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tells the story of Xiaojun and Xiaohui's sudden decision to get married and get pregnant, causing different reactions from families and relatives and friends. There are voices of support and opposition in the family, showing the concept of marriage in different generations. Xiaojun chose Xiaohui because she was sincere and kind, which made him feel at home. The contradiction between traditional ideas and practical challenges is also reflected in it. Want to know how the story of Xiaojun and Xiaohui will develop? Read on!
Xiaojun and Xiaohui's sudden decision
That day, Xiaojun drove Xiaohui home, and everyone didn't know how long it would take to come back. When Xiaojun and Xiaohui returned home, they announced in the living room that they had received a marriage certificate and that Xiaohui was pregnant.
For a while, the second brother and sister-in-law were stunned, they were Xiaojun's brother and sister-in-law, Xiaojun was the child they had always had high hopes for, and now the child got married without caring much, the second brother and sister-in-law felt uncomfortable.
At this time, we, relatives and friends, are even more discussed, if this spreads, we will be ashamed.
Family response and support
That night, I called my wife's mother and told her what had happened, and my wife's mother calmly said "yes".
I couldn't believe that I had heard clearly, so I quickly asked, "Mom, what did you say?" ”
My wife's mother smiled and said, "I said okay, Xiaohui is a smart girl, I am very relieved." ”
I breathed a sigh of relief, it turned out that Xiaojun had the support of someone like me who did not agree with him, so I also let go of my hands and feet and began to support Xiaojun.
The concept of marriage among the younger generation
Our generation, in the eyes of young people, is "antique", they have their ideas and practices.
For example, Xiaojun, they are considered "rich" over there, and Xiaojun is handsome, and the girls who follow his ass can circle the earth.
From junior high school to high school to college, many girls have pursued Xiaojun, but Xiaojun has never been in love until he meets the current Xiaohui.
In fact, Xiaojun didn't get along with a few girls at the beginning, not because he didn't like them, but because he felt that they just liked that they were handsome and that their families were rich, but Xiaohui was different.
Xiaohui is sincere and kind, and her appearance is also online, although she is not as fashionable and decent as those girls in the city who wear famous brands, but in Xiaojun's eyes, she is ten million times more beautiful than those girls.
What's more, Xiaohui is good to herself, and in the days together, Xiaojun deeply understands that only by following Xiaohui can you find the feeling of home.
Conventional wisdom and practical challenges
We all know that this is because Xiaohui's family conditions are worse than ours.
In fact, this is nothing, who cares about the right door in today's society?
As long as the child is happy.
But the problem is that in the eyes of our generation, the marriage and childbirth of "children" is definitely not a trivial matter, and this matter has nothing to do with "the right family".
Especially for a conservative person like me, after learning that my children were married and had children, my wife and I quarreled for several days.
My wife is very open-minded, "since the children like each other, take good care of them", but I am different.
In my opinion, Xiaojun and Xiaohui are barely together on the top of the seven feelings, not to mention the "right match".
But now it seems that I am really ignorant and old-fashioned.
epilogue
Everyone has their own views on marriage and love, and this perception is often influenced by traditional perceptions and practical challenges. Xiaojun and Xiaohui chose each other, and despite the pressure from their families and society, their steadfastness and courage eventually won support and understanding. In today's society, the right match is no longer the only measure of happiness, the important thing is to find a partner who truly loves and supports each other. Let's bless Xiaojun and Xiaohui together, and may their love journey be sweet and happy
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