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Preface
Who would have thought that a second-generation star born with a golden spoon would eventually fall into a situation of wandering in a foreign land?
Who would have thought that a girl with a world-class superstar father would go to such extremes because of a lack of fatherly love?
Does Wu Zhuolin's life trajectory confirm the old proverb: "Those who do not educate people with love will repay them with hatred"?
The daughter of a famous family: destined for an extraordinary birth
In 1999, the Hong Kong entertainment industry ushered in a sensational news: Jackie Chan's "illegitimate daughter" was born.
This baby, who is called "Little Dragon Girl" by the media, is Wu Zhuolin.
Her mother is the former "Miss Asia" Wu Qili, and her father is kung fu superstar Jackie Chan.
However, this news, which should have been a happy event, turned into a farce because of Jackie Chan's attitude.
Jackie Chan publicly said: "Even if you give birth to a child, I won't admit it." "
This sentence is like a sharp sword, which not only pierced Wu Qili's heart, but also laid hidden dangers for Wu Zhuolin's future growth.
In the face of doubts and pressure from the outside world, Wu Qili always insisted on not letting Wu Zhuolin do DNA testing.
Her attitude is firm and stubborn: "Whether you do DNA or not, this is my child.
If I do, it will be a slander against me and a disrespect for my daughter. "
Kanaya Zangjiao: A seemingly prosperous childhood life
In 2002, in order to provide a better educational environment for her daughter, Wu Qili left Hong Kong with 3-year-old Wu Zhuolin and settled in Shanghai.
Wu Zhuolin was sent to a high-end foreign language school, with an annual tuition fee of 100,000 yuan.
On the surface, Wu Zhuolin's life is no different from that of other second-generation stars, and may even be more superior.
However, money and material things do not make up for the lack of fatherly love.
In school, Wu Zhuolin often saw other children picked up by their fathers, and he couldn't help but envy and doubt in his heart.
She once innocently asked her mother, "Why do everyone else have a father, but I don't?" "
Faced with her daughter's question, Wu Qili simply replied: "Don't compare with others, because what you have, others may not have." "
Such perfunctory answers do not satisfy a child's desire for fatherly love.
As he grew older, he began to realize who he was different.
The title of "Little Dragon Girl" not only did not bring her aura, but became a reason for her to be bullied.
Stern and doting: contradictory ways of education
Wu Qili's education method of Wu Zhuolin can be said to be extremely contradictory.
On the one hand, she doted on her daughter very much, and even helped Wu Zhuolin go to the toilet when she was 9 years old, and helped her get dressed when she was 15 years old.
On the other hand, she is strict with her daughter and often inflicts corporal punishment.
Wu Qili has shared her approach to education on social media:
If her daughter makes a mistake and refuses to admit it, let her stand with both hands holding "Cihai";
You can't put the book down or bend your arms or you'll be reprimanded or beaten.
She even confessed in an interview that she would whip her daughter's ass and thighs with a belt.
This contradictory way of education makes Wu Zhuolin oscillate between doting and strict, unable to establish stable emotional attachment and self-identity.
Wu Qili may think that she is doing good for her daughter, but she ignores an important fact:
Children who lack paternal love need more understanding and tenderness from their mothers than endless harshness and punishment.
School Nightmare: The painful years of being bullied
In school, Wu Zhuolin's life is not as glamorous as people think.
Her special status made her the object of discussion and exclusion by her classmates.
Once, a seemingly friendly classmate became good friends with her;
But then he united with other classmates to isolate her, and even threw her books and took away her stationery.
In the face of such school bullying, Wu Zhuolin once confided in his mother.
However, Wu Qili's response was to ask her daughter to be strong, rather than giving comfort or taking practical action.
This indifferent attitude made Wu Zhuolin feel even more lonely and helpless.
Since then, Wu Zhuolin has become disgusted with school and has become more and more closed.
She is no longer willing to step out of her comfort zone and has become unusually cautious about making friends.
This painful experience left an indelible shadow on her young mind.
