Who would have thought that the wrong exchange incident gradually evolved into a "mother-in-law war", and the plot was as wonderful as a TV series, attracting many netizens to eat melons.
On May 12, daughter-in-law Xiong Lei posted: "Mother Xu, please stop hurting each other, we are all tired." ”
Judging from the title, this is a summation article, but the content is still short for parents, using some life trivia to try to interfere with everyone's attention to the pursuit of the truth.
In the text, Xiong Lei is obviously upset and thinks that he is the most aggrieved person.
First, the debt is heavy, is it to see Yao Ce, or does Yao Dad have bad habits?
This is the first time xiong lei has publicly targeted Yao Dad, and it has also received everyone's attention.
In everyone's impression, Yao Dad is a person with a calm personality, who does not speak much, but has always accompanied Xu Mama.
Especially on the day of the trial, Xu Mama was surrounded by many enthusiastic netizens, Xu Mama was moved to tears, and it was Yao Dad who supported her arm and walked forward.
It is really warm, some netizens praised Yao Dad: "There is a steely will on the body, but also the responsibility of the husband and the depth of the father's love." ”
Yao Dad's warmth, from the video when Guo Wei came home, can be seen that Yao Dad is very good at cooking, Xu Mom ran in and out to interact with the family, Yao Dad has been in the kitchen to stir fry vegetables, cut fruits.
Xu Mama also said in the video that after the wrong exchange incident, Yao Dad did not say anything outside, not that his heart was not uncomfortable, but he did not want to say his heart everywhere, only when he was alone, he would run to the stairwell to smoke and alleviate the bitterness in his heart.
It can be seen that Yao Dad is the top pillar of the family and the person who is respected by everyone, but Xiong Lei suddenly turned the spearhead to Xu Dad, what is the meaning?
The purpose is obvious, that is, to destroy the image of Yao Dad, so that everyone feels that there is a problem with Yao Dad's character, so that what he says is not credible.
It is really painstaking, in order to disturb the line of sight, I have to say, Xiong Lei, quite fierce.
Some netizens asked Xu Mama about this matter: "Personal integrity is the most important, Xu Min, please reply." ”
Xu Min replied with 33 words: "We have open and transparent information, supervision by the Public Prosecutor's Office, and those who slander and create rumors, we reserve the right to pursue the law." ”
I believe that Xu Mama has also seen Xiong Lei's article, but she did not tear each other apart, showing the responsibility of an elder, but also reminded the other party that they are adults, need to be responsible for their words and deeds, and grandstanding also needs to have a bottom line.
Second, Xu Mama's search for the truth, in the end, is it for 8 million?
Xiong Lei said at the beginning that the heat on the Internet is all fried by Xu Ma, as long as the heat comes down, something will be done to maintain the heat, in order to infinitely close to 8 million.
Really funny, the bear is really smart, just wrote a few articles, just know to use exaggerated numbers bo eyeballs.
But everything needs to be based on, and I want to ask the bear 2 questions.
1. Xu Mama spent more than 500,000 yuan to see Yao Ce, and the compensation obtained in the lawsuit went into whose pocket?
2. The house that Xu Mama paid for, who lives now?
Let's not talk about Xu Mama's 28 years of raising Yao Ce, that is the instinct of maternal love, and it is also Xu Mama's willingness, because she regards Yao Ce as her own son.
Let's say that these visible figures and pay, in the end who profited, little bear, don't you have points in your heart?
Trying to smear Xu Ma's efforts with trivialities such as buying gifts for Xu Ma can only be said to be too naïve.
Everyone's eyes are shining, who is really paying, who is sensational, you can see at a glance.
In fact, Xu Mama has long said that she is not for anything else, just to seek a truth, so that similar tragedies will not happen again.
She proposed financial compensation for raising the child, which was completely legitimate, because the child she had raised for 28 years was gone, and if it were not for the wrong change, perhaps Yao Ce would not have died so young.
Similarly, Du Xinzhi can also ask to track down the truth and put forward his own demands, which are all reasonable.
Speaking of heat, I really did not see Xu Mama take the initiative to break the news, Xu Mama's speech on the Internet was asked by netizens, and at the beginning it was just an ordinary user, and only did identity authentication under the reminder of netizens.
On the other hand, Xiong Lei, at the beginning of the identity authentication, and the name is "Yao Ce lover Xiong Lei", several articles released are purposeful attacks on Xu Ma, in the end who needs heat, at a glance.
Third, if you want to go back to the house, have you given Xiong Lei time to consider?
In fact, the original wrong exchange incident had nothing to do with Xiong Lei, but because she occupied the house and did not return it, it became a topic.
Regarding the house, Xiong Lei said in her last article that she did not return the house, but that Yao Ce and Du Mu had proposed 4 plans, all of which were rejected by Xu Ma.
In a recording, Du Xinzhi called Xu Mama and suggested that Xu Mama pay the balance of Yao Ce's house, and she could find a way to transfer the house to Guo Wei on the same day, which also confirmed Xiong Lei's statement.
That is to say, when this house was actually Yao Ce, they discussed it many times and tried to find a reasonable solution.
A recording by Yao Ce also confirms that in fact, Du Xinzhi and Guo Xikuan are hesitating, because they are worried that if they are found to be "secretly changed", the house may be sealed, so they want to wait for the truth to come out and then decide.
This is enough to show that not returning the house is not that there is no time to discuss, but That Du Xinzhi is waiting for the truth, Xiong Lei is waiting for the house, and in her heart, the precondition for returning the house is that she must have a suite.
Later, Du Xinzhi did not transfer the house to Guo Wei, on the contrary, Guo Wei also took the initiative to move out of the house, this matter became simple, since Xiao Xiong felt that Du Mu was kind and thrifty, then return the house to Xu Ma and move to Du Mu's house.
This can also cultivate the feelings of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and also allow Du Xinzhi to feel the joy of heaven and have the opportunity to make up for the love owed to Yao Ce.
Write at the back:
From all angles, Xiong Lei does not need to post online posts attacking Xu Mama and Yao Dad.
As a former daughter-in-law, Xu Mama and Yao Dad are helpful and loving to themselves, and everyone must have a grateful heart and repay morality with resentment, which is the evil of human nature.
I appreciate that Yuan Ziwen said in the book "You Want to Be Good": "All the heart is a big fanfare, and the real strength should be silent." ”
The light ones are self-clearing, and the turbid ones are self-turbid.
Wise people, know how to encounter problems to trace back to the source, wrong exchange of events, resulting in two children's life trajectory has changed, so that the two families to bear the pain of wrong exchange, what we really have to do is to find the reason, in order to avoid similar tragedies from the source.
At this time, it is unwise to use some short trivia in the parents to interfere with the pursuit of the truth, Xiao Xiong, if you really love Yao Ce, follow up with Xu Mama to track down the truth.
On the day the truth came out, who was right and who was right, it was clear at a glance, and there was no need to argue.