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#长文创作激励计划#在生活的广袤舞台上, we often hear the emotion that "society is very realistic". However, how realistic is this society? This is not a simple sigh, but a myriad of complex and profound stories and truths hidden behind it.
Let's step into the life of a young man named Kobayashi and feel the reality of society.
Kobayashi was born in an ordinary town, his parents were simple workers, and although the family was not wealthy, it was full of warmth. Since he was a child, Kobayashi has had a dream to create a better future by studying hard and getting out of the small town and going to the big city.
He worked hard and got excellent grades, and was finally admitted to a major university. In college, Kobayashi still maintains a positive and enterprising attitude, and strives to improve his professional knowledge and comprehensive ability.
However, after graduating, Kobayashi stepped into society with great expectations, but encountered a series of setbacks.
He sent his resume and attended various interviews, but the job he wanted always passed by. Those recruiters seem to pay more attention to the candidate's family background and network resources than to simply academic qualifications and abilities.
Kobayashi remembers an interview in which he competed for a position with another contender. The other party has a superior family background, and his parents have a certain influence in the industry. Although Kobayashi did well in the interview, the position was eventually won by the contender.
Feeling extremely lost and confused, he began to question whether his efforts were really worthwhile.
In the process of renting a house, Kobayashi also deeply experienced the reality of society.
In order to find a place to live at the right price and in a decent environment, he traveled to all corners of the city. But he found that rents for houses with easy access and amenities were often prohibitively high. And the houses he can afford are often located in remote suburbs, with inconvenient transportation and poor living facilities.
Once, Kobayashi took a fancy to a house in the city center, with a beautiful environment and convenient transportation. But after learning about his job and income, the landlord did not hesitate to reject him, and chose a tenant who could pay half a year's rent at once and had a more stable job.
Xiao Lin dragged his luggage helplessly and continued to look for his own place on the edge of the city.
In the workplace, Kobayashi felt the complexity and reality of interpersonal relationships.
He works hard and hopes to be promoted through his outstanding performance. But he found that some of his colleagues were good at pandering to their leaders, reaping benefits through stammering and gift-giving. And people like him, who only know how to bury their heads in hard work, are often ignored.
Once, the company had an important project, and Kobayashi took the initiative to ask for help, worked overtime, and completed the task excellently. But when it came to rewarding meritorious deeds, the credit was snatched away by a colleague who had a close relationship with the leader, and Kobayashi only received a few perfunctory words of praise.
These experiences made Kobayashi gradually understand that society was not as fair and beautiful as he imagined.
Let's take a look at Xiao Wang's story.
Xiao Wang comes from a rural area and his family is poor, and his parents have paid great hardships to provide for him to go to school. Xiao Wang is well aware of his heavy responsibilities and works hard to be admitted to the university, hoping to change the fate of his family.
After graduating, he joined a sales company. In order to complete the sales task, he goes out early and returns late every day, running between various customers. But he found that some customers only care about the benefits and don't care about the quality and value of the product at all.
Once, Xiao Wang met a big customer, and he spent a lot of time and energy to introduce the advantages and features of the product in detail for the customer. But the customer ended up choosing another company simply because the other party offered a lower price and more rebates.
Xiao Wang felt extremely frustrated, and he began to doubt his career choice and the value of life.
In terms of love, Xiao Wang also suffered a blow from reality.
He has been in love with his girlfriend for many years and has a deep relationship. But when it came to getting married, his girlfriend's parents put forward harsh conditions, requiring Xiao Wang to buy a house and a car in the city, otherwise they would not agree to their marriage.
Xiao Wang looked at his meager income and high housing prices, feeling hopeless and helpless.
These stories are just the tip of the iceberg of social reality.
from the unequal distribution of educational resources to the inequality of employment opportunities; From the widening gap between the rich and the poor to the imperfection of medical security; From the solidification of social class to the lack of morality and ethics. The reality of society is vividly displayed in all aspects.
From a sociological point of view, the reality of society is the result of a combination of factors.
The mode of economic development, the political system and mechanism, and the traditional concept of culture have all shaped the reality of society to a certain extent.
