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Preface
"Hello, if the arrears are not paid off by 5 pm on the 30th, we will file a lawsuit against your daughter......"
One day in October 2014, Tangshan's 47-year-old Tang Yanzhao was absentmindedly sweeping the floor when he suddenly received such a call. She frowned and said good things to the other side of the phone, but unexpectedly, the other party hung up directly.
Tang Yanzhao was so frightened by the phone call that she glanced at the letter on the table, and she called her daughter who worked in Beijing......
Nagging mother
"Jiang Xue! A person from Shanghai called and said that if you don't pay it back on the 30th, they will sue you. You hurry up and pay back the money, hey, you still owe the money and don't pay it back, what a shame it is to say it......"
Tang Yan summoned her daughter to answer the phone, and hurriedly asked if the money had been paid. She walked back and forth around the room, remembering the scene from a few days ago.
It was October 24, 2014, and she was returning home from grocery shopping to cook when she heard the doorbell ringing. When I opened it, it was a postman.
She inexplicably took the envelope, then opened it curiously, only to see a Shanghai credit card reminder letter about her daughter.
Looking at the contents inside, Tang Yanzhao became more and more angry. She didn't expect her daughter to owe so much money outside, which is almost 5,000!
She hurriedly called her daughter Jiang Xue and asked what happened. After Jiang Xue figured out the situation, she quickly calmed her mother's emotions and said that she would pay it back immediately.
She thought that her mother would understand her, but she began to talk at length.
"Why are you spending so much money, and the money you earn is not enough to tell your family, can you still give it to you...... You can also borrow a credit card! ”
Jiang Xue also knew that her excess consumption was incorrect, but she was about to pay it back, why did her mother start chattering like this? She could only promise to pay it back as soon as possible, and then hung up the phone.
Tang Yanzhao was a little dissatisfied with her daughter's attitude, and felt that it was not she who did wrong, why did she throw her face? Seeing her husband Lao Jiang coming back, she also began to complain.
Lao Jiang didn't say anything, after all, young people, there are more ways to consume like this. He just wanted to persuade a few words, but was glared back by the other party's eyes.
It's just that his wife is in charge of everything in the family, and he can't go against her, right?
Tang Yanzhao originally thought that after training her daughter this time, she would soon return it. Thinking of this, she also paid the repayment money to her daughter's bank card.
Although I still feel that my daughter is a little uneasy, she is still a little more stable. Unexpectedly, the child did not repay the money immediately, and let the debt collector find it again, this time it was not a letter but a phone call.
"Didn't I call you all the money, why haven't you paid it back yet? What if they do sue you? Why is it so worry-free, what are you doing every day, what are you doing with your brain......"
Jiang Xue on the other end of the phone originally wanted to explain the words that were choked back into her stomach, and her expression didn't know when it became numb. Again, is this trying to control her again? Just like her life for more than 20 years.
When she came back to her senses, her mother Tang Yanzhao was still nagging, and her words were getting harsher and harsher, Jiang Xue felt very tired, and directly said that she would pay back the money, and then hung up.
Tang Yanzhao still had a puzzled face, but she didn't know that it didn't take long for her daughter to have an accident.
Lost contact with the daughter
"What's the matter with this girl, why didn't she call over, it's been almost a day, has she paid the money back?"
Tang Yanzhao sat on the sofa and talked with Lao Jiang. Lao Jiang is not good at words, and he has been worried for a long time, but he heard his wife mention it at the moment, so he asked her to make a phone call to try.
"Sorry, the phone you are calling is turned off......"
There was such a voice on the other end of the phone, Tang Yanzhao almost thought that he had heard it wrong. She looked at the mobile phone number she dialed, yes! How can it not be through?
Tang Yanzhao was a little panicked, since her daughter went to Beijing to work, she made an appointment with her daughter to make three fixed calls a day, she would definitely not let her mobile phone turn off, what's wrong?
She continued to call several more times, but it still showed that "the other party is turned off". Tang Yanzhao also reacted at this moment, this is because the girl dislikes herself, so she turned off the phone so that she couldn't find it!
"Okay, you dead girl, I don't believe you haven't turned on all the time." Since then, Tang Yanzhao has called Jiang Xue every day, but the phone can't get through, and she is not discouraged, so she goes to text messages.
In the past 3 months, she sent many text messages, but Jiang Xue never replied. Gradually, the couple began to panic, and Lao Jiang even resigned from his job as a long-distance driver and went directly to Beijing.
The search day after day did not improve, and in order to be able to continue the search, Lao Jiang found a delivery job in Beijing. After work, I go looking for my daughter.
So where did their daughter Jiang Xue go, and why did she lose contact with her family?
It turned out that Jiang Xue deliberately turned off the phone, and at that time she was originally irritable because of things that didn't go well at work, but after hearing her mother's nagging, the anger that had been buried in her heart for many years finally broke out.
"Why is this always the case, isn't it enough to control me for so long?! I'm fed up with ......", Jiang Xue clutched her mobile phone tightly, and her expression became trance-like, as if she had returned to her unhappy childhood.
