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In 1964, in an ordinary but not very peaceful family in Changchun, Jilin Province, sudden difficulties brought the family into endless pain. Inside the room, a husband and wife were arguing violently and even letting out a deafening curse that alarmed the entire community.
Just outside the door, four children huddled in a corner, trembling. The oldest girl is 10 years old, while the youngest boy is only 6 years old.
"Behold, how hard our lives are now, what is the point of this life?" "If you feel like you can't get by, then get a divorce!"
This 6-year-old boy is today's protagonist - Li Youbin. Since that day, he and his mother and sister have started a bumpy single-parent family life. In order to support the family, my mother ran around the streets all day long.
Under the heavy pressure of life, Li Youbin and his sisters supported each other and spent unbearable days and nights together.
His eldest sister loves him very much, just like his mother, and takes care of Li Youbin meticulously. When he was bullied by his classmates at school, his sister would always stand up and chase away the bully with a wooden stick.
When she was 12 years old, in order to subsidize her family, her sister gave up her studies without hesitation, joined the local art troupe, and became an excellent drama actress. When parting, she solemnly instructed her younger brother: "Little brother, I will earn tuition for you, you have to study hard, and in the days when I am not at home, please be sure to take care of our mother." "
Li Youbin burst into tears and heard his sister's advice.
His sister's selfless dedication and love for him had a profound impact on Li Youbin, making him increasingly interested in acting. After entering junior high school, he joined the school's drama troupe.
At the age of 16, he starred in a drama "Mao Feng Huazheng" with the theme of student life, which won him a lot of recognition and appreciation, and he was admitted to the Changchun Repertory Theatre.
Since then, he has embarked on the path of a professional actor.
Despite the harsh environment, Li Youbin never gave up his thirst for knowledge. With his excellent grades, he was successfully admitted to the prestigious Shanghai Theater Academy and began to systematically study performing arts.
After graduating, he chose to return to his hometown of Changchun, where he devoted himself to his grandmother and single mother, who was seriously ill, while contributing to the theater in his hometown. With his actions, he breathed fresh life into the theater.
After four years of in-depth study, Li Youbin's acting skills and vision have been greatly improved, and he has become a leader among the young actors of the Changchun Repertory Theatre. However, as time went on, the market for traditional dramas shrank, which made Li Youbin begin to feel some anxiety and unease.
For the better development of his career, he chose to go to Beipiao.
Beijing, an unfamiliar metropolis, is too far away and unfamiliar to Li Youbin. He started with the most basic work, suffered countless blank eyes, and setbacks followed.
When his career hit a bottleneck, actress Shi Lanya, who was 13 years younger than him, broke into his life.
Shi Lanya is not only outstanding in appearance and wisdom, but also a close friend of Li Youbin in the city of Beijing. The two got married in the 2003 TV series "Jiangshan", playing a pair of lovers in the play, and over time, they also developed a deep relationship outside the play.
Shi Lanya not only gave Li Youbin care and support in life, but also helped Li Youbin in his career, and it was with her encouragement and advice that Li Youbin bravely took over the script of "Bright Sword".
During the filming, his physical condition gradually deteriorated, and Shi Lanya took care of him with all his heart.
After the premiere of "Bright Sword", it became popular all over the country with its excellent acting skills and great efforts, and Li Youbin became popular because of it, and his career entered a smooth stage.
While his career is steadily rising, his married life is full of problems.
The long-term separation life has gradually faded the relationship between Li Youbin and his wife Zhang Ruiqi. Zhang Ruiqi has been away from the stage for many years, and her suggestion could not be approved by Li Youbin, but in exchange for his impatience and blame.
The married life of the two continued to erupt into contradictions and quarrels, and gradually came to the brink of rupture.
In 2006, amid the criticism of the outside world, Li Youbin boldly filed for divorce from his wife Zhang Ruiqi, he bluntly said that the relationship was irretrievable, and he hoped to let go of his ideals and happiness.
Despite the reluctance in her heart, Zhang Ruiqi resolutely accepted the reality without any entanglement and crying. She just solemnly instructed her husband to take good care of her son Li Xiaoke.
In the voice of doubts from the outside world, Li Youbin and his wife Zhang Ruiqi, who had been with him for 22 years, ended their marriage, and he gave up the custody of his son, just to be able to fall in love freely with Shi Lanya and pursue his ideals and happiness in his heart.
In 2008, the media exposed photos of Li Youbin and Shi Lanya strolling down the streets together, which instantly caused an uproar. Surprisingly, two years before the two divorced, Li Youbin had fallen in love with Shi Lanya.
This behavior undoubtedly made the majority of the audience disappointed and angry with him, an actor who has always been regarded as a "good man".
He denounced the betrayal of his wife Xiuqin on the screen; But in reality, he launched a cruel blow to his wife, a move that caused strong condemnation from all walks of life.
One even more excesses even sarcastically ridiculed, "Now he has become the kind of person he criticized back then."
