Under the bright stars of the entertainment industry, we have witnessed countless heart-warming love moments.
Chen Xiao and Chen Yanxi, a pair of beauties who got married in "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", their love was like the plot in a youth movie, which was intoxicating.
The unforgettable "wedding kiss" at the wedding seemed to draw a perfect end to this love, making people believe that they had really found each other's soul mates.
However, as time passes, there are now frequent news of their marital discord.
People began to question why this once sweet couple had come to this point? What made their marriage so fragile, and even the news that Chen Xiao was willing to leave the house and divorce was even rumored?
Perhaps, the root of all this is our high expectations for marriage.
When love is endowed with too much aura and expectation, when marriage is seen as a symbol of a perfect life, it is often difficult for us to accept the truth and flaws behind it.
The truth of marriage is that it is full of challenges and run-ins, and we need to learn to tolerate and grow in it.
Chen Xiao's marriage to Chen Yanxi may be such an example.
Their love was once as beautiful as a fairy tale, but when they entered the palace of marriage, in the face of the triviality and truth of life, the former passion and romance may be difficult to maintain.
As time goes on, they may have more and more problems getting along with each other. Maybe it's because of work pressure, life chores, or maybe it's because of each other's personality differences and different values, these problems gradually accumulated, and eventually led to the breakdown of their marriage.
Every disappointment, every fruitless communication, is consuming the love between them.
Chen Xiao's eyes changed from being full of love to being indifferent and ruthless, which may be a true portrayal of his inner disappointment and exhaustion.
He may have tried countless times to save the marriage, but in the end he chose to leave decisively, only to end the painful relationship as soon as possible.
However, the breakdown of a marriage is not always a bad thing. It can be an opportunity for us to re-examine ourselves and learn to grow. For Chen Xiao and Chen Yanxi, the end of this marriage may also be an important turning point in their lives.
They can learn from this experience, learn to handle relationships better, and learn to maintain themselves and grow in their marriage.
Just like Yi Nengjing, after 22 years of marriage and divorce with Haring, she chose vipassana and practice, and finally found her true self, and met a more suitable partner in her later life, living a wonderful life.
Chen Xiao and Chen Yanxi can also come out of the failure of this marriage and find their own happiness again.
This case has brought us a profound enlightenment: marriage is not the whole of life, and we should not pin all our expectations on each other.
When a woman no longer has a "love brain" and can look at marriage soberly, marriage will no longer be a burden and burden, nor will it be a burden that will bring down both parties.
We should learn to maintain ourselves in marriage, learn to grow, and learn to face the truth of marriage. Marriage is a practice ground that allows us to know ourselves better and also to learn how to relate to others.
For Chen Xiao and Chen Yanxi, as well as all those who are struggling in their marriages, I hope we can all have the ability to start at any time.
Don't be afraid of a failed marriage, and don't lose faith in love because of a single breakdown.
We should manage our marriage with a sense of normalcy and awe, cherish every relationship, but at the same time, we must also learn to protect ourselves and learn to grow in marriage.
Finally, may we all find our true selves in the journey of marriage and live life to the fullest. No matter how our marriage changes, we can maintain peace and steadfastness in our hearts and face every challenge in life bravely.