In this world, for many things, we always like to ask if it's worth it.
Is a thing worth the price, and is a thing worth doing?
For too many encounters, instinctively, we tend to measure.
Objects, many things, we will be like this, and we will treat feelings as well, often the same.
will consider whether a person is worth dating, whether it is worth continuing, whether it is worth getting married, and whether it is worth treating the other person as their lifelong partner.
It's always easy for us to be like that, and there's nothing wrong with that.
Among them, whether a person is worth it or not is not difficult to see, and it is still easy to judge.
Look at yourself, what kind of thoughts.
If you are in a relationship with a person, and in the process, you feel quite good and do not feel worthless, then the relationship is good and worthwhile.
At that time, even if others didn't see it that way and had other opinions, they didn't have to worry too much.
The key to life lies in what you think, how you see, and how you feel.
I don't feel unworthy, I enjoy it, even if others think it's not worthwhile, it's still worth it, because everyone's standards are not the same, their needs are not the same, and they just need to respect their hearts.
Of course, if you always feel unworthy and have doubts in your heart, then there must be something wrong with the relationship.
Even if it is good in the eyes of others, in fact, it must not be satisfied with himself, emotionally, in his heart, in some other aspects, after all, he is still not well taken care of, and he has a time difference with the other party.
There are too many things, between two people, outsiders can't see anything at all, and only those who are in it can know whether it is good or not, what is going on, and whether they are happy or not.
But if you are always doubting, denying, and feeling that it is not worth it, then you don't have to speculate all the time, everything is not worth it, you can have other ideas, and you can reconsider this relationship.
See whether it is consumed or fulfilled.
There is always a magnetic field between people, and before we are even aware of it, it is already deeply affecting ourselves and a relationship.
Some people always give us a bad feeling when they come and go, but whenever there is a confrontation, they are suffering losses, and they have been suffering, as if they have endless losses.
There are also some cases, although there is no obvious loss, but it always feels very wrong. My whole person is not good, and everything seems to be messed up.
If a person makes us feel very bad, and we all start to have some problems in our mental state, then of course, there is no need to think that the relationship is not very worthwhile, it may be completely wrong, not right.
If you stay with such a person and get along with each other all the time, sooner or later it will become a disaster, and it will be very unfortunate.
Worthy people, worthy feelings, when together, whether it is the other party or ourselves, the whole state must be stretched, not only because of the arrival of the other party, but also more positive.
To a certain extent, before we realize it, the other party has already brought us some energy.
Attracted to each other, influencing each other, they all get something from each other, and they have become more at ease than ever, being loved, loved, and whole.
It's a lot of fun to watch, but it's still always sad.
No matter who you are with, it is impossible to be completely free of any contradictions, and all of them are good days. There will always be some quarrels, there will be some unhappy things.
We don't have to feel that the other party is not worth it because of a little unhappiness and unsatisfactory feeling, no one is perfect, and no one can give us an absolutely perfect relationship.
Actually, as long as it's a little bit more when it's feeling good than when it's feeling bad, that's fine.
When you are in a good mood and your mood is very stable most of the time, this is already considered to be a sign, and the person you meet is already a very good object.
That's because the other party is really good, and it's also in the process of getting along, and the other party has always taken care of and understood us.
On the contrary, if you always feel painful, sad, or particularly depressed, then don't think about it, it may be that you don't know how to love and deal with emotions, but there must be other people's reasons, which are not so compatible with each other.
The other party is probably not the one who is so suitable for himself and is worth continuing all the time.
Even if you believe in your feelings, in the state you are presenting, in your inner feelings, it will always be the most real, and it will not deceive. In a good relationship, there will be unhappiness, but more must be happy and peaceful.
Some people say that love is not worth it.
However, they are all ordinary people, and they are not so great, and it is impossible to really ignore them.
If you love someone, even if you don't care about it at the beginning, you still can't always be so emotional, you still have to be rational, and you have to go back and take a good look at the relationship.
Ask yourself what your heart looks like, see how you are doing along the way, and see how you are doing.
If everything is okay and that person is worth it, just keep going and strive for a good future.
But if the other party is not worthy of liking, it is better to stop the loss in time and not make mistakes again and again.
Warm like, to the worthy of the person, and the worthy of the person together to fulfill each other, will be a good relationship, will have a brighter future.
Text / Tan Meng
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