In a market economy, resources tend to be skewed towards those with more capital and power, leading to a widening gap between the rich and the poor.
Some imperfections in the political system may lead to rent-seeking and unfair competition for power.
Some concepts in cultural traditions, such as family views and human relationships, also affect social fairness and justice to a certain extent.
From the perspective of psychology, people's feelings and cognitions of social reality are also affected by their own psychological factors.
Personal expectations, values, frustration tolerance, etc., will affect how we evaluate and respond to social reality.
When there is too much gap between our expectations and reality, it is easy to feel lost and dissatisfied.
As we continue to delve deeper into this topic, here are a few new perspectives to further expand our understanding.
From the perspective of social mobility, it is becoming more and more difficult for people at the bottom to achieve class crossover through their own efforts.
For example, a child from a poor background, even if he has excellent talent and hard work, it is difficult to compete with those children from superior backgrounds due to the lack of good educational resources and social support.
From the perspective of social trust, various unfair and dishonest phenomena in social reality have led to the lack of social trust.
People are wary and defensive in their interactions, and they dare not trust others easily, which further exacerbates social apathy and estrangement.
From the perspective of public services, the uneven distribution of public services such as education, medical care, and housing has prevented some people from enjoying their due rights and benefits, increasing their living pressure and dissatisfaction.
In conclusion, the reality of society is a complex and multifaceted issue.
When we analyze this phenomenon in more depth, we can also explore it more comprehensively from the following aspects.
From the perspective of the legal system, the imperfection and poor implementation of the law make some illegal acts not punished and justice cannot be served, thus making people doubt the fairness of society.
Thinking from the perspective of public opinion, one-sided media reports and misleading public opinion may amplify the negative phenomena in society and make people have a more pessimistic view of social reality.
From the perspective of individual responsibility, everyone plays a certain role in society, and our behaviors and choices also affect the reality of society to a certain extent.
If everyone can stick to the bottom line of morality and actively participate in the construction of society, they may be able to gradually change the reality of society.
To sum up, the reality of society is a serious and profound problem.
We need to understand it with an objective and rational attitude, and at the same time, we must actively seek ways to change, and gradually build a more fair, just and harmonious society through individual efforts, social reform and system improvement.
When we delve deeper into the complex issue of social reality, we can also reveal more layers of phenomena and internal logic.
Nowhere is this more evident than in the professional world, from the point of view of the brutality of social competition.
Taking the Internet industry as an example, Xiao Li is an excellent programmer with solid technical skills and innovation capabilities. However, in the rapid iteration and fierce competition of the industry, he is facing tremendous pressure.
The company is constantly striving for higher efficiency and lower costs, and the requirements for employees are becoming more and more demanding.
In order to keep his job, Xiao Li had to work overtime frequently, sacrificing his personal time to upgrade his skills to adapt to new technologies and needs.
At the same time, there is a steady stream of new graduates entering the industry, bringing with them the latest knowledge and energy, bringing huge competitive pressure to workplace veterans like Xiao Li.
Moreover, when there is a fluctuation in the industry or a strategic adjustment of the company, layoffs become commonplace, and no matter how good an employee has been, they can lose their jobs in an instant.
From the utilitarian level of interpersonal relationships, this phenomenon is not uncommon in social situations.
Zhang is a young entrepreneur who actively participates in various business events and social gatherings, hoping to expand his network and find opportunities for his career.
However, he soon discovered that in these occasions, people were more concerned with each other's identity, status, and the benefits they could bring.
When he introduced that his entrepreneurial project was still in its infancy and had not yet achieved significant results, many people became cold towards him, and the communication was only superficial.
On the contrary, those who are already successful entrepreneurs, or those who have abundant resources, are always surrounded by people and become the center of attention.
This kind of utilitarian interpersonal relationship made Xiao Zhang feel cold, and also made him deeply appreciate the side of social reality.
From the perspective of uneven distribution of resources, educational resources are a typical example.
In some impoverished areas, schools have poor teaching facilities and weak teachers, and children are unable to enjoy high-quality education.
