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In this fast-paced era, the forms of love are ever-changing, and the scenarios for marriage proposals are also varied. Recently, a video of a French guy failing to propose marriage in public went viral on the Internet.
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This video has only been uploaded for 8 hours, and the TT traffic has exceeded one million, exploding foreign media networks.
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In the video, the young man is full of anticipation to express his love to the girl, however, the girl's reaction is unexpectedly fierce, she does not agree to the proposal, but chooses to run away quickly.
This scene sparked a heated discussion among countless netizens around the world, some felt sorry for the young man, some praised the girl's bravery, and some domestic netizens said that they really hope that the girl can fall, so that the young man will have another chance.
I don't think the answer to the question of having to say yes to a marriage proposal is absolute. Love is a matter for two people, and marriage proposal is also a moment for both parties to face together. In this process, it is important to be sincere and communicated.
First of all, the young man should sincerely express his love and let the girl feel his heart and determination. However, this does not mean that girls have to accept marriage proposals.
Cherry Bobo: Why Hope Girls Fall...... Does a marriage proposal have to be accepted? An international version of the Shenjin ......
Mo Yu: Forcibly robbing people's girls in disguise
Only two: the same inexplicable Why do you feel so sorry for a man? I feel that the girl is so embarrassed that she runs so fast when she pulls her legs [Yun Bei]
Solo Fishing Golden Lake: Brave girl, she follows her heart! You know, it takes a lot of courage to run away in this atmosphere
xinFAYE: That's a comparison. The bravery of the boy's proposal in public filled the whole of France
She has the right to think and measure the relationship, and whether she has enough confidence and courage to face the difficulties and challenges that may be encountered in the future.
In the remarks of domestic netizens that they hope that the girl will fall, we can see a kind of "sympathetic" thinking. This kind of thinking thinks that since the boy has put in the effort, the girl should give it back.
However, this perception ignores the girl's personal wishes and choices. Love is not a transaction and cannot be measured in terms of giving and returning. Girls have the right to choose what they really want in life, rather than making decisions under pressure and compassion.
So, how should the lad face it in the event of a failed marriage proposal? First of all, he needs to respect the girl's choice and understand her concerns and hesitations.
This does not mean giving up love, but giving each other more time and space to understand and communicate. In this process, the young man can continue to touch the girl with his sincerity and care, and let her see the future of the two people.
At the same time, we should also realize that girls who bravely refuse marriage proposals also deserve respect. She has the courage to face pressure and stick to her choices, which not everyone has.
In real life, many girls may feel confused and stressed when facing a marriage proposal, and at this time, they need understanding and love, not the so-called "falling".
Conclusion
To sum up, proposing does not mean that you have to say yes. In the world of love, the rights and wishes of both parties should be respected. When a marriage proposal fails, it is important to learn to face and communicate, to move the other person with sincerity and love, rather than relying on sympathy or pressure. After all, true love is based on mutual understanding and dedication.
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