The old man of the Beijing subway broke the woman's thigh with a stick and his occupation was exposed! There is even a pension!
Do you think you can bear it? Forcing a seat does not turn into harassment!
On June 24, the scene on Beijing Metro Line 10 was really infuriating!
The 65-year-old man was very unkind and forcibly asked the girl to give up his seat, not only pointing at the girl's mouth, but also pulling the girl with a cane, which caused public outrage.
In the end, he was taken away by the police because of his involvement, and when he saw the result of the trial, netizens: Very happy!
The elderly are forced to give up their seats in the subway
"Respecting the old and loving the young" is the first lesson we must learn, and it is also a traditional virtue of the mainland. But recently, with the exposure of a video of the Beijing subway, the words "fine tradition" were slammed to the ground.
What we can see in this video is that an old man on crutches has just entered the subway car and stands in front of a young woman with a seat.
So, he asked the woman to stand up and give up her seat, but the woman said that she was unwell and could not get up to give up her seat for the time being.
After being rejected by the woman, the uncle became angry. Directly reach out and touch the girl's thigh with a cane, trying to force the girl to stand up. What's even worse is that he is still scolding in his mouth, and he can't wait to drag the girl directly from the seat.
Source: "An elderly man in Beijing took the subway and wanted the girl to give up his seat, and after being refused, he used crutches to pull back and forth between the woman's legs, and the police intervened", Henan TV's account Elephant Microvision, June 25, 2024.
When the people around saw such a scene, they were just onlookers at first. Later, the old man's behavior became more and more excessive, and many people expressed dissatisfaction and anger, and scolded him to stop such behavior immediately.
But the old man didn't listen. is even more arrogant and unreasonable, and takes on a posture of "relying on the old and selling the old", which makes netizens very annoyed.
In the Internet era, the fermentation speed of videos is fast, and this matter quickly rushed to the hot search list. So, netizens expressed their opinions one after another and "output" to the old man.
Some people say that this is "the hooligan is old", some people say that it is "disrespectful for the elderly", and some people directly call out to the Beijing police, demanding that the old man be severely punished.
In the end, the Beijing public transport police quickly made a report, and the uncle "Ye Moumou" in the video has been administratively detained by the police in accordance with the law for disrupting the order of the ride. Netizens said: It's really happy!
Source: Beijing Public Transport Police Official Weibo: Situation Briefing, June 25, 2024, 13:09.
Although the incident is over, the behavior of this old man who "showed his might" on the subway is also worthy of in-depth investigation.
Moral kidnapping
What this old man did on the subway perfectly illustrates what is called "moral kidnapping". He never thought that letting others give up their seats was in itself a voluntary act of others, not an obligation.
In his eyes, as long as he is old, he should take it for granted that he should enjoy the "special care" of others. So that whether others want to or not is not within his consideration at all.
He also fully demonstrated what is called "double standard" behavior. While he demands "respect for the elderly" from others, he has no respect for the "young" children.
The girl clearly explained that it was inconvenient to give up her seat because she was not feeling well. But the old man not only did not understand at all, but also spoke ill of each other, and even moved his hands and feet. This kind of behavior is simply "disrespectful to the old".
The reason why he dared to act so unscrupulously was also because he felt that in this society, the elderly were a "vulnerable group", and others could not do anything about him.
But the question is, is it just because a person is old that he can do whatever he wants, ignore social morality, and trample on the dignity of others?
The answer, of course, is no!
This matter is challenging the bottom line of social morality, and the reaction of the public has given a clear answer. Everyone strongly condemned the old man's behavior and expressed sympathy and support for the victim.
So, why is there such a phenomenon of "relying on the old and selling the old"? Could it be that these old people naturally like to bully others by relying on their age?
A harmonious society requires the efforts of many parties
Many elderly people, after retirement, have a very stressful life. Coupled with the fact that their children are busy with work and cannot be with them, they are more likely to feel lonely, anxious, and even insecure.
In this case, it is easier for them to show an "aggressiveness" to the outside world, hoping to attract the attention of others and gain the attention of others in this way.
On top of that, when it comes to education, many families also have some problems. Many parents are overly doting and overprotective of their children, which leads to a lack of independence and a lack of social responsibility.
And when these children, when they grow up, it is easy to form self-centered values, lack of care for others, and lack a sense of responsibility for society.
And these children will eventually become old people.
It can be seen that the phenomenon of "relying on the old and selling the old" is not a simple "bad guy getting old". There are complex social reasons behind it.
The important thing is that the matter of "respecting the old and loving the young" still depends on the joint efforts of everyone. Moral kidnapping, accusations and invective alone will not solve the problem. In the end, it will even exacerbate the conflict and make things worse.
Our country should strengthen the education of social morality, so that the four words "respect for the old and love for the young" are no longer an empty slogan, but become everyone's heartfelt actions.
School education, family education, and social education all have to keep up. Children must know from an early age that respect for the elderly is not because they are old, but because they have contributed to this society, and we should be grateful and reciprocate.
Improving the level of public services is also something that everyone should participate in. On the subway and bus, there are more special seats for the "old, weak, sick, disabled and pregnant", and more volunteer services, so that there will be many fewer contradictions.
It is important that the media also exert positive energy and not always stare at those "traffic passwords". It is necessary to report more touching deeds of respecting the old and loving the young, and publicize more advanced models of respecting the elderly, providing for the elderly, and helping the elderly.
The author thinks
Giving up your seat is a virtue, but it is never an obligation. Allow, others should thank you for your kindness and understanding; If you don't, others are not qualified to kidnap you morally.
If you are in good health and the seat is not crowded, if you see the elderly, pregnant women or passengers with children, take the initiative to give up your seat, which is definitely a plus, reflecting your personal quality and sense of social responsibility.
But if you're not feeling well, or if you have other special circumstances, there's no need to force yourself. After all, everyone is responsible for their own choices.
In public places such as subways and buses, we should abide by social morality, respect others, understand each other, and tolerate each other.
It is worth mentioning that everyone will grow old and become the one who needs to be taken care of.
Instead of waiting until you are old, relying on the old and selling the old, and kidnapping others morally, it is better to be a kind person, an upright person, and a person who contributes to society from now on.