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Editor|Sports and Entertainment Little Secret Agent
True love is priceless and loving, but even the most enviable celebrity couples cannot escape the fate of impermanence. Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng are such a "peerless couple".
Back then, Wang Feng used a hip-hop coat to wrap his passionate love, while Zhang Ziyi deliberately shed his reserve and was reborn in order to accompany his lover, and the two were in love, attracting the envy of thousands of people.
Who would have thought that fate would sometimes turn dramatically, not long ago, the former couple of the golden boy and girl officially announced their divorce, and fans were all heartbroken, and couldn't help but regain doubts about the love between the two before the divorce: How much of this marriage is sincere?
Passion and renegade when in love
There is an ancient proverb in Xinjiang, "Where the heart desires, it is always sparse", which means that the people's hearts can continue for a long time. Once upon a time, Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng seemed to agree with this proverb.
On October 23, 2023, Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi officially announced their divorce together, which surprised the outside world. On the day of the bad news, some fans posted photos of Zhang Wang and their love on the Internet, and one of them was particularly eye-catching. The photo was taken sometime in the summer of 2022, when Wang Feng took his beloved Zhang Ziyi to watch the band Mandarin perform.
In the photo, Wang Feng is dressed in hip-hop red, walking calmly in front, while Zhang Ziyi is wearing a cool silver coat that is very different from usual, holding his lover's arm and walking in unison. Although the two are dressed very differently, their gestures reveal a strong atmosphere of affection. "
It was a high-profile scene that year. As a director, Wang Feng has always had a fanatical enthusiasm for music, and Zhang Ziyi, as an actor, has distanced himself from the music world. However, back then, he unreservedly accompanied his lover to listen to the band's live show, and the tacit understanding between the two was enough to be enviable.
What's even more surprising is that Zhang Ziyi, who has always been cold and elegant, also deliberately dressed up in hip-hop in order to cater to her lover's hobbies. This was undoubtedly an outrageous departure back then: Zhang Ziyi had always been synonymous with elegance and elegance in the past, dressed plainly and generously, but on that day, she actually showed off with a dazzling silver bright outfit, and it was also from Wang Feng's hand, and the loving attitude of the two can be seen.
However, looking back on the fanaticism and deviation of the year, we can no longer see the deep meaning of you and me today.
A new romance and "sanctimoniousness"
Love is like a ruthless pig-killing knife, cutting off all the bonds of past love. Wang Feng recently flew to Xinjiang, not to find a secluded adventure, but to join his new girlfriend Lin Bei to taste the desert scenery together.
"It is rumored on the Internet that the two showed their affection for 100 meters on the streets of Xinjiang, arm in arm and shoulder to shoulder throughout the whole process, and the scene was the same as that of Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi."
About a month ago, Wang Feng officially announced this new relationship on social platforms in a rare way, and highly praised Lin Bei's character. Compared with Zhang Ziyi's past praise by Wang Feng, we can't help but think:
"Was Wang Feng's praise for Zhang Ziyi just a sanctimonious rhetoric? Is the foundation of their marriage really based on 'what the heart wants'?"
Although there is no concrete basis for the doubts, they are reasonable. The long years of married life will inevitably offset the initial fanaticism and deviation to some extent, and make the reserve and rules come back again. And what can really maintain a relationship to the end is probably only the mutual understanding between the two people.
Career and independence can hold up life
It's just that the life experiences are too vicissitudes, even if they are a couple who really love each other, in the end, they will not escape the fate of "the grievances in the world, there is no return".
Although Zhang Ziyi has missed the love of the past, we are pleased to see that she is still working tirelessly on the road of her career. On the day of the divorce, she made a stunning appearance in a set of supermodel blockbusters shot for a magazine, showing her supermodel-like career quality and temperament.
Zhang Ziyi in the photo has a slender figure and a good face, and she does not look like a middle-aged woman in her thirties at all. She used her strength to prove that age is no longer an obstacle, the key is whether she has a persistent determination for her career and life.
