In the summer, when the weather gets hotter, it is a very happy thing to be able to eat a cold drink.
However, many children are not allowed to eat cold drinks, because parents are worried that if their children eat cold drinks, it will affect their children's health and cause their children to have diarrhea or something.
However, these parents may not know that not letting their children eat cold drinks has a certain impact on their children's future development.
Children are not allowed to eat cold drinks from an early age, and as a result, they grow up to become "out of control"
In the hot summer, the most refreshing thing, in addition to eating watermelon in the air-conditioned room, is to eat cold drinks.
In the summer, many parents will buy a lot of ice cream and other cold drinks at home, so that children can cool off and quench their thirst when it is hot.
However, not all children are so happy.
Compared with other children, Ono's childhood was a lack of "cold drinks", because Ono was "not in good health" when he was a child, and he was likely to have stomach aches and other conditions if he ate cold drinks.
Therefore, Ono's parents do not buy cold drinks for the family, and they do not allow Ono to buy cold drinks to eat by himself, that is, in the whole hot summer, Ono can't enjoy the cold taste of cold drinks at all.
Ono can't eat cold drinks, but he has a great desire for cold drinks, so whenever Ono walks on the street and sees other children eating cold drinks, he is a very envious feeling, it seems that everything in this world is bleak, and only cold drinks are the greatest wealth.
Sometimes, Ono also thought about buying cold drinks secretly, but halfway through, he muttered in his heart.
Because Mom and Dad told themselves that cold drinks are a bad thing, not only are they not delicious, but they will get sick if they eat cold drinks.
If you really go to eat, once you get sick, your parents will find out that they are secretly eating cold drinks, and they will definitely scold themselves at that time.
Therefore, Ono finally gave up the idea of "stealing food", because Ono was convinced that his parents would definitely not lie to him, cold drinks must be a bad thing, cold drinks are not edible, and those children who eat cold drinks will definitely get sick when they go home, although they look happy.
However, trust is trust, and Ono has actually had countless questions in his heart, since cold drinks are not delicious and sick, why do everyone look so happy when they eat cold drinks? Why is it rare to see yourself, which child gets sick because of eating cold drinks?
These doubts plague Ono all the time, that kind of ambivalence, so that Ono's mood has become a little unstable, after all, his expectations are limited by his parents, his own needs can not be met, Ono's heart is actually a little dissatisfied, sometimes even inexplicably angry, Ono doesn't know why he is angry.
Time passed day by day, and Ono was growing up little by little.
When entering the rebellious period, Ono's heart had a great desire for cold drinks, so he made an "amazing" decision, that is, to eat cold drinks behind his parents' back.
And after tasting the wonderful taste of cold drinks, Ono was instantly stunned, cold drinks are obviously delicious, and he doesn't get sick after eating them, why do his parents never let him eat them, and say that eating cold drinks is not good?
In this regard, Ono was very puzzled, and began to distrust his parents, and the parent-child relationship gradually became estranged.
Ono's changes don't stop there, after enjoying the delicious taste of cold drinks many times, he found that he was not sick, so he began to eat cold drinks unscrupulously, so to speak, with a vengeance.
One night, after having dinner, Ono ate 3 popsicles and 3 boxes of ice cream in one go, but the next day he started to have a toothache and a little uncomfortable stomach.
This incident made Ono understand that eating cold drinks could indeed cause illness, but Ono did not reduce his distrust of his parents......
It can be said that the fact that his parents did not let Ono eat cold drinks has become an important reason for the estrangement between Ono and his parents.
In addition, not allowing Ono to eat cold drinks has also affected many aspects of Ono.
There is a significant 4-point gap between children who are restricted from eating cold drinks and those who are allowed to eat cold drinks when they grow up
Keeping children from eating cold drinks really has an important impact on children's future development, and among these influences, these four aspects are the most typical.
(1) Trust in emotions will be affected
Allowing children not to eat cold drinks has a certain impact on the child's emotional trust, because in the child's heart, his parents must be the best person for him.
It can even be said that children will think that their parents are the whole world when they are young, and everything their parents say and do is good for themselves, so children have a strong sense of trust in their parents.
If one day the child discovers that cold drinks are not the "flood beast" in the mouth of the parents, they may have great doubts about their parents, and therefore will lose trust in the emotion of family affection.
It is important to know that the affection between parents and children is the deepest and most important emotion for children, and if this emotion is broken, then other emotions may also be affected.
For example, children will also distrust others, unable to deliver their emotions, become selfish, and even grow up to not care about any emotions, becoming a "ruthless" person.
Such examples are actually very common in our lives, some children who were "deceived" by their parents when they were young, when they grow up, they no longer trust their emotions, they do everything with themselves as the center, and never consider the feelings of others, even if they do, it is based on their own interests, rather than genuinely thinking about others.