In the face of the overwhelming questioning and criticism of him by the media, Li Youbin chose to remain silent. Although some media have spent a lot of energy digging up his so-called "black history", in the end, they have not unearthed any valuable information.
As time passed, his scandals and negative news gradually lost their attention.
Li Youbin was not satisfied, he continued to work hard and successfully won the audience's recognition through one wonderful work after another. For example, in dramas such as "Crossing the Guandong", "Invincible Benevolence", "Red Sun", etc., he has excellent performances, and his superb acting skills and noble personality have won the praise of the audience.
People began to pay attention to Li Youbin's firm dedication and dedication to art, and gradually gave up paying attention to his past "scumbag" behavior.
Although the external voice gradually subsided, the guilt in Li Youbin's heart followed him like a shadow, eroding him all the time. This deep guilt and compensation made him work more courageously in his career, eager to use his own efforts to make up for the damage suffered by his family.
Since 2008, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya have officially married, and their relationship has finally been recognized by the society. With the encouragement and support of Shi Lanya, Li Youbin's career is booming, and he is known as "the backyard is too generous".
It's just that at the moment of success in his career and happy love, he also began to reflect deeply on the pain in his heart.
Although Li Youbin has formed a new family, he has not forgotten his ex-wife Zhang Ruiqi and his biological son Li Xiaoke. In his deep consciousness, they will always be a family.
Whenever Zhang Ruiqi faced financial difficulties, Li Youbin would take the initiative to help her considerately, send him money to solve his urgent needs, or send him a large number of medicines and daily necessities, and do his best to ensure that her life would not be in trouble.
Li Youbin even took his wife Shi Lanya to visit, and the three got along quite well.
Although Zhang Ruiqi played the special identity of "ex-wife" in Li Youbin's life, she did not have any resentment or hostility towards Shi Lanya. On the contrary, she is full of respect for Shi Lanya and sincerely hopes that she can bring new happiness and beauty to Li Youbin.
For his son Li Xiaoke, Li Youbin showed meticulous care. He not only knows the children's academic problems well and answers them patiently, but also takes care of the big and small matters in life himself.
Even though Li Xiaoke has entered the prime of life, Li Youbin still insists on giving him a "love fund" every month to support and encourage him to pursue love bravely.
"Son, don't follow in my footsteps and be as fearful and hesitant about your love life as I do." Li Youbin instructed earnestly. However, he didn't expect that Li Xiaoke, who is now 38 years old, is still single and has no interest in love.
Li Youbin once painstakingly persuaded his son Li Xiaoke to go through several relationships, but Li Xiaoke's answer made him feel a heavy blow in his heart.
Li Xiaoke said bluntly: "I no longer have illusions about love, and even have a deep fear. Your marriage is the most vivid example of this. ”
Those ruthless words were like a basin of cold water poured on Li Youbin's head, and he completely sobered up and realized how deeply he had hurt his family.
Li Xiaoke's words made Li Youbin completely realize that the divorce decision they made on impulse back then had caused an indelible shadow on his son's heart.
This shadow was like a stinger in his heart, hovering in his mind all the time, causing him to have a deep fear of his love life.
Li Youbin was full of endless pain in the face of others' accusations against his son, but he could only silently reflect on whether his original choice was correct in his heart.
Time flies, and Li Youbin, who is now in his sixtieth year, begins to reflect on every decision he has made in his life and examine the pain in his heart.
Looking back on Li Youbin's life, it can be described as ups and downs and hardships. He has gradually grown from a little boy from a poor background to a powerful actor liked by the audience, and has written an extraordinary life with perseverance and talent.
Despite his great success in his career, he paid a terrible price in his family's married life.
This decision has dealt a huge blow to Zhang Ruiqi, who is no longer the once energetic actress, she has become skinny and has calluses on her hands.
She was alone in the housework, relying on drugs to maintain her last vitality. Li Youbin's most beloved son, Li Xiaoke, also developed a deep fear and disgust for his love life because of his selfish behavior.
I no longer have any illusions about love, and I even have a deep fear. Your marriage is undoubtedly the most vivid example of this. Whenever I think of my son's words, my heart hurts immensely.
He realizes that his wrong decision has irreparably damaged the hearts and minds of his entire family, leaving a deep imprint on their lives.
If he had been more rational and calm, maybe he wouldn't have made that decision. Looking back now, everything is in the past, and the only thing Li Youbin can do is to spend the rest of his life to make up for his regrets and work hard to repair his relationship with his loved ones.
In these reflections, he realized that although he is not a "scumbag" in the entertainment industry, he is not a good husband and father in family life.
At least he had caused too much pain and hurt to his family, which stemmed from his impulsiveness and selfishness.
Today's Li Youbin, only by continuing to improve in his career, winning the respect of more people with his excellent works, and working hard to make up for his past mistakes for the rest of his life, can he comfort his heart a little.
He has missed a lot, he has failed too many people's expectations, and the only way to atone for his sins is to suffer in silence.
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