Life is like a journey of ups and downs, full of joys and sorrows, ups and downs. It is in these extreme emotions and situations that we are able to see ourselves more clearly and to gain a more genuine insight into our friends.
In times of great joy and sorrow, it is the time when the mirror of the heart reflects the most authentic self. When great joy comes, such as the long-awaited success or long-awaited glory, we are easily carried away by the excitement and become complacent. However, people who can really stay sober in joy, not be arrogant or impatient, think about the hard work and dedication behind success, and can treat others with gratitude, can be regarded as truly seeing themselves. On the contrary, when we encounter heavy grief, such as the loss of a loved one or a career setback, the pain in our hearts will expose our vulnerability and strength at the same time. Some people give up on themselves in their grief, while others are able to face it bravely, draw strength from it, and get back on their feet. In times of great compassion, being able to examine one's own shortcomings, understand the impermanence of life, and continue to move forward with firmer steps is also a manifestation of seeing oneself clearly.
Between the ups and downs, the true face of friends is often revealed. When we are at the peak, our career is thriving, and our reputation is far and wide, we may be surrounded by many "friends". They praise our accomplishments and share moments of glory with us. But when the wheel of fate turns sharply and falls into a trough, those friends who come for profit will disperse one after another, and there are very few friends who can really stay. A true friend who will not change his attitude towards you because of your ups and downs. When you're proud, they'll remind you to stay awake. When you are frustrated, they will lend a helping hand, give encouragement and support, and accompany you through the storm.
After experiencing the ups and downs of life, we gradually understand that seeing ourselves clearly is a kind of wisdom, which allows us to know humility and tenacity, so as to grow and progress; It is a kind of luck to see friends clearly, let us cherish those friendships that are sincerely accompanied by each other, and stay away from false feelings.
In the days to come, may we all be able to constantly examine ourselves in great joy and sorrow, accurately identify true friends in times of ups and downs, and go through every journey of life with a clear and firm heart.