The sheep has come to tell you the story again, the protagonist of the story is the big black Moji, many students may not be familiar with her, but everyone must have heard the ending song of the animated version of "Slam Dunk Master" "Only Staring at You", or the opening song of the animation "Chinese Little Boss", "Empty", which she sang. The Buddha-figure looks like this, and at a glance, he knows that it is not the soft and weak little girl style.
That's right, Since her debut, Ohkuro Moji has been known as a Japanese rock diva, and she is still cool at the age of 50 this year!
Born in Sapporo, Hokkaido in 1969, Oguro Moji loved singing since she was a child, learned classical music from the age of 3, and could compose music in elementary school, and when she was in high school, she went to the local Live House to sing, from here, she gradually strengthened her musical dreams, until after graduating from high school, she came to Tokyo alone in order to become a professional singer, and participated in various auditions there.
In 1989, at the age of 20, Ohkuro Passed the third BAD AUDITION and won some television songs for composing, singing and chorusing. She has participated in the chorus of B'z, TUBE, ZARD, T-BOLAN, WANDS records, and thus entered the music scene.
By the 1990s, Big Black Mody made his debut with a cover of Aretha Franklin's "Respect" and became a hit. Because it was too versatile, at first many people thought that the big black Moji was a combination.
In 1992, the first single "STOP MOTION", which was composed with his own lyrics, was released, which quickly dominated the mainstream market, and the other two singles released in the same year received the first single with sales of more than 1 million.
The following year, Daikuro Moji switched from Toshiba Records to B-Gram Records, and "Just Staring at You" became The second single in The Great Black Moji to sell more than 1 million copies.
The subsequent song "Empty" won the number one on the Albums of the Weekly Album Chart for 4 consecutive weeks, with cumulative sales of 1.75 million.
Do you think that the sheep have brought together the glorious achievements of the Great Black Moji? Of course not, the big black Moji has a strong musical talent, but after a few years of debut, he gradually retired, and then came back to open the concert is still full.
Throughout her career as a singer, she has almost never appeared in the media except for live concerts and album releases, but she can still let her songs enter the hearts and minds of her listeners.
This song "Only Staring at You" is obviously a love song, but do you know that this song actually expresses the meaning: willing to change yourself for love, even willing to make sacrifices, change clothes and hairstyles for your lover, wait quietly in a room belonging to two people, for you, I am willing to be a housewife who cooks at home and waits for you to come home. (It is very much in line with the Japanese concept)
Didn't a lot of people think of it? The reason is precisely because the big black Moji is full of penetration and high combat effectiveness, at that time more traditional Japanese society, the word female power should be many women dare to think but dare not do it, the big black Moji sang for women, her song once became the most popular track in karaoke.
At the same time, the big black Moji, who was rated as the "invisible cannon", used his own personal experience to interpret the power of women.
In 2003, the big black Moji and the 1-year-old IT industry boyfriend flash marriage, the boyfriend's marriage proposal at that time is very touching, some boys can learn from it: Miss Moji, the rice in my warehouse is not much, but it will be moldy after a long time, my income is not too much, but enough to feed the two of us.
At the wedding they were a couple surrounded by all the blessings and happiness, and the big black Moji described the mood at that time: I am very happy now, there are so many people to bless us, it is so good to be born in this world, this is an important thing that is only once in a lifetime, so I have to wear the pink that I did not wear once anyway.
The brave man never changes himself because of the opinions of others, and in the face of the gossip of the public "marrying down", the big black Moji hit back with powerful and romantic words: he is a prince who lives far away from the music world and wears a simple suit.
But the sky did not follow people's wishes, and after marriage, they lived with everyone's gossip, until many years later, she responded positively to the rumors.
In 1996, The Great Black Mody was diagnosed with a uterine disease, which, combined with the accumulation of various causes, once led to the rapid development of her condition. The big black Moji, who has always believed in the power of women, has even made public her illness, one is to explain her physical condition over the years to fans who care about her, and more importantly, she hopes to inspire those women who have the same experience through her own experience, and not to feel ashamed because her womb is not good.
The doctor said that in order to alleviate the disease, the best way is actually to get pregnant, so in line with the purpose of "cooperative treatment", the big black Moji has tried in vitro many times, but because the work is too hard, it always miscarriages. Unable to delay any longer, she decided to devote herself to treatment and stop work indefinitely.
Married for 16 years, the great black Moji spent more than half of the time in the struggle with uterine diseases, the big black Moji spent most of the time in treatment, during which the condition deteriorated to the point that she almost left this world, underwent two major surgeries, but did not successfully get pregnant until the last frozen egg was used, and was forced to remove the uterus.
During the long treatment process, her husband has been with The Great Black Moji, but in 2017, the Big Black Moji suddenly decided to end the treatment plan of "using pregnancy to treat the disease" and reconsider the married life.
As she said, "Although the constant pregnancy is to cure the disease, in this process, every time I play with my friend's baby, my heart is always full of guilt, and gradually I have frequent pain in my heart." Instead of living with two people with a sense of sin that will not disappear, it is better to be alone and purely support his happiness, which is my style. ”
The two reached a divorce agreement in early 2018, and the man had a child with his new partner shortly thereafter. Therefore, many netizens speculate that the man must be cheating in marriage, otherwise he would not have children so soon.
Big Black Moji's response was: I haven't filed for divorce so far because I don't like to make people around me worry and sympathize, and I want to protect him and his family from outside interference, I know the pain of miscarriage, and I don't want that person to do the same.
On this past Christmas Eve, the big black Moji announced the divorce head-on, and now that the child is more than one year old, we have just gone through the formalities.
Then the divorce of the big black Moji is still quite controversial, most people feel that they will feel that "the big black Moji miscarried several times for the sake of the child, and then even the womb was not saved, and finally had to endure the blow of marital infidelity, which is really too humble."
Sheep has said very clearly above, at first the big black Moji tried to get pregnant, the purpose is to treat his own disease for many years, but in this process everywhere hit the wall, coupled with the influence of the surrounding environment, she transposed thinking, feel very sorry for the husband, so at the end of 17 years on the agreement to divorce, during this period the man had a new girlfriend, at the end of 18 the child was born.
Now that she is in a state where 50 years have passed since she ran as hard as she could to respond to the expectations of her surroundings and family, she will live her life easily and freely from the age of 50 onwards.
"If you have a suitable object, you can also introduce me."
Many people label the big black Moji as "infertile", but the sheep feel that fertility may be the dream of some women, but it is not a responsibility, rather than complaining about itself and feeling inferior because of the inability to have children, the practice of the big black Moji is more rock, right? A woman's reproductive freedom is that I want to be born and I don't want to be born; so she did not lose to infertility, but let herself go, and at the age of 50 gave herself a decent and new start.
Cool people are always cool, no matter when or what!