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Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping
Liu Zhibing is a well-known actor, starring in more than 40 film and television dramas such as "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines", "New Fourth Army", "Provincial Party Secretary", "Southward", etc., and has won several acting awards and is known as "screen tough guy". Liu Zhibing's wife Ru Ping is also a famous actor, starring in a series of film and television dramas such as "Wind and Rain Beauty", "Wu Zetian", "Kangxi Empire", "State Affairs and Family Affairs" and so on.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping are not only superb acting skills, but also a model halfway couple, in January 1999, the two each with their children to form a new family. There are many contradictions in the remarried family, what unexpected collisions and frictions have Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping experienced? What role do stepchildren and stepdaughters play in complex families? How does a family of four use true love and wisdom to interpret the realistic version of "family with children"?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > live with each other's children, and the remarriage home is gradually in crisis</h1>
In October 1995, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping met in the crew of the movie "Armed Forces Behind Enemy Lines", because Ru Ping was a friendship cameo, there were only 3 scenes, and the two passed each other. Maybe there was an appointment in the previous life, two years later, in June, the two reunited again in the crew of the TV series "All the Way to the Wind and Rain". In the play, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping play a couple, spending 4 months together day and night, extending the love affair in the play to the outside of the play and wiping out the spark of love.
Liu Zhibing
Liu Zhibing, a 34-year-old native of Hegang, Heilongjiang, was admitted to the Changchun Film Studio after graduating from the Heilongjiang Art School and became a professional actor. Over the years, he has starred in more than 20 film and television dramas such as "The Founding Ceremony", "The Great Liberation", and "The Great Hero of Kanto". Because in the play, he mostly plays a tough man with thick lines, and is affectionately called a "screen tough guy" by fans. At this time, he had just ended a failed marriage, his ex-wife Feng Liping was also an actor, because the two personalities were unbearable, Liu Zhibing painfully chose to break up, and his 7-year-old son Liu Sibo followed him.
Ru Ping, who is 3 years younger than Liu Zhibing, is the head of the Hangzhou Repertory Theatre Hua Dan, starring in film and television dramas such as "Wind and Rain Beauty" and "Wu Zetian" to impress hundreds of millions of viewers. She divorced her ex-husband two years ago and is now dependent on her daughter.
After the completion of "All the Way to the Wind and Rain and One World", Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping will go from the location of Guang'an, Sichuan Province. On the night of the separation, Liu Zhibing bluntly expressed his inner feelings to Ru Ping: "You are a gentle and kind woman, with you I can feel the warmth of home, can you be my girlfriend?" Ru Ping pondered for a moment and sincerely told Liu Zhibing: "I also have feelings for you, but I am divorced and have a 6-year-old daughter by my side." Liu Zhibing grabbed Ru Ping's hand: "I was about to tell you that I am also divorced and have a son by my side." Remarried people all want each other to have no children, and we both have 'drag oil bottles' and level each other. Liu Zhibing's words Ru Ping felt empathy, and the two immediately established a romantic relationship.
At that time, Liu Zhibing lived in Changchun and Ru Ping lived in Hangzhou, and the two were on opposite sides of the day, and it was very difficult to see each other. As his feelings heated up sharply, Liu Zhibing hoped that Ru Ping would follow him to Changchun, but Ru Ping hoped that he could take his son to settle in Hangzhou. Unable to agree, the two had to run back and forth on both sides. Ru Ping, who grew up on the shore of West Lake, could not adapt to the severe cold in the northeast and fell ill once in Changchun. Because of his deep love for Ru Ping, Liu Zhibing finally made a compromise and agreed to settle his family in Hangzhou.
In October 1998, Liu Zhibing solemnly proposed to Ru Ping: "We are all past the age of romance, it is not appropriate to stretch the love front too long, what we need most is a warm home, and the children also urgently need complete father's love and mother's love." Ru Ping, let's start a family early! "Why doesn't Ru Ping want to have a warm home?" Over the years, she has tasted the bitterness of a single mother's life alone with her daughter, and Ru Ping is no longer reserved and happily agrees. After some discussion, the two set the wedding date on January 8 of the following year.
