On the road of life, there are ups and downs, ups and downs, difficulties hinder yourself, responsibility and pressure are borne by yourself, begging others, swallowing anger, relying on others, and your face is ugly.
Life is unsatisfactory, life is miserable, no one is who will rely forever, parents will be old, friends will be scattered, love will change, only by relying on oneself is the best dependence.
I don't have the ability, it's useless to ask anyone, I don't work hard, I don't have to rely on anyone, the burden is heavy, I have to get through it with my teeth, I have to endure it no matter how difficult it is, life is your own, no one will complete it for you.
It is better to rely on anyone than to rely on yourself, and it is better to ask for anyone than to ask for yourself.
Only yourself is the most down-to-earth reliance, no matter how awesome your friends are, no matter how powerful your parents are, you have no ability, no one can help you, if you don't work hard, no one can help you.
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You yourself don't have the ability, it's useless to know anyone, in the world, everyone eats according to their ability.
If you want to survive in society, want to live a good life, and have a good life, you must be capable, valuable, and technical, so that others will use you, look down on you, and use you.
Your strength must be worthy of your circle, even if you have a circle, but you don't have the ability, such a circle is a decoration for you, because in this world, everything always has a premise.
In this life, no one can be relied on, and when you pin your feelings on others, one day, you will fall from the peak of hope to the bottom of disappointment.
In life, there is no relationship that you should rely on for granted.
As the saying goes: soldiers are impermanent, water is impermanent, and things are normal. Therefore, don't fantasize about what stability there is in this world, learn to use the vision of change, to study change, accept change, and strengthen yourself to face all kinds of changes, in order to achieve the greatest stability.
If you don't rely on others, there will be less harm, so on the road of life, we should clearly know that we don't rely on anyone, we are useful, and we will always be the most powerful weapon to live this life, not to mention any deep feelings, whether it is friendship, love, or family affection, when there is no difficulty, all gentle relationships will drift around, and they can't be relied on.
Therefore, life must have the ability to do it to control one's own life.
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You are your own ferryman, and you can only cross your own life.
Life is your own, no one can do it for you, don't be afraid, even if life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, you have to try to live with a smile.
People who have not been hurt by life will not be strong; There can be no growth without those who have experienced suffering.
In the journey of life, everything is hard, the ferryman has never been able to meet, we are always eager to meet the person who can help us, hard searching, waiting, the result is that the further back, the more I find that all the need to meet the water to build a bridge, open the way in the mountains, only themselves.
The real strong people often get rid of the idea of relying on others, do not explain, do not argue, are not humble, not decadent, but set the goal, and spare no effort to move forward, throw off their arms and work hard, get out of the difficult road, do not count on anyone, do not complain about anyone, just grit their teeth to resist difficulties, every step is down-to-earth, spare no effort to move forward, run with tears, and work hard to be powerless.
In this world, there is no genius, just work harder than others, the sweat you have shed, the tears you have shed, the bitterness you have endured, one day you will get what you want, because all the hardships you have suffered are the beginning of all sweetness.
Life is like sailing against the current, and if you don't advance, you will retreat. Really powerful people, even with tears in their eyes, still run bravely, don't complain about why God is so difficult for you, and don't complain about why you still don't get as you want after working hard.
As the old saying goes: A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, and a high platform begins with a tired soil. Believe that every step you take will not be in vain.
The most sober way to live in life is to know how to cross yourself. In the face of the river of fate, I just try my best to be my ferryman, steadfast the rudder, row a good pulp, and move forward bravely.
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Relying on yourself is the right way in life.
When there are many people, it is not enough to rely on, to survive only by yourself, if you can't obey your own orders, you have to be ordered by others, if you can't even control your own destiny, then what else can you control?
Parents and children are a reincarnation of blood; Between husband and wife, it is a cause and effect determined by heaven; Among friends, it is a feast of cooling after the carnival.
Maybe it's reliable for a while, maybe it's a lifetime, but in fact, it's all uncertain, because you can't control other people's lives, and the only thing you can control is yourself.
Life is a long practice, and most of them have to be completed alone, and they have to rely on themselves and their own abilities to complete it, rather than relying on anyone.
In this world, the most reliable person is only himself.
We are all ordinary ordinary people, there is no glorious background, no superior innate conditions, all the bits and pieces are obtained by their own efforts, and the beauty obtained is based on their own step by step.
Yu Hua said: "In fact, no path is repeated, and no life can be replaced, everyone is experiencing their own life. You are your own nobleman, and you are all on your own. ”
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