In 2018, the 60th birthday of musician Chen Baiqiang, his former manager Chen Jiaying recalled the past and said that she and Chen Baiqiang both liked to watch the moonlight, and at that time they would go to see the moonlight every time they went to the stage.
No one should dislike the moonlight, right? Regardless of the full moon lacks its beauty. When we look at the moonlight, we always think of the clouds and clouds in our lives, everyone will leave, but the moon is always there. Looking at the moonlight in the sky, you suddenly understand the brevity of life, and you suddenly understand parting.
I don't know Chen Baiqiang, but I met him shortly before his accident. At that time, there was a very famous Japanese restaurant in Lan Kwai Fong, called Kihachi, which was very popular and was almost full every night. There, you often meet many celebrities who go to a nearby nightclub after eating. It was the golden age of Lan Kwai Fong.
That night, I was having dinner with my friends at Xiba, and Chen Baiqiang was sitting near me, and he didn't seem to be in a good mood, and that was my last impression of him. Two or three months later, he had an accident and never woke up.
Chen Jiaying recalled that in the last days before his death, Chen Baiqiang felt that he could not write songs, and so much inspiration from before suddenly seemed to be gone, and his mood was very bad.
The pursuit of perfection is painful, right? The moon is not always round, but we always demand that we be perfect, we don't like to see our shortcomings, and we don't like others to see them.
We strive for perfection, embarrassing ourselves and the people around us. Once we find ourselves imperfect, we hate ourselves. We want the person we love to be perfect as well. He fulfilled all my imaginations and expectations, and if he let me down, if he wasn't perfect, I would hate him.
I used to be the one who sought perfection, and in the end, I let myself down. Where will there be any perfection? It's all illusory, it's all self-inflicted. The full moon is very beautiful, and the lack of moon is also very beautiful.
Slowly, slowly, you know that you can have demands on yourself, even higher demands, but, that's just a goal, and you go all out and be ashamed of yourself, and that's enough. Try your best, even if you don't do it well, don't blame yourself.
Even if you are not perfect, why do you ask others to be perfect? There is no perfect love in the world, but mutual tolerance. Because of love, so inclusive; because of understanding, so inclusive. None of us are perfect, and that's why someone else needs to perfect us. Because of your presence, I know that imperfection is also happy.
When I was young, I only knew how to blindly pursue perfection, not so young, and after walking through the days of hundreds of holes, I knew that it was not easy to live, and only then did I let others go.
We all work hard just fine. Where is there perfection and perfection? Our hearts can't even be complete, just make it up, make it up with ourselves, make it up with the people we love, and make it up with our own lives. This merger is not negative, but understanding.
As long as you are a kind person, as long as you are willing to work hard, as long as you have something to pursue, you are only a little bit away from consummation. (Text/Zhang Xiaoxian, 55 years old, writer)
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