When he divorced his ex-wife, Liu Zhibing took his son out of the house and only had 800 yuan left on him. When Ru Ping divorced, her ex-husband only compensated her with 20,000 yuan. In December of that year, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping took out all the small savings around them, borrowed 70,000 yuan from friends, and bought a 3-bedroom apartment in Hangzhou's Binjiang District. On the morning of January 8, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping received their marriage licenses at the Changchun Civil Affairs Bureau and then flew to Hangzhou to hold their wedding. Due to financial constraints, Liu Zhibing only rented a Santana 2000 sedan as the vanguard of the welcoming team, and the vehicles behind him were all pedaled tricycles. After a simple wedding, the halfway couple took their own children and formed a new family.
Before that, Liu Zhibing's father and son and Ru Ping's mother and daughter had only met once, and now they suddenly became a family, not only the child and the child felt angry, but also the child and the stepfather and stepmother also had a grudge. Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have both played the stepfather and stepmother in the play, and from the remarried family around them, they realized that the stepfather and stepmother are most taboo about their respective children, and only by achieving a bowl of water is flat, the unrelated members of the remarried family can be integrated into a whole.
In September 1999, Liu Sibo had reached the age of 9, and Xi Wang, who was 100 days younger than him, had also reached school age. Liu Zhibing paid sponsorship fees to his son and stepdaughter respectively, and then sent them to Shengli Primary School, a key school in Hangzhou. As long as in Hangzhou, Liu Zhibing is responsible for transporting a pair of children to and from school; every week's pocket money, Liu Zhibing gives the same amount, and the brothers and sisters are 50 yuan. Every time he buys clothes, sneakers, or even buys a stationery box for the children, Liu Zhibing is absolutely the same price and does not let the children have ideas.
Ru Ping and Liu Zhibing
Ru Ping is also a competent stepmother. Liu Sibo was born and raised in Changchun and was not accustomed to Hangzhou's Bengang cuisine; and Xi Wang was also not accustomed to Northeast Chinese cuisine. In this way, Ru Ping set an unwritten rule: if you eat Hangzhou cuisine at home, you must eat Northeast cuisine at the next meal. Hangzhou has no heating in winter, the climate is cold and humid, Ru Ping wants to buy a bed of electric blankets for each of her two children, Liu Sibo grew up in the northeast, and the cold in Hangzhou is nothing to him, saying that nothing is needed. But in order to strive for balance, Ru Ping still bought back two identical electric blankets...
Under the painstaking management of Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping, this complicated remarriage house spent a peaceful time. However, Liu Sibo and Xi Wang are not related by blood after all, and over time, various unexpected contradictions and crises have gradually emerged. Xi Wang likes to eat sweets, looks chubby, naughty Liu Sibo gave his sister the nickname "Little Fat Girl", Xi Wang picked up the remote control and smashed Liu Sibo's head, and the two wrestled together. Where is Xi Wang's opponent Liu Sibo? Liu Sibo pushed her to the ground and rode on her back and pounded. Hearing her daughter's crying, Ru Ping, who was washing dishes in the kitchen, rushed out and saw her daughter being bullied, and she lectured Liu Sibo in her mouth: "You are too barbaric, how can you beat your sister like this?" He twisted his stepson's ear and pulled him up.
In this scene, Liu Zhibing, who took out the garbage and returned home, looked into his eyes, he stared at Ru Ping for a full minute, and coldly spat out a sentence in his mouth: "Children quarrel, I hope that we parents do not have emotional colors." Ru Ping glared at Liu Zhibing fiercely, although she did not argue with him, but she was very unconvinced in her heart, thinking that Liu Sibo bullied her daughter, and Liu Zhibing should discipline her son.
Ru Ping
Stills from Ru Ping's "Kangxi Empire"
In May 2000, Ru Ping went to Beijing to shoot the TV series "Kangxi Empire", and Liu Zhibing took care of her son and stepdaughter at home. Once, two children competed for the TV remote control, and Liu Zhibing criticized both children. In mid-August, Ru Ping returned to Hangzhou after filming, and Xi Looked at her mother to file a complaint. Ru Ping was sad.
Liu Zhibing patiently explained to Ru Ping that Ru Ping did not spare: "Liu Sibo is a boy, everything should let his sister, I hope you can discipline Sibo more in the future!" ”
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="60" > love is a good medicine, and the stepson and stepdaughter are like brothers and sisters</h1>
As a single father, not giving his son a complete home is hidden in Liu Zhibing's inner guilt, and he combines the family with Ru Ping, he is not to let his son be hurt and wronged, but to let his son enjoy the warmth and happiness of the family. Why didn't Ru Ping think like this? Therefore, the halfway couple did not want their children to be hurt in the slightest.
