Love is like poetry.
People can't help but use the most beautiful words to depict.
Time flies.
Every relationship will be dull.
From this time on, love has long since become an essay.
Only those who know how to appreciate can discover the value of the quiet years, so as to cherish this relationship more and more.
There are also some people who see nothing but blandness and tastelessness.
If a man gets tired of love, it is easy for everyone to make the wrong choice.
For example, use betrayal to hurt the women around you.
So, why do these men betray them?
The 4 psychology of men's "affair", don't realize it later.
01
Happiness Psychology
Psychologically.
There is a "gambler's fallacy" that can make people make wrong judgments.
And many betrayed men.
They tend to have such a mentality.
When faced with temptation, these men will think that as long as they don't say it, they can hide the past.
Even in the future, it will not be discovered.
As everyone knows, such a conclusion is just a fallacy.
They think that their infidelity can be cleverly hidden and will not be discovered by their spouse.
In fact, in this world, "paper can't hold fire".
Therefore, we should keep in mind: "If people don't know, they can't do it unless they do".
Don't hurt the woman who loves you with the wrong behavior.
02
I want to take advantage
There's no denying it.
Many people have the idea of being cheap.
Even in a relationship.
Some men will also be greedy and swayed by the psychology of taking advantage.
They tend to think:
Relationships outside of marriage can meet their needs and will not cost a lot.
In this way, these men overestimate their own worth and ignore the feelings of those around them.
The "narcissistic bias" in psychology can explain this phenomenon.
So they think they're attractive.
will even think that his wife and lover are not worthy of him.
Under the influence of narcissism, these men will also think that taking advantage is the right thing to do.
As everyone knows, there is no such thing as a free lunch in this world.
As a result of betrayal, everyone will usher in the corresponding cause and effect, and there is no escape.
03
Revenge
The two fell in love.
In the future, will you be able to be happy forever?
In fact, in every relationship, there will be unexpected tests.
Only two people who love firmly can stay together.
But some men don't have such awareness.
They will attribute all kinds of problems to their lover, so as to determine that the other person is not worthy of them.
When these men are dissatisfied with their lovers.
They may not propose a breakup or divorce, but will retaliate against each other by betrayal.
This kind of behavior is obviously wrong.
And behind it, there is often a misunderstanding of the marriage relationship that men have.
04
Selfishness
Psychologically.
There is a concept of "self".
It means that we often put ourselves in our own shoes and think about ourselves.
This kind of behavior is the behavior of the ego.
In many loves, men will also have such thoughts, which seems very selfish.
For such a man.
If there is a setback in the relationship, they will take into account their personal interests.
If you are outside of love, you have encountered temptation.
These men will only think about their own feelings and needs, ignoring the thoughts of their other half.
In the face of external temptations, all they think about is personal satisfaction.
When encountering such a man, girls are very vulnerable.
The reason why a man is "having an affair" is mostly due to the influence of these psychology.
Have you found the truth?