Mother-daughter breakup: the eruption of family conflicts
As Wu Zhuolin entered puberty, the conflict between mother and daughter intensified.
In 2015, a news broke that shocked Hong Kong: Wu Qili was arrested on suspicion of child abuse.
It turned out that Wu Zhuolin cried to the teacher at school, saying that her mother beat her at home.
Although the hospital examination found no obvious injuries, the incident still separated the mother and daughter for nearly a month.
What's even more shocking is that Wu Zhuolin has cut his wrists twice and self-harmed and run away from home many times.
The second incident of calling the police to arrest the mother was even more thrilling.
According to insiders, Wu Qili tried to get her daughter to take medicine containing allergic ingredients, and after her daughter refused, a heated argument broke out.
There were even terrible words in the room, "It's either you die or I'm dead."
This series of events pushed the mother-daughter relationship to the brink of collapse.
Although the two have since reconciled, the rift has been difficult to heal.
Wu Zhuolin confided in an aunt in a private conversation:
"My mother and I got into trouble to this point, just to see 'Dad', but my mother never let me."
Rebel Attack: Coming Out and Leaving Home
In October 2017, 18-year-old Wu Zhuolin made a surprising move: she came out publicly and admitted that she was in love with his 31-year-old girlfriend Andy.
The decision was like a bombshell that caused an uproar on social media.
Wu Qili's public response seems to be full of maternal love: "I will always love you no matter what, blessings." "
But according to insiders, Wu Qili actually strongly opposes this relationship in private, thinking that Andy is not a good match.
However, Wu Zhuolin insisted on his choice, despite his mother's opposition, and even broke with his mother because of this.
Perhaps in Andy, Wu Zhuolin finally felt the love and understanding that he had been longing for.
She would rather break with her mother than give up this hard-won emotional sustenance.
This decision marks that Wu Zhuolin completely got rid of his mother's control and started a new chapter in his life.
Exile: A Difficult Independent Life
In 2018, netizens filmed a poignant scene in Canada:
Wu Zhuolin and his girlfriend Andy seem to be living on the streets, and even seem to be picking up scraps for a living.
This "little dragon girl" who used to be well-dressed and well-fed has now fallen into such a situation, which is embarrassing.
In November of the same year, Wu Zhuolin officially announced his marriage to Andy in Canada.
However, married life is not a fairy tale.
The two posted a video, saying that they have been wandering for nearly a month and hope that everyone can forward it for help.
In the video, Wu Zhuolin publicly admitted for the first time that she was Jackie Chan's daughter, which was in stark contrast to her previous attitude.
This video sparked heated discussions among netizens.
Some people questioned whether Wu Zhuolin's move had ulterior motives, after all, she had always said that she didn't know much about Jackie Chan.
But there are also people who sympathize with her situation and think that it is a helpless move when she is cornered.
Jackie Chan's attitude: the most familiar stranger
In the midst of this family tragedy, Jackie Chan has always maintained an inexplicable silence.
His attitude towards Wu Zhuolin can be described as "the most familiar stranger".
In an interview, Jackie Chan once mentioned his father-daughter relationship with Jing Tian in the movie "Police Story 2013";
reminded him of his relationship with Wu Zhuolin.
He confessed that he had ignored Xiaolongnu for a long time, and even his understanding of her was limited to information on the Internet.
This attitude of imminent departure undoubtedly deepened the wound in Wu Zhuolin's heart.
A girl who longs for her father's love, but can only learn about her father through the Internet, this reality is crueler than any drama.
epilogue
Looking back on Wu Zhuolin's life trajectory, we can't help but ask: Who caused this tragedy?
Is it irresponsible father Jackie Chan? Is it Wu Qili, a mother with a problem with her education method? Or is it Wu Zhuolin himself, who rebellious himself?
Perhaps, the answer is not black and white.
Everyone has played their part in this tragedy, and everyone is to blame.
Jackie Chan's absence, Wu Qili's paranoia, and Wu Zhuolin's rebellion together weave this embarrassing tragedy of life.