In this way, the contradiction between Liu Sibo and Xi Wang triggered a dispute among adults, and the reorganized family has since split into two "camps": Liu Zhibing and his son have become a whole, and Ru Ping's mother and daughter have formed an alliance. The two began to pick up their children to and from school separately; the usual cooking was also clear, and Liu Zhibing and his son opened fire alone. The father and son ate at the table, and Ru Ping's mother and daughter hid on the coffee table to eat; at night, Ru Ping slept with her daughter, and Liu Zhibing slept in her son's small room. One long sleepless night after another, Liu Zhibing opened his confused eyes, looked at the miserable white moonlight outside the window, and his heart ached: There is no doubt that he and Ru Ping are deeply in love, but the days are living, why is the rift between the two getting bigger and bigger, and the marriage is in danger?
Liu Zhibing family portrait
In mid-October, Liu Zhibing went to Beijing to shoot a Wahaha mineral water advertisement and was invited to visit the home of his good friend Song Dandan. Seeing Liu Zhibing's brows locked and his heart heavy, Song Dandan asked with concern like a big sister: "Zhi Bing, in my mind, you are happy all day, there is no trouble, what is going on now?" Liu Zhibing painfully talked about the current situation and troubles of the marriage. Song Dandan did not sigh in surprise with Liu Zhibing's narration, but said calmly: "Your situation is very common in remarried families, there is nothing to be afraid of. My situation is so similar to yours, and my husband Zhao Yuji and I also came together with our children. Over the years, I have experienced first-hand that it is not enough for the stepfather and stepmother to treat the children of both sides with only a bowl of water, and it is necessary to love each other's children more, only in this way will the children be intimate with the stepfather and stepmother, and the feelings between husband and wife will be harmonious. ”
Seeing Liu Zhibing thoughtful, Song Dandan further explained: "To some extent, loving each other's children is loving your own children, which is to add points to marriage. Song Dandan's reasonable analysis opened the window of Liu Zhibing's confused heart, and the bright rays of sunlight penetrated in. Suddenly, the load that was hanging over Liu Zhibing's heart was unloaded...
Back in Hangzhou, Liu Zhibing sincerely had a long conversation with Ru Ping, and he relayed Song Dandan's appearance to his wife word for word. Ru Ping's heart was touched. In fact, during this time, Ru Ping and Liu Zhibing were under great pain and pressure, and they were particularly eager for family relations, and the sincere communication of her husband gave Ru Ping confidence in reshaping family harmony.
Since then, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have strictly practiced Song Dandan's marriage secrets and poured more love into each other's children. Couples pay special attention to spiritual communication with each other's children. When liu Sibo's class held a parent-teacher conference, Ru Ping took the initiative to ask to participate; naturally, Liu Zhibing participated in Xi Wang's parent-teacher conference. For every time the two children made any progress in their studies and personalities, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping praised each other's children more.
Xi Tianying
Although Liu Zhibing regarded Xi Wang as his own, he could not replace his biological father after all. Ru Ping's ex-husband Xi Tianying, the president of the Zhejiang People's Fine Arts Publishing House, quickly formed a family after divorcing Ru Ping. Every month, Liu Zhibing would drive Xi Wang to see his biological father, and every time he did not forget to give money for his daughter to buy a gift for each other. After the father and daughter met, Liu Zhibing drove his daughter home. Similarly, Feng Liping came to Hangzhou to visit her son Liu Sibo, and Ru Ping not only invited her to dinner at the hotel, but also tried to make room for their mother and son to be alone. Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping's love moisturizes the young and pure hearts of the two children like a spring wind and rain, and they know more and more about humility and tolerance, and live in harmony like brothers and sisters. The harmonious feelings between the children, in turn, enhanced the love between Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping...
