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At the beginning of 2022, the tear-jerking drama "The World" became popular on the Internet, and the role of Zhou Rong played by Xiao Song Jia was deeply loved by the audience.
But some people have a lot of criticism about the role of Zhou Rong, thinking that she "doesn't care about the feelings of others" and "is a little selfish".
It seems that when Xiao Song Jia created this character with a distinct personality, she can be said to have incorporated some of her own emotional experiences.
So, what emotional turmoil has this powerful actress who walked out of Harbin experienced on her life path?
1. 被逼着学柳琴
Winters in Harbin are always extraordinarily long, with cold winds blowing and heavy snowfall.
In 1980, on a cold autumn day, a pair of novice parents ushered in the arrival of the first little angel in their lives - Song Jia.
For this little baby, the whole family loves it very much.
But who knew that Song Jia would grow up to be a naughty and naughty child, often running around, giving her parents a headache.
In order to give their daughter a good environment to grow up, Song Jia's parents decided to let her learn liuqin.
At first, Song Jia was not interested in this, and practicing every day was a torment.
But her parents insisted on not giving up, and finally with unremitting encouragement, Song Jia slowly fell in love with Liuqin, and felt the sense of accomplishment brought by music in the process.
From then on, she began to devote herself to the study of Liuqin.
It was this experience of being forced to learn Liuqin that made Song Jia develop a persistent and serious heart.
Later, after entering the acting path, this spirit of focus and dedication also allowed her to continue to improve in her acting career.
It can be said that those difficult days have made today's Song Jia.
As the saying goes, "the boat is naturally straight to the bridge", fate gave Song Jia a chance and let her use her talent to succeed.
2. Entered the showbiz by chance
18-year-old Song Jia was successfully admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy and started her acting career.
During her time in school, Song Jia not only worked hard in her studies, but also developed her own in the emotional world.
Song Jia's first relationship occurred in high school, when she was still a simple little girl.
Later, for various reasons, the relationship came to an end.
After entering college, Song Jia experienced another campus romance, but eventually broke up because of irreconcilable contradictions.
But it was during this time that Song Jia met a director boy who fell in love with her at first sight.
The two soon came together and started a sweet relationship.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and this relationship came to an end with the arrival of graduation.
Perhaps it was these emotional experiences that made Song Jia know more about how to manage her love life.
In terms of acting career, Song Jia has also maintained a professional attitude and a positive attitude.
In 2003, she officially entered the public eye with her outstanding performance in "Hibiscus Out of the Water".
Shortly thereafter, Song Jia met the famous agent Wang Jinghua in the crew of "Curiosity Kills the Cat".
At the invitation of Wang Jinghua, Song Jia decided to go to Beijing for development.
Since then, her acting career has become wider and wider.
3. From campus romances to celebrity scandals
After entering Beijing, Song Jia's career is thriving, and she has gradually gained a certain reputation in the industry.
At the same time, her love life is also in the spotlight.
In 2003, Song Jia and actor Chen Long fell into a love whirlpool.
The two met and fell in love in the crew and got along together for 3 years.
It's just a pity that with the take-off of Song Jia's career, the two finally chose to break up peacefully.
Shortly thereafter, Song Jia's scandals continued one after another.
There are reports that she and director Zhang Li have an ulterior "underground romance".
At that time, Zhang Li had just divorced his ex-wife, and public opinion once pushed Song Jia to the forefront.
In the face of overwhelming doubts, Song Jia had to come forward to clarify, but the power of public opinion was too great, and her reputation was greatly affected.
Even so, Song Jia still did not give up love.
In 2008, she had another scandal with singer Xie Tianxiao.
However, in the end, this rumor was not confirmed.
It can be said that Song Jia's emotional road is full of ups and downs.
She once thought that "you can't live without love", and that kind of dedication to love has also become a unique mark on her character.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this that Song Jia has so many similarities with the character Zhou Rong in the play in dealing with emotional issues.
4. "Underground Romance" with Director Zhang Li
In 2007, when Song Jia was filming the TV series "Once Upon a Time in China", she had an affair with director Zhang Li again.
At that time, Zhang Li had just divorced his ex-wife Liu Bei, and Song Jia had also broken up with Chen Long for many years.
The relationship between the two has attracted widespread attention from public opinion.
It has been reported that Zhang Li always showed extra patience and carefulness when filming Song Jia's scenes, and even added a role in playing the liuqin for her.
All indications indicate that there may be an ulterior "underground romance" between the two.
Although Song Jia once clarified these claims, the photo evidence is ironclad.
Sure enough, in less than a year, the two were exposed to live together in an apartment.
This undoubtedly brought a great blow to Song Jia's reputation, and she was also pushed to the forefront, and netizens accused her of "meddling in other people's marriages".
Since then, Song Jia's image has been greatly affected.
5. A low-key 5-year relationship and a view of marriage
Although Song Jia's previous love life was controversial, she did not give up looking for her own happiness because of this.
In 2013, by chance, she met a low-key business elite.
The two hit it off at first sight and soon fell in love.
This mysterious man is not a film and television person, but an executive with extensive experience in the IT industry.
The two chose to keep a low profile and rarely appeared in public.
In the eyes of outsiders, such a love life may lack excitement, but for Song Jia, it is already her dream state of life.
"I finally understood that true happiness does not lie in the pursuit of excitement, but in mutual understanding and tolerance between two people." Song Jia once said this in an interview.
Now, Song Jia and this business elite have been in love for more than 5 years, and their relationship is still sweet.
Although the outside world has a lot of complaints about her previous relationship experience, Song Jia has never given up looking for happiness.
She firmly believes that as long as both parties treat each other sincerely, love can stand the test of time.
Regarding marriage, Song Jia also has a new view.
"I think marriage should not be a shackle, but should become a support for two people's lives. If two people really don't fit, why force themselves together?" She said.
Song Jia's words expressed her unique views on feelings and marriage.
She no longer takes love too seriously as before, but looks at it more rationally.
Perhaps it is because she has experienced too many twists and turns that she can look at married life so wisely.
Song Jia's emotional experience is undoubtedly ups and downs.
But she never gives up easily, but finds happiness again and again in her own way.
Now, she has finally found her own piece of heaven.
I believe that as long as Song Jia continues to uphold this perseverance and courage, she will be able to embrace a better life.
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