The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this eternal problem has caused an uproar again! Some people say that it is natural for a mother-in-law not to help take care of the children, but some people think that if the mother-in-law does not take it, she should not think about the daughter-in-law to support the elderly. What do you think?
This drama of the Yang family is simply a realistic version of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war!
Imagine that you worked hard to take care of your sick mother-in-law, but the brother-in-law not only was not grateful, but also pointed at your nose and scolded you for being unfilial! What is the rationale for this? Sister Liu encountered such a bad thing.
Have you ever taken a penny! Xiao Yang questioned his sister-in-law with a face. Hearing this, Sister Liu's heart was furious, and she couldn't wait to turn around and leave.
But you know what? From the first day that Sister Liu married into the Yang family, she was destined to be wronged. On the wedding night, she lay on a dilapidated iron bed, and she didn't know how uncomfortable she was. And when the brother-in-law got married, it was a brand new big bed! Who can stand this differential treatment?
What's even more infuriating is that the mother-in-law actually slapped the eldest son directly because of a trivial matter! This slap doesn't matter, poor Da Yang has been slumped since then, and he actually suffered from depression.
You think that's the end of it? No! Sister Liu not only has to take care of her sick husband, but also has to take care of the children alone. Over the years, she has taken her husband everywhere to seek medical treatment, but her mother-in-law's family has not even helped anyone!
It can be said that Dayang will never give up, as a woman, it is not easy to take her husband around to see a doctor and take care of her children. The mediator's words expressed Sister Liu's bitterness.
But even so, Sister Liu still chose to repay her grievances with virtue. Last year, her in-laws were hospitalized at the same time, and she went to take care of her for half a month without saying a word. This filial piety, do you say it is worthy of respect?
Xiao Yang blamed his sister-in-law. He only saw that his sister-in-law didn't take the money, but he couldn't see the hard work of his sister-in-law. This can't help but make people want to ask: Xiao Yang, are you too selfish?
Netizens have a lot of discussions on this matter. Some people say: It is the duty of the mother-in-law not to help take care of the children, and the daughter-in-law should not ignore the mother-in-law because of this. Some people also retorted: The mother-in-law refuses to help, so she should find her son for the elderly, what does it matter to the daughter-in-law? Who do you think is right?
In fact, what is right or wrong in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? The key is to understand and respect each other. It's a pity that the Yang family seems to have forgotten this.
Lao Yang admits that he is partial to his younger son, but has he ever thought about how unfair this is to his eldest son? Sister Liu has endured her anger for so many years, isn't it worth a word of thanks?
Xiao Yang, have you ever thought about what you would do if you were a sister-in-law? The in-laws target you everywhere, can you still greet you with a smile? Other people's efforts are not taken for granted!
Fortunately, in the end, under the persuasion of the mediator, Sister Liu still went to visit her mother-in-law in the hospital. Seeing her mother-in-law holding her granddaughter's hand, the resentment in Sister Liu's heart seemed to have disappeared a lot.
This story teaches us that family harmony requires everyone's efforts. Don't wait until you lose it to know how to cherish it. We should be more understanding and less concerned about our family members.
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