It is reported that this is not the first time Zhang Ziyi has shot a blockbuster for a magazine. As early as many years ago, she worked hard in the film and television industry with her enthusiasm for her career and self-discipline. Now even in middle age, she still maintains her former fighting spirit, which is really awe-inspiring. "
Some netizens joked: "Is this a determination to show 'I live well alone after the divorce'?" I don't think it can be so arbitrary. A person exists in the world, and should not rest on his laurels in a single identity, just like Zhang Ziyi, even if she is no longer Wang Feng's wife, she can still become an outstanding professional. In comparison, Wang Feng's transfer in his love life may seem insignificant.
Netizens are hotly discussed: "True love" is overly deified
Obviously, this good story between Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng did not end in the hearts of netizens. Since the divorce was made public, a large number of netizens have begun to discuss this once enviable "peerless couple" online. Some netizens think:
"Wang Feng's thoughtfulness towards Zhang Ziyi back then was probably just a momentary burst of love, not a real understanding from the depths of his heart. Otherwise, how could they switch to a new love so quickly?"
Although the photo records a side of the love between the two, it is difficult to guarantee that it has not been beautified intentionally or unintentionally. The so-called true love may have been a deified concept from the beginning. "
"But then again, the cornerstone of marriage is built on the mutual value of both parties, and now Wang Feng is empathetic and don't fall in love, there must be a reason for him, why should we sit down and accuse who is right and wrong."
The comments of netizens can be described as all-encompassing, and they go straight to the essence of marriage and love. In a sense, true "true love" has always been an ideal state that is above the mortal but seems unattainable. The world's yearning and expectation for "true love" often deify and idealize an ordinary relationship for no reason.
An ordinary couple will be more or less negligent in the maintenance of their relationship. Even celebrity couples who seem to be extremely loving to the outside world will drift apart due to all kinds of untouchable details of life. Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng's breakup may be a footnote to this phenomenon.
Where is the path of life? Only by taking care of yourself can you move forward calmly
Perhaps, each of us should look at "true love" from a different perspective.
True "true love" is not an immortal state, but a continuous understanding and tolerance of oneself and each other. From this point of view, whether it is Zhang Ziyi or Wang Feng, they are moving towards this ideal state.
After Zhang Ziyi lost her marriage, she did not abandon her martial arts, but continued to devote herself to her career. And Wang Feng, who is walking on the streets of Xinjiang, although the person holding hands is no longer Zhang Ziyi, the thoughtfulness he shows is not an interpretation of true love?
Therefore, true love is not limited to the marriage relationship itself. Perhaps, as some netizens said: "It's better to pull the perspective away, everyone's responsible attitude towards life, enthusiasm for life, and understanding of the people around them is the real 'true love'."
The world has different opinions about "true love".
Regarding the essence and definition of "true love", netizens also gave their own opinions:
"Who said that true love must be a couple for a lifetime? Maybe some people will meet several 'true gods', but they just need different companionship at different stages of life. "
"True love should be one that understands and supports each other at different stages of life, rather than resting on one's laurels and staying the same. True love is more of a state of spirituality. "
"Marriage is a contract, true love is freedom. Marriage can be dissolved, but the state of true love can continue, but the object of sustenance has changed. Therefore, it is understandable that Wang Feng will fall in love soon after the divorce. "
From the comments of netizens, it can be seen that people do have different degrees of understanding and interpretation of the concept of "true love". Some people equate it with the marriage of a loving couple, while others elevate it to a state and attitude of life. It is undeniable that everyone's definition of "true love" has a personal subjectivity.
A peaceful and broad understanding
Perhaps, we should not over-deify "true love" as a lofty being, but should understand it from a more peaceful and broad perspective.
Love is indeed a wonderful thing, but it is not the whole of life, and the meaning of all life should not be compressed into the word "true love". On the contrary, we should adopt an open and inclusive mind to face all life experiences and life encounters.
Just like Zhang Ziyi, after being emotionally frustrated, she can still improve herself on the road of her career and show her enthusiasm for life; Just like when Wang Feng treats his new love, he still maintains a considerate demeanor. This attitude towards life is the best footnote to "true love".
We don't have to dwell on the specific definition of "true love", but we should use our own behavior and attitude towards life to write our own chapter of "true love". Only by treating everything in life with a broad mind and a peaceful mind can we finally touch the semantics of that eternal and immortal "true love".