A few days ago, I saw someone retweeting an article by a certain woman, to the effect that it told the story of a 103-year-old grandmother who survived her two sons.
To be honest, before a certain woman was banned, I read the headlines to push what she wrote. After reading one or two articles, I quickly blocked the matter! Later, she was "reborn as a little strong", and I still couldn't identify with her. She is the only folk V I don't sympathize with and don't support.
It follows that my story must be the opposite of hers!
In the words of the gardener, "I must stress again that I made it all up and made it up!" ”
In the past, when I took my children back to my hometown, I met the third grandmother near the door of my home. Actually, she was my grandmother.
At that time, she was almost 90 years old! The sparse white hair is meticulously combed, coiled into a bun, and covered with black wire mesh. The thin torso, wrapped in a washed white blue cloth coat, was still very straight, and he didn't need crutches to walk. He carries a stick in his hand to drive away cats and dogs. And you have good eyesight, and if you see it from afar, you will definitely be able to recognize who you are!
saw me and listened to my son's voice, "Old lady! She moved her little feet to come over and talk.
At this time, suddenly an obese woman in her 50s cursed her viciously, "Old and immortal!" Bad luck! At the same time, with a "phew" sound, he spat at her and took a mouthful of thick phlegm.
Visible to the naked eye, the smile on the third grandmother's face froze. I hurriedly walked over to her, and the fat woman was gone.
The third grandmother smiled again and hurriedly said, "Granddaughter-in-law is home?" Your mother-in-law often praises you to me! The great-great-grandson has grown again! As she spoke, she subconsciously touched the pocket of the placket, I know, she wants to take out something or money for the child!
As she spoke to me, I quietly took out a wet tissue and wiped a thick phlegm off her coat on her back.
I invited her in the door to have lunch with us. She said, "Your second uncle and second aunt make dumplings, I'll go home and eat them!" ”
When I entered the house, I told my mother-in-law what had happened. The mother-in-law said that the fat woman you met was your aunt. Since the division of the family, your uncle and aunt have stopped caring about your third grandmother! The old house where your third grandmother lived was given to your uncle. Originally, the three sons and a family were responsible for the food and accommodation of the old man for three months, and the eldest didn't care, so it became a family of two sons for three months.
As for why there is such a big contradiction? The cause is a big wardrobe!
The third grandmother was widowed at the age of forty. has three sons and one daughter, and she is responsible for marriage and marriage! What could there be of value in those days? The older generation left a large wardrobe, mortise and tenon structure, old objects! The third grandmother was left to the old son in the end!
This is the reason why the boss "does not raise and dies"!
The eldest is literate and hyphenated, and went to the supply and marketing cooperatives in his twenties. He decided that what was passed down from his ancestors could only be inherited by him! Why give it to the third child?
The third grandmother didn't have so many ideas, so she thought: The big wardrobe has always been in her old house, since the old house was given to the old son, the big wardrobe is the old son's!
The boss doesn't support the third grandmother, it seems that he has taken a lot of advantage? He doesn't think so. After all, the state is providing more and more subsidies for the elderly! And the old man has never been sick or sick, and he is very independent, the two of them are angry, and they often make trouble for nothing and find fault for no reason!
I'm not superstitious! However, I firmly believe that not being filial to the elderly will be punished by God! It's not that you don't report it, the time has not come!
Half a year later, the chubby aunt had a brain congestion! The old cat sleeps on the eaves, passed down from generation to generation!
Her son was unwilling to serve her and sent her directly to a nursing home. Most of the uncle's retirement money was handed over to the nursing home, and he lived at home with tight clothes and food!
Later, he found a nursing home, discussed it, and moved in himself!
The third grandmother is after the Dragon Boat Festival and celebrates her birthday. However, first in the spring, my aunt was blind, and after two months, there were no people!
Again, when it was time for the Dragon Boat Festival holiday, the uncle was carried back to the village. The man was left at the gate of his yard, and no one came forward to help him put on his makeup and wrap his clothes. His son stood there stunned. Later, it was my father-in-law who helped them with this!
The third grandmother's 100th birthday was very grand, and the town sent someone to send a big TV, a flower basket, and 1,000 yuan!
The descendants of the second uncle, uncle and aunt who usually take care of her are also developing very well!
I'm still the same sentence:
People are doing it, and the sky is watching! Respect for the elderly and filial piety will have blessings, and if you abandon the elderly, disaster must be waiting for you ahead!
爱出者爱返,福往者福来