What does a person's fortune have to do with it?
Some people say that it is related to people's fate and habits, and some people say that it is related to people's character and planning.
In fact, there is no one standard answer to such a question, but in any case, these people have some common characteristics, come and see if you are the same.
01 Have the courage to try
Opportunities never fall from the sky, we win them back step by step.
In the same situation, some people will say: It's too difficult, I can't do it, I'll just give up.
Others will say, "It's too hard, it seems that I need to learn more."
Their attitudes towards life are different, and naturally, life gives them different rewards.
If a person wants to be rich, he must first learn to accumulate himself and improve himself, after all, knowledge and ability are always the basis for take-off.
Secondly, and more importantly, we must have the courage to break through ourselves in the face of difficulties, and we must have the courage to try and not be afraid of failure in the face of opportunities.
Any opportunity is accompanied by risks, not afraid of failure, think about it, compared to a long life, what are these risks and difficulties?
What they bring to us is experience, strength, and sedimentation, which is a very valuable human experience.
Only by overcoming difficulties, overcoming laziness, overcoming hesitation, broadening our horizons, improving our abilities, and reducing the cost of trial and error can we find a life track that suits us.
02 Know how to reflect
It is impossible for a person's life to be smooth, he will always encounter difficulties of one kind or another, and he will also fall into an abyss from which he cannot extricate himself.
But some people are able to break through themselves, improve themselves, grasp the lifeblood of life, and become a big winner in life in such a predicament.
The key for them is to know how to reflect.
There are no difficulties, no mistakes, the key is what we can learn from it, know how to summarize, know how to reflect, and our future road will not be so bumpy.
There is a story on the Internet about a small supermarket owner who lost money every year in the first few years of operation, and someone advised him to close the store early, and he shook his head very stubbornly: Let me think about it.
Every day after the supermarket closes, he is alone in the dim light, reviewing, summarizing, thinking, trying to find out what the problem is.
Once or twice, failing repeatedly, he never gave up.
In the end, he finally came out of the darkness, found the problem, and his career continued to grow bigger and stronger.
Reflection and summary are the only way to move forward in life, and the key to our success.
03 Study hard
Life is like a high-speed train, constantly moving forward, over the mountains, until you reach the other side of your dreams.
When standing at the starting line, everyone is fair, and as time goes by, the gap between people will get bigger and bigger, some people, have run to the front, and some people are still hovering in the same place.
Is it because they don't have enough IQ?
Of course not!
The reason behind it is attitude.
Those who can keep running at a fast pace, they have a strong learning ability, no matter what new problems and difficulties they encounter, they will tell me: I don't understand, therefore, I have to keep learning to make up for my shortcomings.
They are like sponges, sucking water and never stopping.
In today's era of rapid development, new ideas, new ideas are constantly emerging in hours, no matter how glorious our past is, we cannot always keep up with the times.
Only learning can allow us to keep up with the times and find ourselves.
The courage to try, know how to reflect, and study hard are really important to a person, and they also determine how far we can go and how high we can fly in our lives.
Therefore, if we want to have wealth and live a brilliant life, we must start with ourselves.
If you can do these three things, then you are not far from success.
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About the author: Li Muke, who lives hard with one hand and writes seriously with the other, hopes to keep his heart on the road of hard work.