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"I can't even hold a glass of water, I'm almost paralyzed, now I can only move my fingers and head, I want to find a husband to accompany me"
In 2009, a 27-year-old ALS girl posted a marriage message on the Internet.
Just when she thought that the post would sink into the sea, a man named Wu Qiang appeared, not only did not mind her body, but even resolutely chose to marry this "ALS girl" under the opposition of her parents.
In the fifth year of marriage, she became pregnant, but no one was happy, and even persuaded her not to give birth.
She was already suffering from a disease, and she was pregnant for ten months, and she gambled with her life, and the child may also inherit her mother's disease because of this.
Under the dilemma, the girl still chose to risk death to have a child, just to leave a child for her husband, and even if she left, her husband would have something to rely on.
Now that 10 years have passed, what has happened to this ALS girl and her child?
The statements in this article are based on reliable sources of information and are detailed at the end of the article
Sick at the age of 9
"Paralysed at the age of 12 and died at the age of 18"
When Liu Zhenzhen was 9 years old, the doctor's "curse" was sealed on her, and she was diagnosed with ALS that year.
It is a neurological disorder in which the limbs, as well as the torso, atrophy over time, eventually leading to paralysis.
There is no specific drug, there is no absolute treatment plan, once the diagnosis of life enters the "countdown", and Liu Zhenzhen, who was 9 years old at the time, was asserted by the doctor that there were only nine years left.
At first, everyone didn't believe it, thinking that everything was misjudged by the doctor, but in just three years, Liu Zhenzhen's health is getting worse day by day.
She used to be able to walk on her own, but later she had to rely on a wheelchair, her hands began to become weak, and after the age of 12, she had little room to move.
Looking at this situation, Liu Zhen really believed that the next thing she would face was death.
But she is unwilling, she has only been in the world for decades, why do she have to be one step ahead of her parents?
What is even more sad than Liu Zhenzhen is her parents, as the only daughter in the family, they have grown up surrounded by love since she was a child, and no one can accept "white-haired people send black-haired people".
In the next few years, Liu Zhenzhen lost the ability to act independently, and his parents began to take care of him 24 hours a day.
Suddenly, they found that their parents, who were only forty years old, were already covered with gray hair, but a "miracle" happened that gave them hope.
Liu Zhenzhen broke the "curse" and not only survived the age of 18, but also successfully passed the 25th birthday, which was the favor of God for this girl who was full of despair.
Even the doctors felt incredible, but no one could guarantee that she would suddenly die one day for this incurable disease.
Therefore, everyone cherishes the current day, but Liu Zhenzhen realizes that his illness is getting worse and his parents are slowly getting older.
Once they got sick, it was like the sky was falling, and her parents were in bed, and she could only lie in bed and wait for her parents to get better.
But the thin parents are no longer as easy to pick her up as they were at the beginning, and it is very difficult for the two to take care of them together.
It was also at this time that Liu Zhenzhen felt that she couldn't go on like this, her parents couldn't take care of her for the rest of her life, so she had to start planning for her future.
And marriage is the only way she can think of, but her current appearance, maybe no one will choose.
But a man's registration completely changed Liu Zhenzhen's life...
A ray of light in life
In 2009, Liu Zhenzhen's marriage post had a lot of messages, some made fun of her, some mocked her, and some encouraged her.
In the dense text, no one signed up until half a month after the marriage post was published.
A man named Wu Qiang signed up.
At that time, the two exchanged photos with each other, looking at Wu Qiang, who was clean and pure in his eyes, Liu Zhenzhen's affection for him increased.
But in order not to delay the other party, Liu Zhenzhen truthfully informed him of everything, so that he must think clearly, her life needs to be taken care of, and her life does not know when it will end.
thought that these conditions would make Wu Qiang retreat in the face of difficulties, but he responded and said that he would go to Liu Zhenzhen's city to find her.
The first time they met, it was Wu Qiang pushing Liu Zhenzhen's wheelchair, walking from one end to the other, and every step they took was the "courage" in their hearts.
It was also after this date that the two secretly made a lifelong decision in their hearts.
For Wu Qiang, Liu Zhenzhen is like a person who illuminates the road ahead for him, and because of the failure of his work, he fell into a stage of self-doubt.
At that time, he always thought that he was the most miserable person in the world, but when he met Liu Zhenzhen, he found that there were many people in this world who were harder than him and stronger than him.
It was also a marriage message from hers that woke up Wu Qiang and allowed him to find the direction of his life.
Later, the two entered the palace of marriage, and there were not many people who supported this marriage, and no one was optimistic, only Liu Zhenzhen and Wu Qiang firmly believed in each other.
In the first year of marriage, it was the most difficult time for the couple, they lived in a rental house for 100 yuan a month, in order to take care of Liu Zhenzhen, Wu Qiang specially found a company only a few hundred meters away from home.
