It is a happy thing for many families to have children in the family, and it is also what many families are pursuing, but Zhao Minhui (pseudonym) doesn't think so, because she has just found a job and has to face the matter of raising her younger brother.
A year ago, 21-year-old Zhao Minhui came home from vacation and suddenly found that her mother Yang Fengyu's belly was a little big, but she thought that it was normal for her mother to be lucky in middle age, and she didn't take it to heart.
And in the past few days when she was at home, even if she didn't pay attention to it, she could feel that her mother had lost her appetite and always vomited, and Zhao Minhui was worried and offered to accompany her to the hospital to see if she was sick.
However, in the face of her daughter's concern, Yang Fengyu only said that she didn't have to care if she had a bad stomach. Although Zhao Minhui was not relieved, it was time to return to school in a blink of an eye, and after a few words of advice, she went back to class.
Because of her graduation, Zhao Minhui did not go home in the last summer vacation, and wanted to take the opportunity to find a job, after all, the conditions at home have not been good, and she also wanted to work as soon as possible to make money and relieve some pressure on her parents. Fortunately, Zhao Minhui was capable and soon entered a company with good treatment.
In order to adapt to work early, Zhao Minhui didn't go home this year, and finally took advantage of the annual leave, she boarded the car home with the gifts she had bought for her parents a long time ago, but this time, things have changed dramatically!
Zhao Minhui just walked to the door of the house, and before she opened the door, she heard the sound of the child crying, and this child was none other than the younger brother born to her by her mother Yang Fengyu, who is now almost half a year old.
Zhao Minhui obviously didn't react, she looked at the white hair growing in her mother's ear, and couldn't understand: "You are so old, why do you give birth to a son?" Can you have the energy to raise? ”
Who knows that the mother holds the child lovingly, and says indifferently: "Why can't you raise it, aren't you raised by me, don't worry, I won't let you take care of it in the future, what should you do." ”
Zhao Minhui felt that her parents did not consider themselves at all, let alone the family. Because her father is somewhat disabled, he can only do some odd jobs to support the family, and his life is already poor, and he has no extra energy and ability to raise a child.
Sure enough, when Zhao Minhui returned to the company for only a few months, her parents called in tears, saying that it was difficult for the family to buy milk powder for her younger brother, and hoped that she could help.
After Zhao Minhui relented and paid the money once, the old couple felt that their daughter was still capable, so they proposed to let her raise her little brother.
Zhao Minhui strongly objected to this, thinking that she was on the rise in her career, how could she have the energy to support her younger brother, and even accused them of hiding it from herself when they gave birth.
For this reason, he quarreled with his parents and said directly: "Why, you just sue me, and I won't raise it." ”
didn't expect the old couple to really sue her in court, maybe the parents thought that in this way, they could make their daughter compromise and let her take the responsibility.
So as an older sister, can you refuse your parents' request?
According to the Marriage Act and the Civil Code, if the parents are unable to support the child, the siblings have an obligation to support them in this case.
And Zhao Minhui's parents are old, and the family is poor, so she really has no ability to raise children, so she really can't shirk this matter. For this younger brother, who is still a minor, the sister's obligation to support cannot be refused.
In the end, in accordance with the express provisions of the Civil Code, the court pronounced a verdict: Zhao Minhui's parents won the lawsuit.
Knowing this ending, Zhao Minhui seemed unacceptable. In fact, this is because brothers and sisters, from the same origin, all grew up in the same family, and as members of the family, they naturally cannot watch their younger siblings live a difficult life when they are still minors.
While others can only hope that under the care of their sister, their younger brother will grow up to be a grateful person.
Now there are more and more families with two children, but it is also necessary to understand. Raising a child takes a lot of effort and time, and it is never a trivial matter. Every child's growth is a complex and challenging process, and as parents, it is important to provide a stable and safe environment for the healthy growth of children to ensure their safe and healthy growth.
Therefore, before deciding to have a second child, it is necessary to consider many aspects. Especially in the face of children's thoughts and feelings, it is necessary to give full respect and attention, after all, the mental and physical health of each child is very important for family harmony.
The friendship and relationship between siblings depends largely on the attitude and handling of the parents, and if there are multiple children in the family, it is best for the parents to be fair and just, and not to be partial.
Otherwise, it will not only cause conflicts between children, but also affect their feelings. If children can feel that their parents treat everyone fairly, they will naturally cherish their siblings, and their relationship will be closer.