Hello everyone, I'm Xiaoxue's mother
"The arrival of the baby" is the most joyful moment for the family, as a parent, it is difficult to restrain the excitement in their hearts, many fathers will take pictures of the happy moment of mother and child and post it in the circle of friends.
As a mother, I usually can't help but post my child's "growth dynamics", record the child's daily life, and "show the baby" seems to be very addictive, some mothers go from "one sun a day" to "two, three, or even four sun", and some will shoot videos and send them to the short video platform.
But no matter how good a friend is, it is impossible to like and praise every day, and if you post it for a long time, the behavior of Bao Ma's "Circle of Friends Baby" will also be annoying.
"Such an ugly child is still posted every day", Bao Ma's circle of friends is addicted to showing babies, and she is controversial by friends
There is a mother who is a mother for the first time, and she can't love her baby enough, so she often takes some photos of her child's life, and then posts it in the circle of friends, some are children sleeping, some are children eating, and some are children kissing themselves, in short, the photos are not the same.
At first, everyone in the comment area would like and praise one or two sentences such as "the child is so good", but as the number of times became more and more frequent, finally some friends couldn't help it, and complained in the circle of friends that "such an ugly child still posts every day"! When Bao Ma saw it, she was very angry.
What made Bao's mother even more uncomfortable was that her friend also criticized in the comment area, "Please stop showing the baby in the circle of friends all day long, no one likes to watch it!" It's obviously ugly like that, and it's still sunburning! These words poke at the mother's heart, and she feels that her baby is so cute, and she is recording the moment when the child grows up, why is the other party so maliceful.
In fact, I can understand the behavior of Bao Ma Circle of Friends to show the baby, because many Bao Ma will do this more or less, but some Bao Ma knows how to restrain herself, and some Bao Ma is too frequent, no matter how beautiful things are, they can actually see too much, and it will also affect the mood of others, so this kind of thing must also be moderate.
Originally, everyone opened the circle of friends and wanted to see if there were any new developments in the friends recently, but the entire circle of friends was dominated by the baby, this situation is like some "advertisers" have been posting advertisements in the circle of friends, and everyone can't help but block it when they are tired of watching it, so everyone also has their own legitimate demands.
At the same time, what problems do mothers need to pay attention to when showing their babies in the circle of friends?
First, don't be too frequent, there are many ways to record
Taking photos and videos of children's growth is a moment for parents to record their children's growth, which can be turned into memories in the future, and it is also very emotional to take them out from time to time to look at them. So whether it's a circle of friends or a short video platform, it's good to post it once in a while, if you post it often, it will inevitably cause bad comments from others, so that others are not happy in their hearts, and they are not happy in their hearts.
Photos and videos can be saved on your phone and viewed at any time without disturbing others.
Second, pay attention to privacy and don't send everything out
Once I swiped the circle of friends and saw a friend posting the child at home, but the photo made me frown, because the child's "body privacy" was exposed in the photo, and the parents did not cover the child, this kind of photo is really not suitable for sending out. There are also some photos that may expose some information in the home, such as the child's name, characteristics, kindergarten information, etc., which are seen by people with ulterior motives, and there are certain hidden dangers to the family, and it is better to avoid it as much as possible.
Third, the picture was stolen
Now personal privacy protection needs to be paid attention to, a little attention may be stolen by others, such as some very cute pictures of children, very fashionable photos, by some businesses directly used as pictures to promote goods, which not only hurt the interests of the family, but also easy to leak children's information.
Therefore, when we parents are posting photos of their children's growth and life, we must pay attention to some privacy issues, do not post inappropriate pictures, do not post pictures that may involve leaking family information, and pay attention not to send too many often.
As parents, we can take our children's love to heart, there are many ways to record children's growth, you don't have to send it out every moment, and the baby is good for yourself and friends, what do you think?