After getting up every day and arranging everything, I hurried to the company, came back at noon, cooked and fed my wife, carried her to the toilet, and returned to the company before I had time to rest.
When I returned home from work in the evening, I repeated the things of cooking, feeding, and bathing for my wife.
Day after day, Wu Qiang has long been accustomed to this kind of life, and taking care of his wife has become more and more skillful, although the days are hard, but also very satisfied.
And in the fifth year after their marriage, an "unexpected" news disrupted their lives.
New Life: Life will be better
In 2014, Liu Zhenzhen was pregnant, she didn't dare to tell her parents, and she tried to escape everything she would face next.
The husband did not use his own will to persuade Liu Zhenzhen, but let her make her own choice, no matter what the result is, he will always stand behind her.
It was also Wu Qiang's words that gave Liu Zhenzhen a lot of confidence, she had too many regrets when she came to this world, and the arrival of the child was not easy, she didn't want to give up like this.
So the couple hid from their parents and began to go in and out of the hospital frequently, and the doctor's advice at that time was not to give birth.
Because Liu Zhenzhen's blood pressure reached 190mmHg at that time, this is not the upper limit at all, and if you choose to have a child, there is a great possibility of massive bleeding, and it is still a mystery whether you can get off the operating table.
And at that time, Liu Zhenzhen was suffering from ALS, in addition to high blood pressure and heart disease, her respiratory system was also a "time bomb".
One warning made Wu Qiang afraid for a while, and even wavered to persuade his wife to give up, but she finally made up her mind, and she didn't want to give up a chance to be a mother like this.
In this regard, she proposed to her husband that if the child has no problems after the genetic test, then they will take a risk, and if the child has health problems, then everything will be left to the doctor.
Perhaps even the heavens were moved by Liu Zhenzhen's determination, and when it came to genetic testing, the child was very healthy and would not have genetic problems.
After getting this result, Liu Zhenzhen and her husband breathed a sigh of relief, but the next thing they had to face was to step through the ghost gate.
When she was pregnant in August, Liu Zhenzhen was pushed into the operating room, because of her health, she could not give birth naturally, so she could only perform cesarean section.
On that day, outside the operating room and inside the operation, there were anxious people, and outside the operating room, Wu Qiang and his family members rubbed their palms and paced back and forth.
In addition to obstetrics and anesthesiology doctors, there are also specialists in the intensive care unit, neurology, cardiology, vascular surgery and neonatology.
These are all preparations for Liu Zhenzhen's next production, her body is too special, and the slightest carelessness in the whole process is a corpse and two lives.
On January 11, 2015, a baby's cry, mother and child were safe, and everyone's hearts were completely relaxed at this moment.
Liu Zhenzhen looked at this child and felt that his life was worth it.
After returning to the ordinary, the life of the family is not much different from before, but the appearance of the child has brought more laughter to the family.
It seems that everyone has hope in their hearts, even if they can't predict the future days, but the present is worth it.
For Liu Zhenzhen, this small family is supported by her husband, and he needs to take care of the big and small in the family while taking care of his own work.
Every time Liu Zhenzhen looked at his busy figure, he always felt a little sorry for him, and he suffered together.
But to the satisfaction of the couple, the child is growing up day by day, and he is becoming more and more sensible, and since he can walk and talk, he has not made any more trouble.
Even many times I will help my father, pour water for my mother and pinch her legs.
No matter how old he is, he will also compete to help his father do some housework, and the child knows his father's hard work and the pain of his mother's illness, and always wants to grow up faster.
Now that Liu Zhenzhen's son has entered primary school, under the influence of his parents, he is very optimistic, no matter what happens, he will try to find a way to solve it, instead of stopping to judge himself.
During this period, Liu Zhenzhen also received help from many well-wishers in the society, some sent them some things in life, and some helped them apply for various subsidies and help from the government.
Life is getting better day by day, Liu Zhenzhen always hopes that she can live a little longer, if she can see the child become an adult, it is the greatest gift from God to her.
I hope that their family can be happy for a long time, watching their children grow up, and children grow old with their parents.
Resources:
Global Network: A 27-year-old woman with gradual freezing is seeking marriage online and has a baby after 5 years of marriage
https://baijiahao.baidu.com/s?id=1647332994103931994&wfr=spider&for=pc
People's Political Consultative Conference Network: 12-year-old paralyzed in bed boldly asked for marriage, and people with ALS had high-risk children to be happy
https://www.rmzxb.com.cn/c/2016-06-09/860239.shtml
"Mamma Mia": ALS mother risked death to get pregnant and give birth to a child, leaving a paragraph for the baby, and the judges were in tears
https://www.ixigua.com/6792941475446391299?logTag=60a6f4889e00640d83ea