<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" data-track="1" > a few words from Song Wenfei to the woman</h1>
On January 13, 2013, Song Wenfei posted an article on her social platform with the content "Words for Women". The article is short, with only six sentences. This is her last words to the public, her advice to all women, and it seems to be a lament for her short life.
Song Wenfei Weibo
At that time, Song Wenfei was already seriously ill, and less than two months after the article was published, she died because of advanced cervical cancer and ineffective treatment.
"Work and dating time conflict, work first" From this sentence, it can be seen that Song Wenfei was unwilling and desperate at that time.
Song Wenfei
When her career was in full swing, a man who was about to wreak havoc on her life entered her life.
Song Wenfei and Li Da'an met at a commercial performance. At that time, Li Daan was young and handsome, and his speech and demeanor were personable. Coupled with the fact that it is a well-known angel investor and the second generation of "Xingrui", it can be said that it is a wealthy and high-profile business star with a promising future.
Daan Lee
Although the age difference between the two is four years, this has not become a resistance for Li Da'an to pursue Song Wenfei. Flowers, gifts, crew visits, meticulous care, all kinds of means emerge in an endless stream, Li Daan is bound to get.
Perhaps it is the overly bumpy struggle experience of her youth, or perhaps it is affected by the family's economic situation, so that Song Wenfei, who lacks a sense of security, is extremely eager to be cared for and longs to have a stable home.
Therefore, under Li Da'an's wealth and strong love offensive, Song Wenfei did not hesitate to agree to the other party's marriage proposal.
In 2010, the two registered for marriage in Hong Kong, and the sister-brother relationship quickly came to fruition.
Once in an interview, Song Wenfei revealed the look of the love she longed for. She said that she would put her lover's career first, her family first, and her career last.
After getting married, Song Wenfei did indeed do that. In the ascendancy of her career, she disappeared from the public eye and became a full-time wife, and has not heard from her since.
Interview with Song Wenfei
However, when Song Wenfei's name appeared in the news media again, it was not because of her film and television works, but because she suffered domestic violence.
Through the revelations of friends, it turned out that Song Wenfei began to be abused by her husband shortly after she got married. The husband, who had been gentle and considerate, often punched and kicked her, beating her beyond recognition and being injured.
Song Wenfei was abused by the family
During her pregnancy, she was even more pregnant, braving the cold, and running to the police station with a bloody face to take refuge. At the police station, Song Wenfei cried bitterly, saying that she could not go back to that home, otherwise she would be killed.
People who have changed their hearts will not go back to the past after all. Since then, the news of Song Wenfei's domestic violence has continued to come out. Even the few days of confinement that she was not spared.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" data-track="65" > she loves her work and family, but only forgets to love herself</h1>
Song Wenfei gave up her career for her lover and devoted herself to the family, which she believes is love. However, if you give without reservation, what you get is not necessarily a marriage that is full of bubbles and raises eyebrows.
One thing makes people wonder why Song Wenfei has never stood up for herself and has chosen silence and evasion in the face of repeated domestic violence and suffering again and again.
If it wasn't for her friends who spoke up for her, maybe she was killed at home, and people may not know.
The reason is not difficult to guess, it may be to save the other party's face, or it may be that there is still an expectation in the heart, expecting the other party to return to the past.
In short, this overly inclusive love, in addition to torturing Song Wenfei's body and spirit, did not bring her any benefits, not even shelter and normal life needs.
After continuous persuasion from friends, Song Wenfei finally plucked up enough courage to decide to divorce her husband Li Daan and bid farewell to this bitter love, but Li Daan did not agree.
In order to let the young children have a better life security, she disregarded her body, and even did not care about the confinement, and began to work early.
The 365-day,300-year-round work model is a common occurrence for Song Wenfei.
Some people say that the reason why she works so hard is to forget the dark life that marriage brings her; others say that she is just to make more money and give her children a guarantee for their future lives.
Song Wenfei stills
Whatever the reason, this suicidal way of working finally overwhelmed her body.
In 2012, when Song Wenfei signed a contract with the crew of "Looking for North", he was diagnosed with cervical cancer. But in order not to affect the filming schedule, not to affect the image of the character in the audience's mind, but also for the infant child, she rejected the doctor's recommendation to let her be hospitalized.
Song Wenfei in the crew
After the end of the four-month shooting mission, the role was successfully shaped, and the response of the TV series broadcast was also good, but Song Wenfei missed the best treatment time, due to excessive fatigue caused by the rapid spread of cancer cells, and she originally had a glimmer of vitality, and she forced herself to a dead end.
On March 3, 2013, Song Wenfei, who was only 27 years old, died of illness at home.
