September 30 is the 60th birthday of female singer Ye Qianwen, and she posted a group of her birthday photos on social platforms. As can be seen from the photo, Ye Qianwen's hair has been grayed, and her face has traces of age, but her state remains excellent, and she is still full of vitality.
Ye Qianwen posted about her 60th birthday feelings, and her husband Lin Zixiang, who has been married for 25 years, is not around, but because of his work in the mainland. Although the two are separated, Ye Qianwen, who is emotional, talks about her husband is still full of love - Lam likes me very much, because now I can be with him, and we look like twins!
Ye Qianwen's true temperament is also reflected in this group of photos, she did not deliberately hide her white hair, but let the white hair be open in front of everyone without any cover - I just want to be completely, the real self! I hope you guys can accept me like this, with white hair, and lovely wrinkles!
Although her husband is not around, she does not feel regrets, because her husband is working hard, which makes her proud. It is also important that she celebrates her birthday with friends and family, and this family is lin dexin, the stepson who has been with her for more than 20 years, that is, the son of Lin Zixiang and his ex-wife Wu Zhengyuansheng.
Lindexin is surrounded by a woman of similar age, and everyone speculates that it is Lindexin's girlfriend. Although Lin Dexin is over 30 years old, he is still unmarried, and his sister Lin Deyi has a son and a daughter. From Ye Qianwen's words, it can be seen that for herself, in addition to her husband, non-biological children are also very important to herself.
Lin Zixiang recently appeared on variety shows and galas. When Lin Zixiang appeared in the "Our Song" program, his wife and son called him together. What Ye Qianwen said was, "We are very happy that you can share your song of "Real Man" with young people, and we have always supported you here." ”
The "we" ye Qianwen said should include her stepson Lin Dexin and stepdaughter Lin Deyi in addition to herself, which can be seen from her very good relationship with the two children. Son Lin Dexin also called for his father, "Dad, I know that this time may be your biggest challenge, because the challenge is so big, so this time your performance will be the best." ”
Lin Dexin said that his father was his eternal idol, in fact, he had said the same thing to Ye Qianwen. In 2014, when Lin Dexin went to participate in "I Am Not a Star", the stepmother who appeared on the scene to cheer for him for many years was also the stepmother who had been with him for many years, and Lin Dexin said in the introduction of Ye Qianwen that she was the person who won the best female singer for 4 consecutive years and was her idol.
Ye Qianwen once talked about the relationship with the stepson and stepdaughter in "Lu Yu Has a Date", and Lu Yu suspected that she would be rejected by the young children, because in the eyes of many people, Ye Qianwen was the intruder of this marriage. Ye Qianwen said that the children liked themselves very much from the beginning, and the song she sang, "The Possibility of Love", was also composed by her for LinDexin, pouring out her maternal love for her stepson.
Ye Qianwen said that she was traveling with Lin Dexin, Lin Deyi, and Lin Zixiang. The two children offered to watch TV in the same bed with her, and when it came to these two children, Ye Qianwen could feel the mother's love in her words. She also said that she and her two children were always giggling and saying that the first time she met Lindexin, she said that he was too fat and wanted to lose weight.
In Ye Qianwen's social platform, you can often see the figure of her stepson Lin Dexin, whether it is on New Year's Eve or other family dinners, you can see the family's happiness and harmony. Ye Qianwen once said that there were difficulties at the beginning, but because of the sincerity of her efforts, Ye Qianwen had the feeling of being a mother, and bluntly said that having children was this taste.
Ye Qianwen and Lin Zixiang were under great pressure to get married. When he met Ye Qianwen, Lin Zixiang already had a wife and a pair of children. In addition to being Lin Zixiang's wife and mother of the child, Wu Zhengyuan is Also Lin Zixiang's best helper in his career, and she is the general manager of Hong Kong at Warner Records.
In 1980, Wu Zhengyuan and Lin Zixiang married in the United States, and when the two were married, they were married by Fengzi, so they buried hidden dangers in their married life. Wu Zhengyuan also said that in the early days of marriage, she was very accommodating to Lin Zixiang, and he was in charge of big things and small things in the family. The birth of two children has gradually eased the marriage relationship.
The outside world once believed that Wu Zhengyuan was too fierce against Lin Zixiang to lead to the end of this marriage, and Wu Zhengyuan cried out for himself. At that time, she let Lin Zixiang and Ye Qianwen sing "Reunion", and Lin Zixiang's tailor-made "Zero O'Clock Ten" won Ye Qianwen, and then the two spread a scandal.
At the 1992 Hong Kong Top Ten Golden Melody Awards Ceremony, Ye Qianwen, who won the best female singer, publicly 'confessed' Tony Lin Zixiang: "I thank you, Lam, you have supported me so much all the way, taught me a lot of things, and is my good friend." Although others say we are in love, it doesn't matter, I still love you so much. Ye Qianwen explained that the love here refers to the love between friends.
