On the topic of marriage, let's talk about our hearts today. First of all, we have to understand that getting married or not getting married is actually quite personal, and everyone thinks differently. Some people think it's good not to get married, to be able to spend more time with their parents, to give them a better life, it seems that their parents are "earning", but the considerations behind it are far more than these.
Why do my parents keep urging us to get married? In the end, it's because of love. They are not selfishly hoping that we will start a family sooner, but they are genuinely worried about us. They thought, when they are old and no longer with us, who will take care of us? Who will talk to us to relieve our boredom? They want us to have someone to rely on and face the ups and downs of life together. As children, we should be able to understand this feeling.
But today's young people really think differently than before. Boys may think, their current salary is so small, how much pressure is it to get married? I still have to support my family, what if the economy is tight? It's good to be single, to be free, to do whatever you want. As for the girls, many of them are financially independent and do not want to become "housewives" in the traditional sense, and they are even more unwilling to lose themselves in marriage and be affected by anger. They think that they can live well if they are single, so why do they have to get married?
Of course, there are difficulties in not getting married. For example, what should I do when I get old? Will you feel lonely? But then again, no one can say for sure what the future holds. Now that science and technology are so developed, maybe there will be more advanced ways to provide for the elderly in the future? For example, AI robots, smart homes, etc., can make our lives more convenient and comfortable. When we are old, we may be able to enjoy the convenience brought by these technologies.
So, parents don't be too anxious to urge their children to get married. The children have grown up and have their own ideas and pursuits. As parents, we should respect their choices and give them enough understanding and support. Of course, we can also give them some advice and guidance to help them better understand themselves, understand each other, and manage their relationships. But the final decision is still in their own hands.
Every child is a parent's heart, and we all want them to be able to live a happy and joyful life. But the criteria for happiness and joy vary from person to person, and there is no set pattern to follow. Some children may feel that marriage and having children are happiness; Some children may feel that the freedom of being single is the happiness they seek. Either way, we should be happy and proud of our children as long as they can find ways to make themselves happy.
I would like to conclude by saying that no matter what lifestyle you choose, as long as you have a happy, fulfilling and meaningful life, it is the best choice. As parents, we will always love you, support you, and accompany you through every stage of life.