Li Jia, a talented girl who graduated from the acting department of Beijing Film Academy, should have had a brilliant acting career. Her acting career started smoothly, and she received her first play in her life after graduating from college.
As a professional, she is humble and low-key, starting from a small role, accumulating experience step by step and honing her acting skills. In 2003, the opportunity finally came. Li Jia starred in the film "Warm" directed by Huo Jianhua, and won the Best Actress Award at the 16th Tokyo Film Festival with her outstanding performance.
This award seems to have opened the door to the showbiz for her, from 2003 to 2014 for more than ten years, Li Jia has works almost every year, with continuous resources and a thriving career.
However, just when her career was in full swing, Li Jia's love life experienced a turmoil. In the early days of her fame, she met a rich and handsome man outside the circle. The man launched a passionate pursuit of Li Jia, and his considerate and generous actions quickly impressed the young Li Jia.
After a brief relationship, she gladly accepted the other party's marriage proposal. Life after marriage is not as sweet as imagined. Li Jia's husband has a great prejudice against the profession of actor, and in his eyes, actors are no different from those "actors who bring disaster to the country and the people".
He began to obstruct Li Jia's career development in every possible way, hoping that she could quit the showbiz and teach her husband and children at home. However, how can Li Jia, who is on the rise in her career, easily give up the acting career she loves? She is passionate about acting and can't accept giving up her dreams for the sake of her family.
The differences between the two gradually deepened, which eventually led to the end of this marriage that lasted for 3 years. This failed marriage brought a huge blow to Li Jia. For a long time after the divorce, she was in a slump, as if she had lost the direction of her life.
Although she is trying to complete various tasks at work, she is like a walking corpse in private, and her heart is tormented. This experience made Li Jia deeply appreciate the fragility of marriage, and also made her full of anxiety about her future love life.
Who would have thought that this once high-spirited actress would lose herself in the whirlpool of feelings? However, life is always full of turnarounds, and an unexpected encounter is about to bring new hope to Li Jia's life.
In 2010, the god of fate favored Li Jia again. On the set of the TV series "Youth Never Say Die", she met Jin Dong, who also experienced emotional setbacks. This encounter is like two wounded souls finding each other's harbor.
Jin Dong, a powerful actor who stepped into the showbiz as early as 17 years old with "Oriental Merchant", has a smooth career. After graduating from university, he was nominated for the Outstanding Newcomer Award at the Film Huabiao Awards for the movie "Autumn Rain", and his acting career is booming.
However, emotionally, he has just ended his 5-year relationship with Jiang Shan, and he also has scars in his heart. The two excellent actors met on the set and soon developed a tacit understanding.
They are all from professional backgrounds and share a common love and understanding of acting. In between filming, the two often exchanged acting experiences and discussed the details of the script. Gradually, they find that they have too many topics in common with each other, and before they know it, they become friends who talk about everything.
Both Li Jia and Jin Dong have experienced emotional failures, which have become a unique emotional bond between them. They confided in each other, shared their journeys, and found solace in the exchange.
The two of them are like each other's healing medicine, slowly healing each other's inner wounds. In getting along day and night, Jin Dong was attracted by Li Jia's talent and strength. He saw that this woman maintained a positive and optimistic attitude after experiencing the failure of her marriage, and he couldn't help but feel a deep admiration for her.
Gradually, Jin Dong realized that his feelings for Li Jia had gone beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends. So, Jin Dong began his pursuit of Li Jia for half a year. Even when filming is at its busiest, he will find time to express his heart to Li Jia.
His enthusiasm and sincerity made Li Jia feel unprecedented warmth. However, the failure of her marriage made Li Jia cautious. She was afraid of getting hurt again and didn't dare to step into a new relationship easily.
In the face of Jin Dong's pursuit, she hesitated again and again, struggling in her heart. But Jin Dong's persistence finally moved Li Jia. She saw the sincerity in Jin Dong's eyes and felt the sense of security he gave.
Finally, Li Jia mustered up the courage and decided to give it a go for love again and accepted Jin Dong's pursuit. This hard-won relationship made the two cherish it doubly. Jin Dong soothed Li Jia's inner trauma with thoughtfulness and care, and gave her enough security.
Li Jia supported Jin Dong's career with gentleness and understanding, and became his strongest backing. They heal each other, grow together, and compose a moving love concerto.
In this relationship, Li Jia regained her confidence in love, and Jin Dong also found the most important partner in her life. Their meeting is not only the luck of two people, but also the beginning of a beautiful marriage.
Under the nourishment of love, Li Jia regained her confidence in life. However, as she approached the age of 40, she was faced with a major choice between career and family. This time, she resolutely chose her family.
After filming "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad", Li Jia officially announced her retirement from the showbiz and ended her 16-year acting career. This decision has left many people baffled. Li Jia finally gained a foothold in the entertainment industry, why should she give up her hard-won achievements? However, for Li Jia, the failed marriage made her cherish the happiness of the moment even more.
She hopes to devote herself to family life and create a warm haven for her husband and children. Especially after the birth of her eldest son, she became even more determined in this idea.
In 2015, the opportunity finally came. Jin Dong became popular all over the country with the corner of Minglou in the TV series "The Pretender", and became the "Uncle Circle Heavenly Food", and his career reached a new peak. This drama is popular on major platforms, and Jin Dong's acting skills have won unanimous praise from the audience, and have also won him a large number of "fan fans".
