Marriage is equivalent to the second reincarnation, and people compare marriage to reincarnation, which shows that the importance of marriage to life is self-evident. If you find the object well, you will be happy for a lifetime, and if you find the wrong object, you will be miserable for a lifetime. This applies not only to women, but also to men.
I have a friend who is an interior designer and has known him for more than 20 years. He and I came from the same county, and once a few friends met each other when they organized a party, because they came from the same place, they often made an appointment to play together, and after a long time, they became friends.
After graduating, he joined a decoration company, rented a house in Zhaojiadui, I lived in Mayuan, we often made an appointment to go to an Internet café on Hongling Road all night, and when I was hungry, I went to Honglian Street to find food.
At that time, we didn't have a girlfriend, and we were in a state where we were not hungry and the whole family was fed, and our lives were very comfortable.
After a year or two, when I went to a bar, my friend met a girl who sold alcohol in a bar, and I thought he was just having fun, so I didn't persuade him.
But after a while, the two of them actually lived together, and I asked my friend, are you serious? My friend said that he hadn't thought about it, and he was still young, so let's talk about it.
I told my friends, you have to think about it, once such a girl is entangled, it is difficult to get rid of it, she is four or five years older than you, not to mention, the level of education is low, the chat is not on the same channel, and everyone knows what she is doing now, she is not a simple girl.
Because I know that this woman is not simple, and her words are very unpleasant, I hope that my friend will cut off the relationship with her, but my friend still goes his own way.
One weekend, we went to an Internet café to surf the Internet together, and while we were having fun, the woman came to us and asked my friend as soon as we met, "Didn't you say that you were working overtime, how can you surf the Internet here?" ”
I was surprised when the relationship between the two of them had reached this point, and I felt that my friend had been taken care of. After that, I once again advised my friend to think clearly, don't regret it later, this time I said it very ugly.
For the next period of time, every time we went out to play together, my friend would take this woman with me, and gradually I rarely played with this friend, or played games online, and the relationship gradually drifted apart.
After about a year, my friend married this woman, and after the marriage, this woman still went to work in a bar. A year later, they had a child, and the woman became a stay-at-home wife.
I found that when my friend went to work, she took her child to play mahjong, and later when the child went to kindergarten, she would still go to play mahjong (I work in a relatively relaxed environment, and when I pick up my children from work early, I often see this woman in the mahjong room near the community).
I told my friend about it, but my friend didn't know that his daughter-in-law went to play mahjong every day. Later, a friend and her daughter-in-law quarreled over playing mahjong, and her daughter-in-law simply didn't hide it, and every day she either went shopping or played mahjong, or went to a beauty salon to find friends to play.
Two days ago, a friend drank too much and called me, telling me about the ups and downs of life, tired and tired every day, to repay the mortgage, my daughter-in-law doesn't care about anything, playing games at home is good, sometimes he is sick and lying in bed, and he has to order takeout to eat.
I told my friend that I had already advised you that you insisted on marrying her. Friends said that he wanted to break up, but this woman resisted in a suicidal way, and not long after they met, at her request, they took him to his hometown to see his parents, and his parents were very happy, and he married her in a daze, and some bad habits only appeared after marriage.
What happened to my friend, I don't know what to say, marriage is very important for both men and women.
Just like what is said on the Internet, if your wife marries the right wife and coughs, she will think that you have a cold, marry the wrong one, and hang yourself and she will think you are swinging. How can women not be like this, find a good husband, be spoiled as a princess, find the wrong one, and be a cow and a horse.