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Yesterday's gains
Yesterday, there were 20+ new fans, 1250+ readers, and 0.69+ income. As long as I don't stand still, it proves that I have been on the way forward, come on! Today is the 24th day of my challenge to copy books for 100 days, and the theme of today's book copying is "Knowing how to "trouble" others is the real high emotional intelligence".
Learning to ask for help is a kind of wisdom
When you are faced with something that you can't figure out, have you ever thought of asking someone for help? Do you send out a message for help in the first place, or do you find it difficult to open your mouth and give up for fear of being rejected by others?
In fact, people who really know how to lay out are most willing to do what they are most willing to do is to ask for help from others. What is Jianghu? Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes. Since you can wander on the rivers and lakes, it is also avoidable to seek help from others. After all, we can't be proficient in everything, and we also have skills that we can't handle, just because you can't, it just so happens that he is professional! During the period of this cooperation, the relationship between people became closer.
Being willing to ask for help and being good at asking for help is a positive attitude that shows that you are willing to open your heart and learn from others.
We can't always imagine in our own small circle to solve problems, communicate with people, get new ideas, is our opportunity for growth and development, in the mutual help again and again, opportunities and opportunities will follow!
Second, good feelings are all "troublesome" with each other
There is a question on Zhihu: How can I make good friends? A high praise answer: If you want to make your friendship long-lasting, then you have to "trouble" others to help you, because again and again "trouble", there is a "response" one by one, the relationship is a two-way sprint, you call me, watch and help each other, and good feelings are born because of this!
A long time ago, there was a news, a young man took his girlfriend to travel to Inner Mongolia, and the vehicle was trapped due to heavy rain on the way, and he wanted to find someone to help. In desperation, I had no choice but to find local herdsmen to help tow the car, and it took a lot of effort to finally tow the car out. But when the guy took out 100 yuan in cash to repay the local villagers, the herdsman's uncle pushed and shoved it. The young man thought that the uncle was too little, and put the banknote to 1,000 yuan, but the herdsman uncle was angry. Unzipped open to reveal the party emblem on his chest, and proudly said, I am a party member, this is what I should do.
The help-seeker wants to ask for help and sends money afterwards to show trust and gratitude; And ministering people give their labors and refuse to receive money with dignity and a sense of justice. Sometimes, daring to trouble others will not only not become a burden to others, but will enhance the other person's sense of value and make the other person have a sense of pride!
3. Know how to "trouble" others, and you must be measured
Know how to trouble others, does not mean that you can be harassed casually, people are independent individuals, no one will have a direct obligation to help you, when asking others for help, we must grasp the measure and scale, don't embarrass each other, don't take each other's help for granted, and can't harm the interests of others.
Know how to be grateful, know how to cherish, no one wants to be troubled all the time, you help me once, I help you once, help each other, heart for heart to become a real good friend.
In this world, kindness is like the sun shining on the earth, warm and generous. When we reach out and shelter others from the wind and rain, that selfless care is like a seed sown in our hearts, which will eventually take root and sprout in the right season, giving back a green shade to us.
Just as everyone can encounter sudden storms, those who were once treated gently by us often become our solid havens when we need them most.
Therefore, let us not hesitate to help and support others when we can, because such good deeds not only illuminate the path of others, but also pave a sunny path for our future journey.
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