It has been almost ten years since my grandmother passed away, and according to the custom of my hometown, a tombstone should be erected three years after the burial.
My grandmother gave birth to three sons and two daughters, and by the end of our generation we had seven grandchildren and one granddaughter. When her grandmother was alive, her neighbors praised her for the blessings of her old man's children and grandchildren.
Who knows that in the countryside now, it is not a good thing to have more sons, now only the three brothers of my family have married wives, the three sons of the second uncle's family and the third uncle's family have a son, and the four cousins are all over 30 years old, and they are still singles, which makes people worry.
The brothers are not married and have children, so it is obviously not suitable to erect a tombstone for my grandmother, and it will be troublesome to make up the name in the future.
Some people also gossip, saying that the feng shui of my grandmother's grave is wrong, and she only cares about the long room and ignores the second and third rooms.
My dad is the eldest and I'm the eldest grandson.
Actually, I don't believe in this feng shui statement, and I don't try to blame the direction of the old man's grave, right, right, and unreasonable.
The four cousins are not worry-free.
The three sons of my second uncle's family did not marry a wife, the main reason is that my second uncle and second aunt died early, my grandmother passed away at the age of 95, my second uncle passed away two years before my grandmother, and my second aunt is a person who is not very smart.
Such family conditions belong to the kind of matchmakers who are too lazy to enter the door in rural areas.
The lobby brother is honest and hardworking, but he can't chat with people, and he can't talk too much, someone used to introduce his wife to him, and he didn't talk a few words and left the person.
The second cousin, the eyes are high, the hand is low, the wife must be beautiful, young, he is 32 years old this year, who likes him.
The third cousin, working in Shenzhen, is said to have a monthly salary of more than 6,000, as soon as the salary arrives, he will go to the foot washing shop to add a clock to the technician, who said that he did not listen, his famous words are: "Now you can make money, you can be chic first, and then talk about it, and wait for another 30 years to be a five-guarantee household, anyway, the retirement salary of the five-guarantee household is high." ”
The third uncle's family has a son and a daughter, the daughter is married, and the son works in Foshan.
There is a person in our village who works in the same factory as him, and his money is given to a woman who has a husband, and the woman does not work, so she rents a house near the factory for two people.
asked him when he would get married, and said with a hippie smile that his girlfriend's husband hadn't agreed yet, and he was really drunk.
Something happened to Qingming this year.
The grave where my grandmother was buried was seen by someone who said that the land was called a "lock".
Because it is a centuries-old ancestral tomb mountain, there is no vacant land, and further up is the top of the mountain, where my grandmother is buried a little lower than the top of the mountain.
I didn't go further to the top of the mountain, I saw that the top of the mountain was a big bluestone slab, and I couldn't dig a hole down.
This year, when I swept the tomb during the Qingming Festival, I saw that a new tomb had been erected on the top of the mountain, and he built it with bricks on a bluestone slab.
Didn't it say: "Bury the mountain but not the mountain, bury the waist but not the top"?
I don't know how this family could be so bold and dare to stand their grave on the top of the mountain.
Seeing this family's approach, I am not very happy, but I am helpless, as long as we are from the same sect, we are all eligible to be buried, and others have nothing to say.
It turned out that it was a good thing that the family moved to the grave.
Last month, I met a neighborhood neighbor at a wholesale clothing market in Guangzhou, and she was picking up goods with a Vietnamese customer.
At that time, we talked for a few words, and I joked: "I have a few cousins who have not married wives, do you have any suitable help in Vietnam to introduce a few of them?" ”
Who knows how coincidental it is.
The Vietnamese guest said that she happened to have a niece who was 90 years old, had no parents, and was divorced, so she wanted to leave the place where she had lived far away, and she didn't want any bride price, just find a man who lived a sincere life, as long as my cousin didn't dislike it, she could arrange a blind date immediately, without any fees.
I told my cousin about it, and he saw the photo, and the two of them also made a video, and I thought it was okay.
The two met in Guangzhou last week.
The lobby brother is still good-looking, but he can't say anything to coax women, find a Vietnamese wife, anyway, he can't understand what he says, and the two are right.
The Vietnamese woman had already gone back yesterday, saying that she was going to apply for a visa to get married, and that she had other relatives in her family who had not married, and that if she was satisfied with her life here in the future, she would also introduce her younger brothers to them at that time.
Conclusion.
I heard that my cousin was getting married, and some people joked that it was not my grandmother's burial place "locked", and a new grave was erected on the top of the mountain, which was equivalent to a key to unlocking the lock.
In the past, fate was locked, and it could not be found at the ends of the earth, but now the key is unlocked, and the marriage will come by itself.
In fact, there is a good saying: "Three points are destined, and seven points depend on hard work." ”
Isn't it up to you to do anything, if it weren't for the mutual help with that neighbor on weekdays, and the willingness to stretch out your hand when you encounter anything, how could you have a chance later?
So, if you want me to say, being kind to others is the best feng shui for a family.
In case of trouble, you can always succeed in your own efforts, and there is always a chance to be friendly with others, and any good luck will follow! Do you think so?
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