In big cities, there are many famous schools, with advanced teaching equipment and excellent teaching teams.
As a result, children in poor areas are already lagging behind at the starting line, and their path to changing their destiny through education is full of difficulties and dangers.
Xiao Wang came from a remote mountain village, and with his own hard work and talent, he was admitted to the key high school in the county.
However, compared to his classmates in the city, he found himself with a huge gap in subjects such as English and computers.
The school does not have enough funds to purchase multimedia teaching equipment, nor does it have foreign teachers to improve students' oral skills.
In the end, although Xiao Wang was admitted to university, he still faced many difficulties in employment and career development compared with those who received a good education in big cities.
When we dig deeper into these phenomena, we can also find the following key factors.
From the perspective of the singularity of the social evaluation system, success is often simply defined as the possession of wealth, status, and power.
This single evaluation criterion makes many people lose themselves on the road to success, ignoring the real needs and values of the heart.
For example, Xiao Zhao loves art and dreams of becoming a painter. However, his family and the people around him believed that it was difficult to obtain a stable income and social status from engaging in art, and persuaded him to give up.
Under the pressure of social reality, Xiao Zhao finally gave up his dream and chose a job that he didn't like but was considered "more promising".
From the perspective of the imperfection of the social security system, this makes some vulnerable groups often feel helpless and hopeless in the face of difficulties in life.
Lao Liu is a laid-off worker who has difficulty finding a suitable job due to his older age and single skills.
He did not have enough savings, and he did not have access to comprehensive unemployment benefits and health care.
The weight of life takes his breath away, and the coldness of social reality leaves him with no way out.
To sum up, the reality of society has brought challenges and pressures to people in various aspects.
As we continue to delve deeper into this phenomenon, we can further expand our understanding from the following new perspectives.
From the perspective of the rupture of cultural inheritance, in the rapid development of modern society, some values and moral codes in traditional culture have gradually been forgotten or abandoned.
People pay more attention to material pursuits and short-term interests, and ignore spiritual nourishment and long-term social responsibility.
This leads to the impetuousness and utilitarianism of society, further exacerbating the coldness of social reality.
Thinking from the perspective of the dilemma of social innovation, although innovation is regarded as an important force to promote social progress, in reality, innovators often face many obstacles.
Insufficient funding, insufficient policy support, and high market risks make it difficult to put many potential innovative ideas into practice.
This not only limits the speed of social development, but also discourages some people with ideals and talents in the face of social reality.
From the perspective of the contradiction between environment and sustainable development, in order to pursue economic growth and short-term benefits, environmental damage and waste of resources are not uncommon.
Some companies sacrifice the environment in order to reduce costs, leading to ecological imbalance and public health problems.
This short-sighted behavior reflects the blind pursuit of profit in social reality, ignoring the well-being of future generations.
Together, by exploring these new perspectives, we can gain a more comprehensive and in-depth understanding of the complexity and multifaceted nature of social reality.
When we analyze this phenomenon in more depth, we can also explore it more comprehensively from the following aspects.
From the perspective of individual mental health, the pressure of social reality can easily lead to anxiety, depression and other psychological problems.
In an environment of fierce competition, complex interpersonal relationships and lack of resources for a long time, the psychological endurance of individuals is facing a huge test.
If psychological adjustment and counseling are not carried out in a timely and effective manner, it may lead to a series of mental health crises.
From the perspective of the realization of social fairness and justice, although fairness and justice is one of the core values of society, there are often various obstacles and challenges in actual operation.
The imperfection of the legal system, the injustice in the process of law enforcement, and the rent-seeking of power have all affected the realization of fairness and justice, and further deepened people's dissatisfaction and doubts about social reality.
From the perspective of social comparison from a global perspective, there are huge differences in social development levels, welfare systems, and social equity among different countries and regions.
This contrast makes us more aware of the diversity and complexity of social reality, and also provides a reference for us to think about how to improve our own social conditions.
To sum up, the reality of society is a complex and multidimensional issue.
We need to constantly reflect and explore to find effective solutions to create a more equitable, harmonious and hopeful social environment.