Portrait of Song Wenfei
Her death didn't seem to have had much of an impact on Li Da'an. The man who brought her misfortune never showed up at her funeral. He never apologized to the deceased for what he had done.
After Song Wenfei's death, Li Da'an also faded out of people's sight, in addition to his property, shares are still there, any other news, did not appear in front of the public, like a dream, people sighed.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" data-track="76" > is not an easy road to acting</h1>
Looking back on Song Wenfei's life, in fact, her journey was not easy. In 1985, Song Wenfei was born into an ordinary family in Guangzhou.
She has loved dancing since she was a child and ballet is her favorite. Later, in order to let her get better professional training and more in-depth study, her parents decided to let Song Wenfei go to Shanghai to study.
Song Wenfei and Li Youbin
So 10-year-old Song Wenfei went to Shanghai accompanied by her mother. With her love of dance and her desire for the stage, she has been trying to grit her teeth and persevere.
The pain of all kinds of dance learning, such as rolling her muscles, pressing her legs, and opening her crotch, did not make her flinch in the slightest. Even if she was accidentally injured in training, she continued to insist without a word.
In this way, with the persistence in this bone, Song Wenfei took root in ballet learning, and once she studied it for 10 years, she was recognized by many professional teachers.
With the passage of time, the former ballet girl matured and became a professional ballet dancer with beautiful appearance and outstanding temperament. However, before he could finish his studies, the family's changes gave the young Song Wenfei a heavy blow.
At that time, she was studying dance in Beijing, but her father failed in business, leaving this ordinary small family with huge debts. In order to reduce the burden on his family, the sensible Song Wenfei interrupted his studies in Beijing.
In order to help her father pay off her debts, she decided to work hard to earn money and let her family live a good life.
In 2003, when Pearl River Film Studios was preparing to shoot an advertisement for the Spring Festival, the director decided to choose someone from among the girls who studied dance. It is best to have an outstanding temperament, a beautiful appearance, and a glance that can make people remember.
Song Wenfei, who had always been obsessed with ballet, was not at all interested in shooting advertisements, but could not stand the repeated encouragement of her classmates. When she heard that there would be a considerable amount of advertising money to participate in the filming, she was moved, so she decided to try her luck.
Due to her perennial dancing experience and excellent professionalism, coupled with good innate conditions, Song Wenfei successfully took over the first advertisement in her life and got the extremely high advertising fee for her at that time.
Song Wenfei was overjoyed, she finally had an income, and she could finally rely on her own strength to pay off her father's debts and reduce the family's financial burden.
Due to the excellent effect after the advertisement was broadcast, Song Wenfei was favored by various directors, and for a time, the invitation to shoot the advertisement was like a snowflake.
Her serious work and high level of business have allowed her to accumulate excellent reputation in the industry, which has also led to more and more advertisers finding her.
"When I was busiest, I had to receive more than 30 advertisements a month, even in the off-season, I would have an income of 20,000 or 30,000 a month", this is Song Wenfei's description of his situation at that time.
In this way, Song Wenfei continued to work, doing her best to help her father pay off all his debts, and the title of "Advertising Queen" also spread.
Advertising Queen
This excellent girl was soon discovered by Huayi and threw an olive branch at her. In order to make his career go further, Song Wenfei accepted huayi's invitation and officially signed a contract with Huayi brothers in 2006 to fight in the film and television circle.
However, Song Wenfei, who was as interlaced as a mountain, who was thriving in the advertising industry, did not develop as expected after entering Huayi. For the next two years, she remained obscure, and no works appeared, as if forgotten, which made her very distressed.
Huayi Brothers
In desperation, in 2008, Song Wenfei proposed to terminate the contract and left this star-studded place.
In the same year, Haiyan's TV series "Dancer" recruited actors, and Song Wenfei once again successfully won the role in the play with her outstanding performance in dance.
Still
As soon as the TV series was broadcast, her graceful dance posture and mature acting skills instantly captured a large number of viewers. At this point, Song Wenfei finally bid farewell to the title of "Advertising Queen", and successfully stood in front of the public as an actor, truly opening up the hard work in the film and television circle.
Song Wenfei loves her work and takes it seriously whenever she gets a script.
In order to play the role in the play, she will carefully study the characteristics of the characters, analyze the background of the characters, and even learn relevant professional knowledge in a targeted manner, just in order to restore the roles in the script and vividly show the characters in the script.
Her approach has been recognized by many directors and peers, won the love of the audience, and allowed her to have more and better resources.
However, between career and love, she chose love.
She never imagined that she had given up the career she loved and the marriage she had dreamed of in exchange for such an ending.
Perhaps in the last moments of his life, recalling his short life, Song Wenfei will feel remorse for his choice. If she is not blinded by love and focuses on work, she should usher in a different life.
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