introduction
The word "joke" comes from the twenty-seventh chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions", in which there is a sentence: "The two had to hide this and joke with them." Since then, the word "joke" has been coined.
So, what is a "joke"?
According to the New Interpretation of Words, "joking" refers to words or actions that play and laugh.
A sociologist pointed out that there must be a degree of joking with others, and you need to grasp the proportion, because excessive jokes may hurt the feelings of others, and even destroy the original harmonious relationship, so you must grasp the scale when joking with others.
The sociologist went on to point out that the purpose of joking is to bring joy and lightness, and that if you joke too much, you can hurt others. Generally speaking, we can't joke about people we don't know well or are not close enough, after all, joking has the potential to cause misunderstandings and make the other person uncomfortable.
In addition, the sociologist went on to point out, it is important not to use insulting words when joking with others, because such words tend to stimulate other people's emotions and cause them to be angry! And once others are angry, there is a possibility of conflict!
In fact, the sociologist's statement is still very reasonable. No, just a few days ago, a 5-year-old boy joked at an adult man in his 30s and used insulting words, which caused the little boy to be beaten!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
At about 19:45 on the evening of June 22, this year's 32-year-old man Ban took his daughter for a walk in Zhengda Dongsheng Community, Zhangjiakou City, Hebei Province, when he met a 5-year-old boy He Mou, who was playing with a group of children. When He saw Ban, he called Ban "son", which caused Ban to be very angry, and when Ban was angry, he raised his foot and kicked He, resulting in abrasions on He's face and head. After He's mother reported the case, Ban was sentenced to 15 days of administrative detention by the public security organs in accordance with the law.
On June 27, He's mother, Ms. Zhang, told media reporters: "Ban and our family are neighbors in the same community, and sometimes, Ban will go to the chess and card room opened by my parents to play, and when Ban sees my son, he will tease my son." It should be said that my son He and Ban are still very familiar. The incident happened on the evening of June 22, when my son He was playing with children downstairs, and when my son He saw Ban, he called him 'son'. Unexpectedly, he annoyed Ban, who kicked my son He without saying a word, resulting in head and facial trauma and skin contusion on the right eye socket of my son He. ”
He's mother, Ms. Zhang, then told media reporters: "At that time, I was at the scene, and when I saw this scene, I felt extremely angry. You must know that my son He is only 5 years old, and he is still an ignorant child, he just made a joke on Ban! If my son's words are inappropriate and hurt Ban, Ban can tell me and let me educate my son. But he can't beat my son! You know, this incident has caused a lot of damage to my son's psyche! So, I called the police. ”
On June 29, the Zhangjiakou Xuanhua Public Security Bureau reported on the incident.
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen Spring Story: He is only 5 years old, and he dares to speak disrespectfully to adults, such a child grows up. Although it was wrong for Ban to beat He, it was time for He to be educated.
Netizen, you come and go: Ms. Zhang, He's mother, should reflect on it, how dare her 5-year-old son call an adult "son"? Is there something wrong with your own education? If there is a problem with his education, I think it is not too much for Ban to come forward and teach He a lesson.
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
Quality education must be grasped from an early age.
Although Ban should not beat He, He should not make such a "joke" to Ban! After all, this "joke" is clearly an insult to Ban, how could Ban not be angry?
Lao Hu thinks: He's mother, Ms. Zhang, must have a problem in educating her son, otherwise, He would not dare to call "son" to adults! Based on the problem of He's mother, Ms. Zhang, who improperly educated her son, He's mother, Ms. Zhang, should also reflect on it!