What is Love?
In the words of Eileen Chang:
"True love is deliberately intrusive."
After being attracted to someone, how can you fulfill love?
Even a reserved woman.
Everyone, driven by love, will also become an active person.
Sometimes, a woman's initiative will make a man feel "disturbed".
As a man, if you want love to come.
So, you have to be aware of:
If you fall in love, a woman will "bother" you like this.
In hindsight, it's easy to miss out on a woman who truly loves you.
As for women, how will they "bother" you? Let's take a look.
01
Take the initiative to understand
Xiao Fang and Xiao Li are colleagues.
I don't know when she had a good impression of Xiao Li.
As a result, Xiaofang often took the initiative to chat with each other and ask him about his hobbies and work.
Once, Xiao Li mentioned that he liked to play basketball.
Xiao Fang immediately said that she liked it too, and invited Xiao Li to play together.
Through active understanding, the fate of the two people gradually warmed up.
When a woman, in love with a man.
In the depths of her subconscious, she will have a strong interest in him and want to know everything about him.
For example, she will take the initiative to ask him about his preferences.
Even living habits, work conditions, etc., in order to get to know him better.
This kind of active understanding behavior is the manifestation of a woman's motivation.
If you meet a woman who takes the initiative to understand you and is willing to listen to your heart.
Then you have to know that most of the other party has a crush on you and wants to try to establish a deeper emotional connection with you.
02
Dispute Exchange
As Plato said:
"Love makes people want to communicate."
In addition to taking the initiative to understand.
In order to fulfill fate, women will also strive for opportunities to communicate.
When two people are chatting.
She may take the initiative to find various topics or create opportunities to be alone with him.
This act of striving for communication is actually a manifestation of a woman's desire to establish a deeper connection.
For example:
Xiaohong and Zhang are college classmates.
When Xiaohong realized that she was in love with Xiao Zhang, she became proactive.
She often asks Xiao Zhang to borrow books, ask him about his studies, or participate in club activities with the other party.
It is precisely because of Xiaohong's feelings.
She will take the initiative to "disturb" the other party and strive to grasp the fate of the two people.
It's just that if the man doesn't realize it, it's a woman's temptation.
Then everyone, it is easy to disappoint a woman's heart.
03
Asking for help from you
Psychologically, it is believed that:
Taking the initiative to show weakness can effectively win men's attention and concern.
Many wise women.
Everyone can realize the importance of showing weakness.
At the same time, they will also hope to see through the man's attitude towards them by showing weakness.
Especially in the "double blind zone" of love.
Women take the initiative to show weakness to men by asking for help, and they can often see whether men are willing to have a relationship.
What seems to be an intrusive act is actually a woman's way of showing love.
Usually.
If a man intends to have a relationship, he will behave positively in the face of a woman's request for help.
For example, Xiaoli's water pipe is broken.
She thought about it and didn't look for someone else, but asked her beloved Xiao Wang for help.
Xiao Wang didn't say a word, so he helped her fix the water pipe.
In this process, the two chatted very speculatively, and fate also ushered in an opportunity to further heat up.