In 1991, Jiang Xue's birth made Tang Yanzhao and his wife very happy. For this daughter, they plan to train her well.
Jiang Xue was very competitive, and when she was 3 years old, she could memorize songs in the English alphabet. Originally, her life was predictable and not too bad, but when she was 5 years old, a fever changed all this.
That day, Tang Yanzhao was busy on the side, looking at his daughter sitting on the bed from time to time. But Jiang Xue didn't know when she actually lay down, her face was flushed and she didn't speak, as if she had lost her soul, she hurriedly ran over to check the situation.
"Oops, why is it so hot?" , Tang Yanzhao tested the body temperature of Jiang Xue's head with the back of his hand, and was shocked all of a sudden. It's a fever, so you have to call a doctor quickly.
The doctor didn't arrive so quickly, so Tang Yanzhao had to try it for her daughter with physical cooling first. After the doctor came, he gave Xiao Jiang Xue an injection, and after about half an hour, Jiang Xue returned to her normal appearance.
Tang Yanzhao was very worried on the side, but fortunately, her daughter was fine, so she didn't take this matter to heart.
What she didn't know was that her daughter's fate had since changed.
A life of being controlled
In a blink of an eye, Jiang Xue was already in the first grade. Tang Yanzhao was very concerned about her studies, so she checked her homework from time to time, but who would have thought that she saw a bunch of red forks.
"Why does 12 plus 21 equal 6?" Looking at her daughter's homework book, she couldn't help but have a headache.
This child, since that fever, this brain seems to have been stimulated by something, and it has become less intelligent than before. What can I do after that?
Tang Yanzhao was so worried that she couldn't sleep well every night, and she still had to be strict after thinking about it, so that she wouldn't have a hard time in the future. But fortunately, although Jiang Xue's reaction ability is not as good as before, she is very talented in color matching.
"It's so good, Xue'er has a talent for painting, is it your grandfather who is inherited? There's a way out from now on. Tang Yanzhao held her daughter in her arms, and after obtaining her consent, she put her in the painting class run by her father.
In order to allow Jiang Xue to succeed in her studies, Tang Yanzhao controlled her very strictly. From the age of 8 to the second year of junior high school, Jiang Xue only had one day of free time during the Chinese New Year, and the rest of the time was spent studying and painting.
Jiang Xue has always had resentment in her heart, and Tang Yanzhao, who is a mother, naturally knows it. She understands her daughter's grievances, and she has thought about being more relaxed, but no, if she doesn't care about it, how can she become a talent?
Time flickered to the time for the college entrance examination, Jiang Xue's hard work for so many years finally came to fruition, and she achieved a good score of fifth place in the county.
Soon it was time to fill in the volunteers, Jiang Xue was in a good mood, she wanted to go to the southern school, so she discussed it with her family, but it was better not to ask.
"Go to the south to the south, how far is it from home, no, I don't worry, I'll report to the province!"
Jiang Xue's smile became a little stiff, but she still didn't disobey her intentions and went to an art school in the province that her mother wanted her to go to.
At this moment, although Jiang Xue went to college, she still didn't get much freedom, and her mother still cared about her very tightly. After knowing that there were two boys chasing her at school, Tang Yanzhao said sternly, "You study hard for me, you can't fall in love!" ”
Jiang Xue seemed to be overwhelmed, so after graduation, she went to work in Beijing despite Tang Yanzhao's opposition. However, Tang Yanzhao still asked her to call home three times a day on the grounds that she was not at ease.
In Tang Yanzhao's eyes, Jiang Xue has always been a person who is not very smart, unsociable, and easily deceived, so he tried his best to keep her away from those accidents. But she didn't know that these concerns had already changed for her daughter.
Jiang Xue's thoughts slowly drifted back, she glanced at her mother's missed call on the phone screen, and decisively chose to turn off the phone. At that moment, she felt quiet like never before.
For the next three years, she did not contact her family again, went to work in other cities, and began to enjoy her own life.
At first, she didn't understand her mother's approach, and only thought it was her mother's desire to control. But after encountering all kinds of troubles and emergencies in the society, she slowly understood her mother's good intentions.
She began to regret her impulsiveness, but the thought of her mother's previous appearance made her still reverent. At this time, she didn't know that her parents had already regretted her actions.
In 2017, her parents found her through the program "Waiting for Me", and the family met again.
When the two sides met again, the contradictions and estrangements between them seemed to have been put aside, and the thoughts that had accumulated for a long time also exploded at this moment.
Tang Yanzhao was still in the fear of losing her daughter at the moment, Lao Jiang was also crying bitterly, and Jiang Xue was also sorry for her impulsiveness. They are all self-reflecting, believing that after this incident, they will all change.
epilogue
The bank card incident, to put it bluntly, is a lead for Jiang Xue to choose to lose contact, but if you dig deeper, why is it not Tang Yanzhao, in the name of "for the good of the child", weaving a cage called "control" The appearance is generated?
Jiang Xue's goodbye is indeed uneasy, but the root is still in her mother. I hope that after their reunion this time, Tang Yanzhao can respect the child's choice as he said.
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