In May 2002, Ru Ping unexpectedly discovered that she was pregnant, and the couple was preparing to give birth to the child. As Ru Ping's stomach showed dew, Liu Sibo asked his father in a somber voice: "Dad, do you want to have another baby with your mother?" Liu Zhibing felt that this kind of thing should not be hidden from the child, smiled and nodded. Xi Wang's little face turned red, and he said to Ru Ping with tears: "My brother and I are not your common children, it is definitely that we are disobedient and have disappointed you, so you want your own children." Ru Ping took her daughter into her arms and did not know how to answer.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping's hearts were completely chaotic, a pair of children's sad eyes made their hearts heavy, whether to continue to conceive a baby, or to make a child, the couple did not know how to choose?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="63" > children are both talented, and celebrity couples interpret the realistic version of "family with children"</h1>
Liu Sibo and Xi Wang
Two days later, Liu Sibo placed a letter on Ru Ping's bedside table. Ru Ping opened it, and her son wrote in the letter: "Mom, you are 38 years old, and you have to take care of me and my sister all these years, and you have been running around shooting in the south of the sea, it is too hard!" It's not that my sister and I are selfish, it's that we're really worried about your body. It is said on TV that it is very dangerous for an elderly mother to conceive a child, and for us, for the sake of this family, my sister and I do not want you to have a baby again. The stepson's understanding made Ru Ping's heart full of mixed feelings.
After all, Xi Wang is younger than Liu Sibo, thinking about the problem is more direct and simple, she muttered to Liu Zhibing: "My brother and I are not your common children, in the future you have your own baby, you will definitely not love us again!" The stepdaughter's complaint touched Liu Zhibing's nerves, and he consulted with Ru Ping worriedly: "The words of the two children are reasonable, is our choice a bit sloppy?" Ru Ping sighed, "Zhi Bing, if our children are born, we will definitely unconsciously snub SiBo and Xi Wang, which is unfair to them, and I don't want to see this situation appear in our family." ”
In the evening, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping leaned on the bedside to watch TV, and a remarried celebrity couple in the circle was a guest on a talk show on Beijing Television, and the hostess talked about such a detail of life: "Husband hurry home, my child and your child, beating our common child." The audience erupted in laughter. But Liu Zhibing and his wife could not laugh out, and their mood was as heavy as a sponge that had sucked enough water: Yes, aside from the danger of Ru Ping being an elderly mother giving birth to a child, the relationship between the reorganized family was complicated enough, and if they added another child, they did not know how many unexpected troubles they would encounter. At that moment, the couple reached an agreement not to have a baby again. In August 2003, Liu Zhibing accompanied Ru Ping to the Maternal and Child Health Hospital to kill the child.
Back at home, Liu Zhibing calmly told a pair of children: "Mom and Dad will never think of conceiving children again, and we will put all the father's love and mother's love on you." Liu Sibo and Xi Wang felt their weight in the hearts of their parents and couldn't help but burst into tears. Since then, the two children have become more well-behaved and sensible, often rushing to share the housework for their mothers at home, and their academic performance is at the top of the class. Liu Zhibing and his wife were sincerely pleased.
At this time, Liu Zhibing's career was in full swing, starring in more than 20 film and television dramas, and stepped into the ranks of male actors with the most box office appeal. Because Liu Zhibing mostly played a tough and courageous soldier, in December 2007, the Beijing Bayi Film Studio specially recruited him to join the army, and Ru Ping and a pair of children followed him to Beijing to settle down.
The couple added a 4-bedroom apartment in the upscale community of Shijingshan, the house is spacious and bright, the air is fresh, and the window is full of green West Mountain, which is an excellent health residence. The means of family transportation is a BMW car, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping's remuneration is rising, and life is gradually getting better. At this time, Liu Sibo and Xi Wang had entered the first year of high school, and boarded in the school from Monday to Friday. Without the drag of children, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have their own living space. Liu Zhibing is a typical northeast man, who does things vigorously and requires perfection in everything; Ru Ping lives a sloppy life, often throwing three or four, and is a full "Ma Daha". In fact, the difference in personality has collided as early as the beginning of their marriage, but the quarrels and contradictions of the two children in those years have covered up their collisions. Now that they had more time, the two suddenly found that there were so many shortcomings in each other that were unbearable.
Since marriage, Liu Zhibing has made the decision to buy a house, decorate, buy furniture, and go to school for his children. In the past, he also symbolically sought Ru Ping's opinion, but each time Ru Ping was vague and did not give a clear answer, and later he simply did not do anything to consult with Ru Ping. In July 2008, a distant relative in Liu Zhibing's hometown borrowed 200,000 yuan from him to register a company, and Liu Zhibing did not tell Ru Ping and beat the money over. That night, Ru Ping washed Liu Zhibing's clothes, turned out the remittance receipt from his pocket, learned the truth of the matter, and angrily complained: "This family is not yours alone, the other party borrowed so much money, you should at least tell me, you can't ignore my existence like this!" Liu Zhibing argued: "You don't interfere in anything in the family, why are you interfering now?" Because of this, the two tangled.
