"Does my sister usually wear such thick makeup?"
It's not like I look at the sky every day, and my makeup doesn't make up..."
"My brother is so good, why is my sister still not satisfied?"
Although there are many funny ingredients in these green tea quotations that are on the Internet, everyone still scoffs at the green tea women in real life.
From the Hanzo Forest that was fired up by the "Internet celebrity derailment incident" to Lin Youyou, who everyone shouted and beat in the film and television "Thirty Only".
It's easy for women to substitute themselves for the "victims" and "hate them to the bone" for these green teas.
In fact, green tea, not only green tea women, but also green tea men are creatures.
They are harmless in appearance and make us feel like a spring breeze.
But in the interior, they hid their wolf teeth in the shadows.
Treat women tenderly like water, treat love enemies as ruthlessly as the spring breeze sweeping away leaves, they are "out of the mud and not stained" - green tea men.
It is said that women can see clearly who is green tea around them, and men are the same, only men can see male green tea.
And when men get green tea, there is basically nothing for women.
Men who scumbags will be shouted "scumbags" and "Aquaman".
And men green up will also be subdivided into two kinds - "small milk dog type green tea man" and "white lotus type green tea man".
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Small milk dog type green tea man
In the TV series "Thirty Only", in addition to the "female version of green tea" Lin Youyou, the audience was so angry that they quickly smashed the TV.
The "male version of green tea" Zhong Xiaoyang's tea art level is also comparable.
"Little Milk Dog" Zhong Xiaoyang, in order to get his favorite "sister" Zhong Xiaoqin, still ambiguously called her when he knew that Zhong Xiaoqin was married.
When Zhong Xiaoqin was deeply involved in online violence, Zhong Xiaoyang also deliberately called Zhong Xiaoqin and said, "Your husband will not let you go home." ”
A word made Zhong Xiaoqin feel that her husband avoided her because he was afraid of things, so he deepened their misunderstanding with each other.
Zhong Xiaoyang's image is a typical "little milk dog" type green tea man.
On the surface, people and animals are harmless, intimate and warm, and selflessly dedicated, but in fact, they are complex in heart, have a clear purpose, and are good at ambiguity.
Men who like us will talk with us until late at night, but men who love us will let us go to bed early and not stay up late.
The starting points of the two are different, one is to be happy, the other is out of concern.
The green tea men seem to like us very much, but do they really put themselves in our shoes for the sake of what they do?
Zhong Xiaoyang just arrived at the company and began to pay great tribute to Zhong Xiaoqin, affectionately calling her: "sister, sister", so that everyone around her could not look at it.
Wang Manni deliberately reminded Zhong Xiaoyang to pay attention to the scale, but he said very naturally: "Sister, I know that she has a husband."
If you just call Zhong Xiaoqin a sister, it doesn't matter, he is called this by many people, which will make people feel very ambiguous.
However, Zhong Xiaoyang also thought that he was very romantic and said to Zhong Xiaoqin: "Actually, I only call you a sister!" ”
This full of tea flavor, "male version of Lin Youyou" immediately appeared.
Use the age difference to create a younger brother who is "harmless to people and animals", and at the same time disguise himself as simple and innocent.
In order to stimulate women's maternal protective desire, falling into the sweet trap created by men, this is the usual means of "small milk dog type green tea man".
Whether the other party has another half or not, it can't stop them from offering their hospitality, and they come to ask for warmth in the name of love, which is just a manifestation of the green tea man.
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White lotus type green tea male
Since his debut, Huo Zun has always been an "ancient style fairy man", an image that does not eat fireworks in the world, and is beautiful and cold.
However, after being in love with his girlfriend Chen Lu for 9 years, he collapsed overnight after breaking the news.
I think that if there is no Chen Lu's "great righteousness and annihilation of relatives", perhaps Huo Zun can still stand up to the "national style" and get the life he wants.
As soon as the hot search came out, Huo Zun's handwritten apology letter was called a "high-quality green tea" quotation:
"Love has finally come to a fork in the road, and it is a difficult choice for anyone."
"Our past, our true emotions and dedication, we know best ourselves."
"What you say, I don't think it's your original intention, but I can understand."
Huo Zun not only has a very good grasp of tea and tea, but also a "tea master" in behavior.
Chen Lu's family conditions are superior, although Huo Zun's family conditions are also OK, but for her relationship, her parents are not optimistic.
Chen Lu did not listen to her parents' advice and plunged into love.
In the following years, Chen Lu became a dancer, and a lot of the income from opening a studio was used to subsidize Huo Zun, send valuable gifts to Huo Zun, and so on...
Seeing Chen Lu's voice, it can be known that she spent more than 3 million yuan on Huo Zun before and after.
But what is the final result?
It's just that his beloved boyfriend said in the WeChat group chat:
"My social status today is still with her, which is a gift to her."
"I always wanted Luluti to break up, but she couldn't."
One set on the surface, one set on the back.
In fact, he is a scumbag, but in order to create a beautiful image of himself "out of the mud without dyeing", he sends good people cards everywhere.
