It can be said that "The Story of Rose" is one of the best urban dramas in recent years, because its story content not only contains the two contents of "women" and "love", the group portraits of the heroes and heroines in the play represent all levels of society, showing the audience not only the emotional level and the human level of thinking, but also about the gap between the rich and the poor, the cruel contrast between the poor and the rich.
In the play, Fang Xiewen, played by Lin Gengxin, has all kinds of words and deeds after marriage, from investigating who Rose is going to eat with, to restricting Rose from going out to work, to wanting Rose to have a second child in order to tie her to the family, and even not letting Rose wear a skirt to go to the interview, all kinds of pictures and emojis have been made into various pictures and emojis by netizens, sarcastically ridiculing and ridiculing Fang Xiewen's inferiority complex and arrogance and desire for control. @第一滴露珠原创
However, Fang Xiewen actually has many advantages, and it can even be said that he is already one of the few outstanding people who are the hardest-working, most motivated, and have the most brains and development potential among the Phoenix men who came out of small towns.
01 Why can Huang Yimei be willful?
In the play, Huang Yimei, played by Liu Yifei, has always done things her own way, willful, loves when she wants to love, resign if she wants to resign, and get married if she wants to get married.
Why is she so bold and daring to do things regardless of the consequences?
Just because she has a way out at any time, she has the support of her parents and family, a Beijing hukou, and a local house.
Facing her first love Zhuang Guodong, Huang Yimei made a bold attack, the two looked at each other, and they didn't even need to confess, they directly held hands, kissed and rolled the sheets into Zhuang Guodong's residence, and then broke up, in addition to the pain of breaking up, Huang Yimei did not have any additional spiritual burden.
Because she knows that she has a pair of reasonable Kochi parents, a good brother who cares and loves her, and they will always be her spiritual and material support. @第一滴露珠
Married to the poor boy Fang Xiewen, lived in the attic after marriage, and rose had no complaints, because in her opinion, she was used to living a good life, for the sake of love, for her own choice, living such a poor life is a rare life experience.
As the saying goes, rich people don't care about money at all, and poor people spend money because they know the difficulty of not having money.
couldn't stand Fang Xiewen's desire to control, Rose said that if she divorced, she would divorce, and after the divorce, she would return to Beijing with her daughter.
Because she is pregnant with a baby, Huang Yimei, who has been away from the workplace for several years, is not afraid that when she looks for a job, she will be questioned by the interviewer, why there is a gap period of a few years, because Huang Yimei wants to make money, and someone is willing to invest in her every minute. @第一滴露珠原创文章
Whether it is earning money, pursuing a career, pursuing love and pursuing freedom, Huang Yimei has her own beauty, talent and various resources that are difficult for ordinary women to achieve, so her choice is fearless.
02 Why do Fang Xiewen and Su Su live so hard and step by step?
Because Su Su and Fang Xiewen are both from poor backgrounds, they are both outsiders, and they are both phoenix men and phoenix women from small places.
Su Su and Fang Xiewen are essentially a kind of person, otherwise, Huang Yimei said that as soon as she saw Fang Xiewen, she could think of her friend Su Su.
It's just that Su Su is stronger than Fang Xiewen because she knows how to reflect on her own flaws and weaknesses, and constantly adjust and improve.
Fang Xiewen only relied on hard work to arm himself, neglecting to improve his spiritual and cultural literacy, adjust and broaden his cognition.
Fang Xiewen has always had a deep sense of inferiority in front of Huang Yimei.
This kind of inferiority complex comes from Huang Yimei's beauty and excellence.
Although in the play, Huang Yimei only has 5 suitors before and after, but through those side descriptions, we can know that from childhood to adulthood, the men who pursue Huang Yimei have all kinds of excellent conditions, which can be described as countless.
Therefore, Fang Xiewen, who was fortunate enough to really get the love of roses, was both happy and panicked in his heart.
And the appearance of Zhuang Guodong has exacerbated his insecurity. @第一滴露珠原创文章
Fang Xiewen's inferiority complex also comes from Huang Yimei's crushing of him.
Beijing hukou, a big city girl, and parents are professors at Tsinghua University, these conditions invisibly suppress Fang Xiewen's sensitive self-esteem.
What's more, Huang Yimei's father and brother don't like Fang Xiewen, they are not optimistic about his character, and think that he is not worthy of his daughter (sister).
Fang Xiewen is so smart and sensitive, he can naturally feel the attitude of his father-in-law and eldest brother.
So Fang Xiewen worked hard to make money until the company expanded and moved to a new place.
Rose's parents went to Shanghai to see their pregnant daughter, and Rose's father asked how his daughter's business was doing, Fang Xiewen proudly replied that his company had expanded, and tried his best to invite his father-in-law to visit his new company, but his father-in-law didn't care, and immediately refused, saying that he wanted to accompany his daughter more.
Fang Xiewen invited his eldest brother and Su Su to visit his company, and Huang Zhenhua saw that he wanted to show off his psychology, and he was also angry.
Only Su Su understood Rose's situation and Fang Xiewen's mood, so she went to visit alone, and reminded Fang Xiewen to say something. @第一滴露珠
Fang Xiewen is certainly not good, but Father Rose and his brother are actually a little too high.
In their opinion, it is natural to come to visit Rose as the center of Rose, as for the son-in-law's company, we don't care if you have money or not, Rose is married to you, what do you have to show off.
invisibly further stabbed Fang Xiewen's self-esteem.
In the final analysis, we can't say who is right and who is wrong, we can only say that the classes are different and cannot be integrated.
03 The contrast between the rich and the poor in "The Story of Rose" is embarrassing when carefully analyzed
When the Huang Yimei siblings sat in an elegant restaurant with their parents to eat, and when their family strolled through the beautiful Tsinghua Garden, Fang Xiewen at that time may have been studying hard in the high school in his hometown, or helping his mother with housework, or working hard.
The children of the poor, the posture of hard work is not good-looking, climbing from the bottom to the top, naturally hunched over, bending down, step by step up.
And those who were born on the top of the mountain can naturally look down on the poor people who are working hard to climb the mountain below, point at them and say, "Look at their appearance, they are so ugly and ugly." ”
Therefore, Fang Xiewen's various strange performances after he had money were just a moment of pride for the poor to get rich, and after a long period of nourishment of wealth and success, Fang Xiewen's posture naturally became better-looking, and people will become more generous. @第一滴露珠原创文章
Later, Fang Xiewen has slowly realized his original mistake, if he really got rid of his desire for control and machismo, then he is actually the one with the highest comprehensive score among the 5 male protagonists in "The Story of Rose".
It's a pity that Rose's love only looks forward and will not stay, and Fang Xiewen can only "see Yang for life".
(Text/First Dewdrop)