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Nowadays, the relationship between men and women is almost a common thing in life, and it has become a particularly important part, but with the progress of society and people's concepts are slowly changing, the perception of gender relations has become very different.
But in people's daily communication, they often hear such an opinion: "It's the same when you take off your pants, what's the difference between a woman and a woman, why marry a woman?"
For this statement, the superficial meaning is that appearance is not the only criterion, and individual differences are the most important.
However, the hidden essence behind it is: "A woman can marry anyone on the street, why should she marry you, the same is true for men, women can go out and walk sideways, why do you want to marry a man!"
It is not difficult to see that the implication of this sentence is that there is infidelity in the relationship between the sexes, and this infidelity has both the phenomenon of splitting legs and going out to seek.
Factors to consider when choosing a boyfriend or girlfriend.
In people's daily life, it is almost impossible to see a person who does not have sex relations, although the number is small, but gender relations are undoubtedly an important part of people's "must-haves".
Among the many sexual relationships, couples and husbands and wives are the most encountered, and the types of relationships that take infidelity are roughly divided into two types: material and spiritual infidelity, and when examining these two kinds of infidelity, it is found that women only account for half of the number of unfaithful relationships, why do people have to interpret this infidelity as the nature of men, and even men and women go out to spend flowers together, and think that this is the right way, from the perspective of screening true feelings and false intentions, this seems quite unreasonable.
When discussing the psychology of men's external seeking, first of all, from the perspective of men choosing their partners, human nature is complex, and human needs are more diverse, and men will also consider many factors when choosing partners, not only appearance.
As the saying goes: "Women are all the same" reveals the meaning behind it: "Wouldn't it be nice to find a woman who is exactly the same?"
But there is a saying that "it is difficult to choose a mate, and it is even more difficult to get along", is it okay to use the same kind of person?
In fact, this is not the case, and there is also the assertion of social environment and cultural background.
Men actually need more emotional support, or should it be said that life support, for them, a partner who can work together with them and grow together is more important, so the ideas cultivated in the same social environment are also diverse, so everyone will have room for choice.
From the perspective of human nature, it is obvious that the sentence "women are the same" does not make sense, and the object of this introduction is the opposite sex around him, not the same as any other woman.
Individual differences lead to differences in treatment.
It can be seen that the orientation of this sentence is not to pursue the appearance of the opposite sex, but to understand the inside of the other party as much as possible, which especially reflects the role of individual differences.
In the article "3 Reasons Why Men Like Women in Gender Relations", the above issues are discussed, first of all, it is undeniable that appearance, men like women must look at the appearance of women, but not only appearance, too shallow, but also can not ignore appearance.
Appearance is the most intuitive information communicated between people, and men's eyes can already see some clues in the growth of time under the years and age, but not only look at the appearance, but also look at the inner quality contained in the appearance.
Appearance determines gravity, but inner quality determines motivation, and the quality of a man for women is also diverse, and it is also different from person to person, and it will not be the same as any woman.
A person's most important facial features can see whether a person's appearance is good, but it cannot tell whether a person's character is good or not.
A person's character is not in the face, a person's appearance can see a person's price, but not a person's character.
If we want to explore this idea that "the appearance is the same" and "the woman is the same", we can expand on it, and the inner meaning of this sentence is simply "the appearance is the same, the inside does not matter", but this is impossible.
First of all, under the standard of appearance, unless two people are twins, there are always two people who are different, at this point, I feel that the appearance and the woman correspond to undoubtedly those who can only look at one person, there is only one person in the mind, and they will not think about it for three seconds, for people who have ideas, the appearance must not be the same, and the inner part, good men will care, and bad people are only in the accident table.
In addition to the irreplaceable standard of appearance, men will have a lot of considerations for their partners, but in the concept that "women are the same when they take off", it is not only about appearance.
The development of society has provided people with more and more abundant lives, and various temptations have sprung up like mushrooms after a rain, and due to the expansion of social circles, people have more and more communication with each other, which provides an opportunity for "seeking outside".
As the saying goes: "Men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", with the development of society, it has now become "men are afraid of marrying the wrong person, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", which is also one of the reasons why men are willing to seek out.
In the relationship between men and women, the expectations of Party A and Party B are often different, but there are always people who put the two camps on the same starting line and think that they are the same, so on the two issues of male and female expectations, it is more reasonable to make it clear that different people will have different definitions of the same people.
But in the same expectations, there are often some "clusters", in the same camp, often have the same problems, and this problem will also be reflected in different camps, men often have the following problems in choosing a partner: First, men's additional needs, also known as "three views" and "white rich beauty", which is also a very representative one.
Additional needs for men.
When the harmony within a family develops well, men often do not think about women outside at this time, and are very confident in their families, thinking that no one can do better than his women outside of their own women, which is the first concept of men.
The second concept is that people who are lazy and lazy often have such a concept, they say it well, but in fact it is not like this, what they say is crazy, but in fact they can rarely do it.
This kind of person is often very demanding of his partner, thinking that the woman outside is not good, and has lost a lot for this, rather than this, it is better to marry a wishful person, so that he can get a good life.
The third idea is to marry a favorable woman; If you marry a rich woman, you will have a better life in the future, such a person is obvious to all, and the final result will definitely not be good.
Such people will definitely be punished in the end, but there is still no shortage of such people in life, and the women they marry are also the objects of their use.
The fourth is that multiple people are responsible, there is a general direction, many people have a big difference in the concept of marriage, some people advocate not cheating in marriage, and some people think that it is common to find someone to go out to cheat.
But the direction of this cheating is not a good concept, in fact, when encountering marriage, you still have to see your own thoughts, if you have no requirements for marriage, just live a life, then it will not be too difficult to choose, but if you have your own expectations for marriage, you must find someone who meets your ideas, otherwise you will regret it in the future!
epilogue
Between men and women, infidelity is particularly common, some people divorce because of outside seeking, and some people are injured or injured because of this, so for the relationship between the sexes, we should still cherish the people around us, respect others, respect loyalty, do not do things that are sorry for ourselves, and do not make each other sad.