This is the "you're fine, I don't deserve" white lotus type green tea man.
Many people will wonder, why did Huo Zun become the best green tea scumbag that everyone hated overnight?
We need to know that going bad doesn't happen overnight.
A seed can deteriorate, which has a lot to do with the soil that gave birth to it.
Huo Zun's emotional "tea and slag" are closely related to his original family.
We use the case of Huo Zun to analyze the "typical portrait" of green tea men and let women know "green tea men".
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The most typical feature of green tea men
1. A large number of performances in the relationship are reversed in gender with normal couples
For example, in general, when quarrels, boys coax girls, when they go out to play, boys will give most of the money, and girls will make small emotions without moving.
But when they fall in love with green tea men, they will eat soft rice in various ways, and they like to pretend to be miserable, and they always want us to coax with a look of grievance.
2. Most of the green tea men are small milk dogs, and most of them are sister-brother love
Women are born with motherhood.
In particular, some green tea men have seized the flood of motherhood, and their hearts will be more fearless.
Because they know, we eat this set.
The more enthusiastic we are with each other, the more cold they are to us, and the whole rhythm of love is completely in their hands.
A normal scumbag who just wants to cheat on our feelings will at least take care of us, create a romantic atmosphere for us, and satisfy us financially.
A green tea man with a deep heart wants us to take care of him.
He also sent us good guy cards, always special and extremely selfish.
The same-sex relationship of green tea men is generally worse and will be rejected by the men around them.
Just like we women, you can see at a glance that the other person is green tea and stay away from her.
3. Most of the green tea men are also ma bao men
This is not to say how dependent they are on their mothers, but that they have no opinions and are the first in mentality.
After Huo Zun's mother Zhong Xiaoping married her father Huo feng, she gradually gave up her singing career and concentrated on taking care of her son and being the woman behind huo feng.
But what Zhong Xiaoping did not expect was that the fire wind gradually broke out of the hall of fame, and their marriage also came to an end.
With the phrase "feelings faded", the two divorced.
After the divorce, Huo Zun was sentenced to Zhong Xiaoping, and Huo Feng became an invisible father.
Zhong Xiaoping put all her love into her son, and Huo Zun became the only center of gravity in her life.
Huo Zun said that he and his mother used a song to express their feelings, that is, "I Only Care About You".
Zhong Xiaoping took good care of her son in every way, and would hold his hand everywhere he went.
Even if Huo Zun just drove out of the door once, she would keep sending messages.
On the highway, I had to ask: "Is it on the highway", and soon after, I frequently asked if I had arrived at the place.
If Huo Zun didn't give her a message back, she could explode with anxiety.
Generally speaking, men who grow up with their mothers will go to two extremes if they do not have a strong heart.
Or extreme insecurity, suffering from gains and losses, for fear of replicating the tragedy of their parents;
Or to avoid being hurt in the relationship, simply become the same person as your father.
Huo Zun obviously belongs to the latter, and the mother's doting and the lack of father's love have caused a deformed view of love.
Green tea men have always existed, we know them, but also learn to stay away, otherwise for us, it is a kind of harm.
1. Don't covet each other's temporary goodness
A basic criterion for many people looking for a partner: he wants to be nice to me.
But according to this standard alone, it is easy to fall into the trap of green tea men.
We must learn to see how the other person is not only good to himself, but also to see how he treats others.
See if he respects strangers, has a sense of responsibility for his family, and consciously divides the boundaries of the opposite sex around him.
These most fundamental character issues can determine whether he will be a good partner in the future.
Because a person who has no sense of responsibility to his family must be responsible for our whole life.
Learn to recognize good men, don't just covet each other's temporary goodness, but see the other person's full.
2. Have the ability to resolve conflicts in feelings
It was always sweet when I was just with the green tea man, and everything was so happy and smooth.
Because he will always support us, tolerate us, and make us feel that he is the person who is the best for him.
But we have to know that there is no absolutely perfect man in the world, and if there is, he must be in a fairy tale.
Normal love will inevitably have contradictions, if we do not know how to use the right way to solve the contradictions of feelings, it is easy to be captured by green tea.
So, learn to resolve the contradictions in your relationships instead of trying to meet someone who can be completely tolerant of themselves.
3. Give yourself more love, not just from the outside world
Many women are attracted to green tea men because they need love too much.
But the more you pin your love on each other, the more fearless the other party is, and in the end, it will only be disappointed.
We must understand that what green tea men pay for themselves has a certain purpose.
So the safest love is always self-sufficiency.
As Jung said: The one who looks outward is in a dream, and the one who looks inward is the one who is awake.
We all have to find love from within ourselves, to feel love.
We must always stay sober and look at ourselves in the bureau, so as not to enter the trap of the green tea man and enter the vicious emotional vortex.
Only if you have a strong love in your heart, you will not be easily confused by the love given by the green tea man.
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Author | Daewoo Post-95 Gemini girl, engaged in the new media industry for 3 years, is willing to explore the differences in gender relations, and is good at marriage management, emotional management and self-improvement.