Ru Ping's loss also made Liu Zhibing quite dissatisfied, when she went out, she either forgot to bring her wallet, or inserted the key in the keyhole and did not take it out; she would never remember the exact birthday of Liu Zhibing's father and son. Usually cooking at home, either forgetting to put salt or putting more chicken essence, Liu Zhibing often ridicules her as a "low-energy child" in life. In June 2009, Ru Ping was stewing ribs in the kitchen, suddenly remembering that there were no eggs at home, and hurried to the supermarket in her clothes. I met a good sister at the door of the community, and the two of them chatted for more than an hour... When she returned home after buying eggs, the home was filled with a pungent smell of burnt paste, crowded with the staff of the property company, liu Zhibing was wiping the stove. It turned out that Ru Ping forgot to turn off the fire when she went out, the bottom of the pot was burned through, almost causing a fire, and the property staff called Liu Zhibing while breaking the door to eliminate the danger.
After the property personnel left, Liu Zhibing beat Ru Ping fiercely: "You are all mothers, please remember better in the future?" How did you get a fire this time? Although Ru Ping knew that her husband was right, liu Zhibing's tone of voice was difficult for her to accept. Since then, the two have often quarreled in front of their children.
Ru Ping and her daughter
At this time, Liu Sibo was 19 years old, his height had grown to 1.78 meters, and his mind and thinking had matured. Xi Wang is also 18 years old and is a sensible big girl. This child tacitly acts as a lubricant for stepfathers and stepmothers. Whenever there is friction between his parents, Liu Sibo always stands on the side of Ru Ping and criticizes his father: "Dad, men should be generous, you also have shortcomings, and it is your fault to hold on to the shortcomings of others." If you break up with your mother, I hope to live with my mother. ”
Similarly, Xi Wang, standing in Liu Zhibing's position, pointed out that his mother's is not: "Dad is very right, you have some problems that need to be changed." Mom, can't you be careful in life? If you break up with your dad, I'll live with my brother and dad. "The understanding of the two children made Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping burst into tears, and with such a good stepchild and stepdaughter, if they quarrel endlessly, what face will they have to face them?" Besides, there is no principled contradiction between them at all, why can't they tolerate each other's shortcomings? In the following days, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping both tried to restrain themselves, both of them used a magnifying glass to magnify each other's strengths, using a compressor to reduce each other's shortcomings, and each other's mentality gradually returned to peace.
Over the years, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping have set a rule: one party goes out to shoot a movie, and the other party takes care of the children at home. In August of that year, Liu Sibo consulted with his sister: "Although Mom and Dad are a couple, the time for their reunion is not much, and now that we are older, we should let them go out to shoot at the same time." Xi Wang agreed with his brother's opinion very much, and the brothers and sisters told Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping their ideas. In fact, this is also the couple's wish for many years. In this way, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping began to go out to shoot dramas, and every time they went out, Liu Sibo and Xi Wang would pack their suitcases for their parents. On weekends, the brothers and sisters returned home, Xi Wang was responsible for cooking, Liu Sibo cleaned, and when he went to sleep at night, he had to carefully check whether the doors, windows and gas valves were closed tightly before going to bed. Every time Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping came home, the room was cleaned up by the two children and spotlessly clean.
Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping recently took a photo
In this way, Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping can devote themselves wholeheartedly to the acting career, in the past two years, Liu Zhibing has starred in more than ten film and television dramas; Ru Ping's acting career has gone up the ladder, and the film and television dramas such as "Halfway Brothers" and "Dark Whistle" starring in her have been well received. The couple flew together and became a model halfway couple who were envied by everyone. What surprised them even more was that a pair of children excelled in their studies. In September 2010, Liu Sibo was admitted to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts with excellent results, and Xi Wang was admitted to the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama. This is unique in show business.
This remarried home has been rated as a "civilized family" and a "five-good family" by the military system and the Beijing municipal government many times. On March 2, 2011, Liu Zhibing's family of four participated in the Happy Family Gala at the invitation of Beijing Television, and the famous host Li Jing said emotionally: "Teacher Zhibing Ruping, I think your family's situation is so similar to the large-scale family sitcom "Family with Children", both sides are each carrying a child, combined together, and life is so happy and harmonious, it is really enviable! Liu Zhibing and Ru Ping smiled comfortably, yes, they are using true feelings to interpret the realistic version of "family with children"...
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