However, success did not overwhelm Jin Dong's mind. He is well aware of the importance of family and makes a work plan for himself every year. He strives to make only one film a year, while promising to spend a few months with his wife and children.
In his spare time, he will take his family around to make up for the lack of companionship. At the same time, Li Jia kept the house in good order. She takes care of her children's daily life, cares about her husband's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and runs this small family with heart and love.
Thanks to her efforts, the family is full of warmth and love. Jin Dong and Li Jia's choice shows the efforts and sacrifices made by a husband and wife for the sake of common happiness.
Li Jia gave up her acting career and devoted herself to her family; Jin Dong works hard to balance career and family. They support each other, understand each other, and together create a warm home.
This kind of mutually supportive relationship is an important reason why their marriage can last for ten years and is still harmonious today. Their stories teach us that marriage requires both parties to give and compromise.
When both people are willing to give for each other and this family, happiness will naturally come. Jin Dong and Li Jia's married life shows an enviable state of harmony.
They used practical actions to explain what is a beautiful marriage that grows together. In this entertainment industry full of temptations and challenges, their love is undoubtedly a clear stream, giving people warmth and hope.
As his career flourishes, Jin Dong faces a greater challenge: how to take care of his family in his busy work? Faced with a dazzling number of script invitations, he set a strict rule for himself: only one work a year, and the rest of the time is reserved for his family.
This decision caused a lot of shock in the circle, but Jin Dong insisted on his choice and put his family first. At the age of 44, the couple ushered in another surprise in their lives - the birth of their second child.
The arrival of this little life made Jin Dong cherish his family time even more. He began to work less and devote more energy to family life. Jin Dong knows that nothing is more important than his wife and children.
However, there is often a hidden price behind happiness. The long-term family life made Li Jia inevitably neglect the maintenance of her appearance. She devotes all her energy to taking care of her children and supporting her husband's career, so naturally she has no extra time to take care of herself.
As time passed, her gray hair grew more and more, and wrinkles crept up the corners of her eyes. But in her opinion, these external changes are not important, what matters is the happiness and health of her family.
Jin Dong has never changed his attitude towards his wife because of the change in her appearance. In his eyes, Li Jia will always be the girl who makes his heart move. He often expressed his love for his wife in public, which made others envious.
Jin Dong's words and deeds all show his cherishment of this marriage. The story of this couple teaches us that it takes hard work and dedication on both sides to maintain a happy marriage.
Jin Dong chose to spend more time with his family at the peak of his career, while Li Jia gave up his career to support her husband wholeheartedly. They understand each other, support each other, and run this warm little home together.
In June 2023, Li Jia posted two sets of photos on social platforms, which sparked heated discussions among netizens. The first group is a warm photo of the eldest son Douding's birthday, which has won praise from many netizens.
People have sighed that Douding has grown up, and with an excellent father like Jin Dong, the child will definitely be very good. However, the second set of photos caused a storm online.
This is a recent photo taken by Li Jia on the plane without makeup. In the photo, Li Jia, who was radiant in the past, has gray temples, the corners of her eyes are covered with fine lines, and the whole person looks slightly haggard.
The traces of the years are clearly visible and surprise many. In contrast, Jin Dong, who is the same age, is still handsome and compelling. Although he is in his 40s, he is well-maintained, and the years seem to have only added to his mature charm without detracting from his handsomeness in the slightest.
This strong contrast has sparked heated discussions among netizens. All sorts of speculation and criticism began to appear online. Some people say that Li Jia is "unworthy" of Jin Dong, and some people question whether she is really happy.
What's more, he criticized Li Jia's second marriage status, thinking that she was not beautiful enough and should not be favored by Jin Dong. These comments ignore the fact that happiness should not be measured by appearances.
However, these outside comments did not affect the actual lives of Jin Dong and Li Jia. Jin Dong knows his wife's dedication better than anyone else. He has publicly stated on many occasions that Li Jia is his most important life partner.
He once said emotionally in an interview: "My wife gave up her career for the sake of the family, and I am forever grateful for her dedication. Li Jia has never been swayed by comments from the outside world.
She knows that her happiness comes from this warm family. In her opinion, being able to watch her children grow up healthily and get along with her husband is the greatest happiness. She doesn't need to prove her worth with her looks, because she knows that she will always be the most beautiful in the hearts of her husband and children.
The couple proved with practical actions that true love will not be shaken by a change in appearance. Their stories teach us that the essence of marriage lies in mutual understanding, support, and companionship, not in the appearance of glamour.
The relationship between Jin Dong and Li Jia has withstood the double test of years and doubts from the outside world, and it has become more precious and moving. The story of Jin Dong and Li Jia explains to us the true meaning of a happy marriage.
It is not about the glamour of appearance, but about mutual understanding and support. Li Jia paid silently for her family and gave up her acting career; Jin Dong repaid his wife's sacrifice with actions, and still put his family first at the peak of his career.
They have proved with practical actions that sincere love can overcome the test of time. The experience of this couple has taught us that marriage requires hard work and dedication from both parties. Looks may change over time, but sincere feelings can last a long time.
Although Li Jia's appearance is no longer young, in Jin Dong's eyes, she will always be the girl who makes his heart move. Jin Dong's pampering and cherishing made Li Jia feel the warmth and happiness of marriage.