A comparison table of the 1-6 degree of the opposite sex having a crush on you

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2024-07-02 23:15Emotional field creators

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Level 1: Observation period, often peeking at you

Frequently occurring environments:

When I was a student, I was in the workplace.

You have a common connection with the other person, and you see each other often on weekdays or work in the same office environment.

When they have a crush on you, they don't necessarily act on you, but rather observe for a while.

For example, he will often peek at you and pay attention to your every move.

When your eyes make contact with him, you will find that he will look away in a panic.

This kind of goodwill is actually a "secret love".

When I was a student, this kind of relationship happened more often and was more private.

A crush is like a man's mess, at least he won't bother you hastily until he's not sure what you're thinking and doesn't know you well enough.

There is a line in "Love Before Dawn" :

"I love the way he looks at me when I look away."

A crush is this state, quietly liking you, afraid of being known and worried that you don't know.

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Level 2: Take the initiative to chat with you

A person of the opposite sex takes the initiative to talk to you.

And the frequency of chatting is very high, and every day I will find various topics to get close to you, trying to understand you;

The circle of friends likes you, and the social platform interacts with you;

I saw interesting things, interesting gossip, and delicious food to share with you for the first time.

What is the purpose of saying that he is doing this?

To put it another way:

All the people in this world who are "particularly passionate about you" must have some kind of motive.

Either they want to ask for you, or they want to get a return on their investment in you, or they like you.

Isn't that the case when you analyze your own social, workplace, and gender relationships?

Taking the initiative to represent you as a high priority indicates that he intends to move the relationship forward.

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Level 3: Proactively create "dating opportunities"

The relationship between men and women has a gradual process;

If you are too anxious, the other party will think that you are too angry;

If you are too slow to heat up, the other party will easily lose patience.

The most comfortable state should be based on a sense of rhythm that is comfortable with each other.

Don't rush or delay, you feel acceptable, and the other party won't have any pressure.

All online chats and flirting with each other are all for offline dating;

If you don't rush to meet and date, further deepen the relationship, and only rely on chatting "through the phone screen" to cultivate feelings, it is all fake.

A deeper manifestation of their affection for you is to take the initiative to invite you on a date.

Online chat is to understand, to test, to verify your favorability, and to analyze the "similarity" between you;

And offline dating is the final evaluation of the other party.

If you get along well during the date, he will guide you to the next stage of your relationship.

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Level 4: Establishing a relationship or entering an ambiguous period

At what stage can you confess after pursuing?

The opposite sex likes you to this point, if you give the signal is to accept, not to reject;

When he pays for you and takes the initiative to find you, you give positive feedback;

This is the best stage for him to confess to you.

The emotional atmosphere is set to this point, and it depends on who takes the initiative to pierce the layer of window paper first.

If you accept the confession, your relationship enters the love stage.

Of course, there is another possibility:

With the pursuit of the other person, you have unconsciously liked the other person;

You subconsciously expect the other person to confess, expecting the other party to give you an accurate answer.

But you wait left and right, the other party just doesn't confess, only has an affair with you.

Your relationship is no different from that of lovers, except that there is no "name".

At the appearance of this sign, you should be vigilant:

Whether the other party's attitude is "I really like you" or "I just want to have fun with you".

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Level 5: "Holistic"

When the relationship enters a higher level of getting along, you will have this feeling:

Subconsciously, you become more and more trusting of them and less and less defenseless.

The same is true for the other party.

That feeling is like: you are in love with each other is one mood, getting a certificate is another mood, and getting married is another mood.

Each time your relationship escalates, your closeness and trust increase by one point.

The deeper the level of love, the more the other person trusts you and relies on you.

They will get used to saying "we" instead of "me";

You and the other person's life will be your next step as a priority, not just yourself.

This means that the relationship has a "wholeness".

On the flip side:

If the other person doesn't like you that much, they will be on guard everywhere, set a line in the middle of your relationship, and most things will be clear.

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Level 6: Rushing to get married

That is, the process of progressing from a short-term choice relationship to a long-term choice relationship.

During this time together, the other party found that you were very suitable, and the two of them were more suitable in all aspects;

At this time, TA's mentality began to change towards marriage.

What are the specific manifestations?

For example, they will take the initiative to take you to meet your friends and invite you to go home to meet your parents;

His plan for your next life and the setting for your future life will always be there.

Think about the next phase for both of you, not just yourself.

The sublimation of the relationship brings you the most obvious feeling: "It's a bit like a family".

Topic:

What is the level of your relationship?

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