How to separate a third party? When facing the junior, the original partner can't lose in four aspects!
Why are many of the original conditions not lost to the junior, but they can't be separated from the junior?
The cheating man does look at the value, the original match is more valuable, and he will be reluctant to divorce.
But many juniors can use means and other advantages to make up for the lack of conditions.
The original match may lose in four aspects, so that the junior has played a trick,
not only won over the cheating man, but also defeated the original partner, and the extramarital affair was naturally difficult to solve.
When facing the junior, the original partner can't lose in four aspects!
The first point is that you can't lose externally.
This can't be lost, it's not that the original partner has to be more beautiful than the junior.
But in terms of dressing, you have to try to be as careful as possible to make yourself refined.
The original partner may not understand what is the difference between meeting the mistress after you dress up carefully and you are embarrassed to find the mistress.
In fact, you can think about it, the junior is dressed up beautifully and decently, and the clothes he wears are very expensive.
What is the difference in your psychology from her when she has a table that is unkempt and dressed in stalls.
You will unconsciously look up to the former and then feel that the latter is low-end.
When you despise a person from the bottom of your heart and think that she is easy to deal with,
You will begin to become confident in resolving extramarital affairs, and you will be psychologically stable.
And on the battlefield of extramarital affairs, the original partner and the junior are fighting psychological warfare.
In the same way, the junior will also feel that the original match is very powerful and fearful because the original match is exquisite and expensive.
People who don't understand people look at the appearance to put down dishes, so wives must not lose this point.
The second point is that you can't lose in terms of posture.
Many of the original partners are obviously protected by the law, and the junior should be shouted and beaten by everyone.
But after you were cheated on, you made your posture ugly,
You are not even as stable as Xiao San, even if you look quite high on the surface,
Of course, after being cheated, the mentality will not be too good, and there will be emotional problems.
At this time, the test is not what the relationship between husband and wife, human nature and the like, but the mentality of the original partner.
and your ability to adjust your mindset, if you do nothing and let your mind collapse,
Then it will affect your posture of dealing with the junior, and there is a high probability that you will be at a disadvantage when you solve the extramarital affair in the future.
Any junior is a bully who is afraid of the hard.
The wives are in a high posture and don't take the mistress in their eyes, as if she is nothing.
The mistress's posture will be suppressed because they are afraid of this type of wife, and they are afraid of affecting their posture.
On the contrary, if the wives behave in a low posture, the mistress will raise the posture.
Therefore, the original partner must maintain his posture and cannot lose to the junior.
The third point is that you can't lose your grip on cheating men.
This is not a threat, you have to use both grace and power, coax the cheating man, and occasionally give the cheating man some deterrence.
Instead of the mistress coaxing the cheating man, let the cheating man feel happier with the mistress,
The original partner was not satisfied, and quarreled with the cheating man every day, blindly threatening the cheating man.
pushed the cheating man to the mistress, and at the insistence of the original partner, the mistress was more able to hold the cheating man.
Don't admit it, the extramarital affair is that the original partner is not as good as the cheating man, and you can't completely solve it.
Whether the cheating man is on the side of the mistress, or is he more inclined to the original partner, or is he a bystander,
For the original partner to solve the extramarital affair, it is a completely different situation.
The original partner pinched the cheating man, at least more influence on the cheating man than the mistress,
It is even more advantageous for any original partner who wants to settle an extramarital affair.
But the original partner doesn't want to be jealous with Xiao San, just coaxing a cheating man,
Don't fall into the misunderstanding of tearing each other apart with the mistress, what you have to do is to pinch the cheating man, not to please the cheating man.
Therefore, the original partner should not lose to the junior in terms of pinching the cheating man.
Fourth, you can't lose in the control of information.
Knowing oneself and knowing one's opponent is the only way to survive a hundred battles, and you know that the enemy is a convenient condition for victory.
Many juniors understand this, and they will try their best to understand what kind of person the original partner is.
The juniors that Su Yue has come into contact with, some of them find friends with the original partners in order to be able to defeat the original partner.
Send benefits to colleagues who work together every day, and find out the relatives and friends of the cheating man as allies,
And then keep talking from the cheating man every day, these troublesome and expensive means are all to understand the original match,
So many times, Xiao San and the original partner are really facing each other, and the original partner will suffer a lot.
Every sentence that Xiao San said poked at the pain points of the original partner, making it easy for the original partner to lose control of his emotions.
From separating the mistress to tearing the mistress, from wanting to save the cheating man, to having a conflict with the cheating man,
The root of these is the control of the original match's information, which is better than the control of the original pair's information of the mistress.
You don't know the junior, but the mistress knows you very well, and the junior has the advantage when there is a conflict.
Therefore, wives, you must not lose on this, and it is essential to spend time, energy and even money to understand the mistress.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say, let the original partner not lose to the junior in these four points, not let the original partner and the junior be jealous,
You need to use some means to highlight your strengths, whether it is in front of the mistress or the cheating man.
Instead of what the junior does, you have to compete with the junior to come up with a high and low,
What you have to do is to solve the extramarital affair, not compare with the mistress, who is better in the end.
The four points that Su Yue summarized above that the original partner can't lose are all to solve the extramarital affair service.
Wives must be clear about this meaning and then implement it in order to solve extramarital affairs.
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