In 1995, Lin Zixiang and Wu Zhengyuan officially divorced. After the divorce, Wu Zhengyuan quit his job and took a son and a daughter to live in the United States. Wu Zhengyuan said in an interview that Ye Qianwen lives next door to his house and always says that he likes his children. She felt that Ye Qianwen was very scary and worried that Ye Qianwen would snatch her child.
Wu Zhengyuan as a mother will have worries to understand, in fact, Ye Qianwen has been paying since marriage. In 1996, she married Lin Zixiang because of her sincere efforts in exchange for the good feelings of the two children. When Lin Dexin participated in "I Am Not a Star", Ye Qianwen came to support him and sang "Dashing Walk Back" to support him.
Lin Dexin called Ye Qianwen "Sally" from childhood, and Ye Qianwen said that her relationship with her stepson was like a friend, and said that Lin Dexin's voice was a bit similar to her husband Lin Zixiang. The two sang Ye Qianwen and her husband's chorus song "Choice" on the stage. In the end, Ye Qianwen blessed Lin Dexin, saying that he had no requirements for his stepson, but only hoped that he would be happy, and said that he and Lin Zixiang were proud of him.
Lin Dexin once recounted the story of Ye Qianwen and Lin Zixiang in the program. He said that when he was 6 years old, he lived in the United States with his mother Wu Zhengyuan and his sister, and his father Lin Zixiang told him that he wanted to stay in Hong Kong and said that he would be separated from Wu Zhengyuan. Although living apart from his father made him feel sad, he was very happy to see Sally and became friends the first time they met.
Ye Qianwen did not think that she was an elder like a stepmother, but like a friend to her children, she would take Lin Dexin to see plays, eat, and play game consoles. Ye Qianwen will also introduce Lin Dexin to his friend's son, such as playing with Jackie Chan's son. Lin Dexin publicly confessed to her stepmother on stage: "In fact, I am very happy, with you in my life." ”
Lin Dexin said that he could not say anything to his father Lin Zixiang, he could say to Sally, because she was not only an adult but also his friend. He was very grateful to Ye Qianwen for his concern and listened to his own questions very carefully. Lindeson said he understood the decision of the biological parents to separate.
At the 2012 Hung Hom concert, Ye Qianwen, Lin Zixiang and Lin Dexin sang Ye Qianwen's famous song "Zero o'clock and ten minutes". Throughout the singing process, Ye Qianwen has been holding not her husband but her son Lin Dexin, and finally hugged her son and husband separately, and the family's feelings are really enviable.
Lin Zixiang's status in the music world is beyond doubt, and in the blessing video recorded by Li Keqin for him, Lin Zixiang is a palace-level singer and a classic among classics. Seeing him sing "Dare to Love and Dare to Do" at the Mid-Autumn Festival Song Festival in the Greater Bay Area, Jackie Chan and other stars became fans in seconds, and the whole party reached a climax, which is the charm of the singer king.
Some people think that it is a pity that Ye Qianwen and Lin Zixiang have not had their own children after many years of marriage, ye Qianwen said that she did not like children, nor did she want her own children.
She and Lin Zixiang have been married for many years, and their feelings have even exceeded those before marriage, and the marriage between the two has also had twists and turns, and Ye Qianwen has also said that if Lin Zixiang has a more suitable self, she will send blessings.
When Ye Qianwen first entered the industry, she had fallen in love with Fei Xiang, a popular young student, and also disclosed in the show that she was in love with a wealthy businessman, but finally chose Lin Zixiang, who was also a teacher and friend of herself. But when asked who the love of her life is, her answer is not Lin Zixiang but her parents.
She said that she didn't quite know what love was, she felt that love was like a golf ball, and she needed her partner to have tacit understanding, communication, and common resonance in order to make herself fall in love with each other. She doesn't care about the financial conditions, although there were rich people who were also very good to her, but because she insisted on not doing this line of work and finally broke up, it was also the only relationship she regretted.
The reason why she decided to be with Lin Zixiang was very unexpected, she went to calculate her fate at that time, "If you don't tie the knot at the age of 36, no one will marry you at the age of 38." Ye Qianwen, who was worried that he had no one to ask for and would be scolded by his mother, decided his life's events in this way, and married Lin Zixiang, who had known him for a long time and was 14 years older than himself.
In order not to be scolded by his mother and marry Lin Zixiang, because he did not like children and refused to give birth, this is probably Ye Qianwen of true temperament. Ye Qianwen said that she did not think that marriage was a commitment, but a responsibility. She once said that she did not want to have children because she did not like children, but this did not hinder her and Lin Zixiang's love, even more intense than before marriage.
Although she said that the love after marriage is different from before marriage, she also said that her love with Lin Zixiang is not a vigorous love, and even marriage is in danger of being said to be unable to marry, but from the perspective of the relationship between the two for many years, plain is the truth.
Although Ye Qianwen does not like children and does not have her own biological children, she has children like her own, and it is estimated that she has no regrets.
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