy in the kitchen with her head down, and she didn't eat at the table when the meal was served, and she didn't even say a word to her.
Huang Yali thought that her mother-in-law didn't like her, but it wasn't until she got married that Huang Yali saw the other side of her mother-in-law.
On this day, there were only Huang Yali and her mother-in-law Yang Bidian at home. Yang Bidian was busy cooking in the kitchen, and hummed a song happily. Seeing this, Huang Yali hurriedly stepped forward to help, thinking of taking advantage of her mother-in-law's good mood to enhance the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Huang Yali walked over, Yang Bidian was startled at first, and when he turned around, he found that it was Huang Yali, so he said with a smile:
"You don't have to care about anything, just wait to eat, I don't know if the dishes I cook are to your liking, taste them later, if you need to tell me, it's all a family, don't be polite to me."
This is the first time Yang Bidian has said so many things to Huang Yali, Huang Yali was so happy that she chatted with her mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law chatted very happily.
Huang Yali thought that after this conversation, her relationship with her mother-in-law Yang Bidian was a step forward.
However, in the evening, Huang Yali talked to Yang Bidian again, but Yang Bidian changed back to cherishing words like gold and being taciturn.
Huang Yali couldn't help but be a little strange, how could her mother-in-law still have two faces?
After staying in this home for a while, Huang Yali finally came to a conclusion after observation.
Whenever the father-in-law is present, the mother-in-law seems to be extremely nervous, always observing words and feelings, and being cautious, and when the father-in-law is not there, the mother-in-law will become relaxed.
On this day, Huang Yali was resting in her own room, and suddenly heard a noise in the living room, Huang Yali went out to take a look, and saw her father-in-law scolding her mother-in-law, blaming her for cooking unpalatable, and her father-in-law said that he was excited, and pushed his mother-in-law.
Huang Yali hurriedly went up to stop her, in her opinion, her mother-in-law is the hardest person in the family, working from morning to night every day, but she is rarely respected at home.
But as a daughter-in-law, Huang Yali is not good at interfering too much. In the evening, Huang Yali told her husband about the day's events and asked her husband to persuade her father-in-law.
However, after hearing this, the husband said disapprovingly: "You don't have to worry about it, my dad has treated my mother a lot better now, and he used to do it even better, besides, my mother has been like this for so many years, and she has long been used to it." ”
Even though her husband said so, Huang Yali still disapproved of this matter, and every time her father-in-law beat and scolded her mother-in-law, Huang Yali would come out to stop her.
Over time, her mother-in-law Yang Bidian also understood that Huang Yali, her daughter-in-law, was good to her, and the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was getting better and better.
Yang Bidian's mother-in-law not only has a good personality, but also is very diligent. Sometimes Huang Yali came back from work for a day, and she was too lazy to wash her clothes and put them in the dirty clothes basket, wanting to wait for the weekend to wash, but her mother-in-law silently helped her wash them off every time.
Over time, Huang Yali herself felt embarrassed, she told her mother-in-law that she didn't need to help her wash her clothes, but Yang Bidian still helped her wash them.
In the end, Huang Yali had to hide her dirty clothes in order to prevent her mother-in-law from working.
The longer she has been married, the more Huang Yali has found that in this family, whether it is her father-in-law or her husband, she feels that her mother-in-law should work.
Huang Yali felt very sorry for her mother-in-law Yang Bidian, and when she was free, she would take her mother-in-law out for a walk.
Once, Huang Yali took Yang Bidian into the city, she wanted to buy new clothes for her mother-in-law, but Yang Bidian shook her head and shirked it, just have clothes to wear, don't waste money.
In the end, under Huang Yali's tough attitude, Yang Bidian had to accept the clothes. Yang Bidian cherished the new clothes in his arms, saying that he hadn't bought clothes for many years.
The feelings between people are always mutual, Huang Yali treats her mother-in-law Yang Bidian with sincerity, and Yang Bidian naturally reciprocates Huang Yali's sincerity.
After Huang Yali became pregnant, and even when the child was born later, Yang Bidian, as her mother-in-law, has always taken care of Huang Yali in all aspects.
Huang Yali's mother was moved to say that her own mother couldn't do better than Yang Bidian, who was a mother-in-law.
Huang Yali was very grateful to her mother-in-law in her heart, and at the same time couldn't help sighing, how could such a good woman marry such a man?
It wasn't until at the child's centennial banquet that Huang Yali learned a news that shocked her.
At that time, Huang Yali was busy working in the house with her mother-in-law, and a relative suddenly came over and asked Yang Bidian with concern if he had found a home?
Huang Yali was very curious after hearing this, and only after inquiring did she learn that her mother-in-law Yang Bidian was abducted to Anhui, and her original home was from Sichuan.
Yang Bidian talked about these sighs and said: "Don't look for it, can't find it, forget it." ”
Yang Bidian said forget it, but Huang Yali read sadness in her expression.
Thinking of her mother-in-law's experience over the years, Huang Yali decided to help her mother-in-law find a home.
But because Yang Bidian has been away from home for too long, she only remembers that her home is in Liangshan Yi Autonomous Prefecture, Sichuan, a place called Ningnan, and she was abducted when she was 20 years old.
Although there was little information, Huang Yali still tried her best to help her mother-in-law find it, and soon she found out that there was indeed Ningnan County in Sichuan.
Subsequently, Huang Yali registered for her mother-in-law on various relatives search websites.
Mother-in-law Yang Bidian is very happy, for so many years, finding a home has been her greatest wish hidden in her heart.
However, Huang Yali found that her father-in-law was very angry when he learned that his mother-in-law Yang Bidian was looking for relatives, and ridiculed him: "You are so stupid, you will never be found, don't bother." ”
Huang Yali was very angry and told her husband about it, but after hearing it, her husband persuaded Huang Yali not to look for it again.
Huang Yali also learned that when her mother-in-law Yang Bidian first came to this house, she wanted to escape, and was chained by her father-in-law until she gave birth to a child.
This strengthened Huang Yali's determination to help her mother-in-law Yang Bidian find her family.
After that, Huang Yali signed up for CCTV's family search program, and in 2017, with the help of volunteers, she really found Yang Bidian's parents.
At that time, Huang Yali had been pregnant with her second child for several months, and she still insisted on accompanying her mother-in-law Yang Bidian on the show to recognize her relatives.
Yang Bidian's old father and mother are both 80 years old, and they can't help but burst into tears when they see their daughter who has been separated for decades.
After meeting his parents, Yang Bidian learned that his real name was Yang Bidi, and he had been misremembering it for many years.
Over the years, Yang Bidian has been thinking about his parents and relatives all the time, thinking that there is no hope, but with the help of his daughter-in-law, he was able to get his wish.
End
Yang Bidian's daughter-in-law Huang Yali is a kind woman with a sense of justice, if it weren't for her, maybe Yang Bidian would never be able to reunite with his family.
And the source of all these tragedies is the hateful human traffickers, because the traffickers' lust for profit has caused the originally happy family to fall apart and relatives unable to reunite.
I hope there will be no crutches in the world.
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