(2) It has a great impact on the development of emotional character
Children who are forbidden to eat cold drinks as children may grow up to be more extreme and emotionally unstable.
This is mainly because when they want to eat cold drinks when they are young, they have been frequently blocked and restricted by their parents, and their own needs cannot be met in time, which will affect the construction of children's psychological environment.
Long-term dissatisfaction will cause children to have great psychological contradictions, on the one hand, they think that they should not have this "need", but on the other hand, they can't help but want to get this "need".
As a result, children's mood swings will be greater, and their personality will become excessive, irritable, impulsive, withdrawn and indifferent, which is not conducive to children's character formation and emotional control. At the same time, it will continue to affect their emotional stability and relationships as they become adults.
(3) Lack of self-control
This is especially evident when children grow up. Children who are allowed to eat cold drinks from an early age have different cravings for cold drinks than children who are not allowed to eat cold drinks, and they do not grow up with crazy ideas about cold drinks.
However, those children who are not allowed to eat cold drinks from an early age may stimulate a "compensatory mentality" after they have the conditions to eat cold drinks independently.
In order to make up for the regret of not being able to eat cold drinks when they were young, they eat cold drinks like crazy when they grow up, and even when their children feel that their behavior is wrong, it is difficult to exercise effective self-control.
Moreover, this situation does not stop at cold drinks, those children who were not allowed to eat cold drinks when they were children are easy to burst out of "compensation psychology" when they encounter some things that were once restricted, resulting in "overcompensation" and complete loss of self-control.
(4) The degree of physical health may vary
Many adults say that children eating cold drinks will affect their health, and the reason given is that the temperature of cold drinks is too low, and the children's gastrointestinal function is relatively weak, and after ingesting cold drinks with very low temperatures, it will stimulate the stomach and intestines, which will lead to further restrictions on gastrointestinal function and cause some health problems, such as abdominal pain, indigestion and so on.
But in reality, children who are allowed to eat cold drinks from an early age may be healthier.
I don't know if you have heard of such a sentence, that is, "if you don't dry it, you won't get sick if you eat it", in fact, it doesn't mean that eating dirty things will be healthier, but those foods that are slightly "not dry and clean" can increase the adaptability of our stomach and intestines to the flora, so as to make the stomach stronger.
Eating cold drinks has a similar effect, allowing our stomach and intestines to gradually adapt to a more complex environment, thus making the gastrointestinal function more powerful.
Therefore, on the whole, it is better not to completely restrict children from eating cold drinks, but we should not completely indulge children, but we must achieve a reasonable diet.
When allowing your child to eat cold drinks, these 3 points should not be overlooked
First of all, not all children can eat cold drinks, such as when sweating during strenuous exercise, during illness, when the temperature is low, etc., it is not suitable to eat cold drinks, and then give cold drinks in moderation after the body naturally cools down.
Therefore, it is necessary to determine in a timely manner, according to the specific situation of the child to analyze whether it can be eaten or not, and it is not recommended to eat when it is too cold, too hot, or unwell.
Secondly, children need to pay attention to the "amount" of cold drinks, do not eat too much at a time, and the frequency of eating cold drinks should not be too frequent.
Because the child's stomach capacity is limited and the gastrointestinal function is not yet fully developed, eating too many cold drinks at one time can easily lead to stomach bloating, abdominal pain and other discomforts.
Parents should guide their children to take small sipes and enjoy the cool feeling brought by cold drinks, rather than greedy for more and faster.
In addition, although cold drinks are good, they should not be eaten every day or every meal. Frequent intake of cold drinks can weaken the child's spleen and stomach function, which may affect digestion and absorption in the long run.
Parents should set a reasonable frequency of cold beverage intake, such as no more than a few times a week, or only on specific occasions (such as summer afternoons) as a small reward. If cold drinks are not eaten in moderation, the child's health will definitely suffer.
Finally, children are not all cold drinks can eat, parents should carefully check the ingredient list when buying cold drinks, and choose those cold drinks with few additives, moderate sugar, and no unhealthy ingredients such as hydrogenated oils. Prioritize healthy drinks such as natural juices and yogurt as cold drinks for your child.
Avoid consuming too much sugar, hydrogenated oils, and additives, which are not good for your child's health.
Of course, if parents have time, they can also try to make their own cold drinks at home. This not only controls the quality and hygiene of the ingredients, but also allows them to be individually adjusted according to their tastes and nutritional needs, so that they can eat healthy and delicious cold drinks.
Write at the end
Cold drinks, in fact, are also part of children's beautiful childhood memories, and are also an indispensable factor in children's sweet life, one of the sources of children's happiness, and an important factor affecting children's healthy growth.
Therefore, it is recommended that parents do not treat cold drinks as a flood beast and completely keep their children out of contact, and can give their children some to eat appropriately.
Through scientific and reasonable arrangement and selection, children can enjoy the coolness and fun brought by cold drinks, while also ensuring the health and growth of the body.
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