I am Yanran, a post-85 growing mother, focusing on reading, writing and personal growth, and is trying to rely on self-media to achieve both work and baby! Follow me and witness the growth together!
Hello everyone! I'm Yanran
I haven't updated the public account for a long time.,It's been more than a week.,I thought about several topics in advance.,Due to the college entrance examination in early June.,The child's teacher has to go to the field to invigilate.,More than a week off.,I was going to write a May review and topic selection article.,All plans were disrupted.。
Basically, every day is either accompanying the child to prepare for the final exam or going out to play, plus I am in the third trimester of the second child, I feel very tired, I have to sleep for more than an hour every afternoon, and the self-media platform is almost in a state of interruption.
Recently, I have also brushed a lot of articles, and I heard that several bloggers with more than 10,000 fans have stopped changing, the main reason is because of the unstable income, mainly by receiving income, it seems that now there are more and more people entering the self-media, and the competition is getting bigger and bigger.
It leads to an embarrassing situation of more monks and less porridge. Unless multiple platforms are developing at the same time, there are also private domain delivery courses and the like. The east side is not bright, and the west side is bright. in order to continue to operate the account.
For me personally, I also feel that self-media is getting more and more difficult for ordinary people. The platform also has higher requirements for the quality of personal content output. It may be that more and more people are getting in. While insisting on continuous updates, if you don't get positive feedback, a group of people will be slowly eliminated, and no one will always generate electricity for love?
Therefore, I would like to advise everyone, if you want to enter the self-media partners, if you have skills in a certain area, you still have an advantage, find your own good field, and continue to update.
For example, if you like to express yourself and like to shoot videos, you can choose the Douyin video account Xiaohongshu, and if you like text, you can choose the official account Xiaohongshu Zhihu, focusing on one platform first, and updating other platforms synchronously. Which platform has positive feedback, just focus on that platform. Only by refining your skills will you reap the rewards.
Here's a look at my harvest and summary for May:
1. Learn to improve
I read 3 books in May, which are Liu Zhenyun's 3 novels, all of which I read on WeChat, and I didn't write a book review. The storyline of Liu Zhenyun's novel is full of twists and turns, which is particularly fascinating. It feels very easy to read and understand, and it is full of philosophy. Most of them talk about human nature. Especially the relationship between men and women, although the book talks about many couples with bad feelings, it is indeed quite realistic in reality.
The little people have the cognitive limitations of the little people, and the big people also have the means to make people itch their teeth. It's true that there is no such thing as a black and white good guy and bad guy in society.
In addition, I listened to the drainage courses of Xiaohongshu and Douyin, and I am ready to make a new Xiaohongshu account and Douyin account for drainage. Operate a private domain community and multiple income channels!
2. Work side hustles
My main operating accounts are the official account and Xiaohongshu, not to mention the rapid increase in followers, both of which are on a steady rise. It's worth continuing to operate.
In May, 11 articles were updated on the official account
Updated the growth number of Xiaohongshu by 10 articles
Update the Little Red Book Trumpet 19 articles
We media accompanied the community to update 6 articles
This month's income is in the triple digits, nearly four figures, mainly from community mother and baby group buying and Xiaohongshu advertising. Xiaohongshu received two advertisements. At present, it mainly focuses on Xiaohongshu and private domain group buying. Do a good job of drainage. Expand repeat customers.
3. Family life
This month, I also made a plan to go to bed early and get up early, and I got up early except for Saturdays and Sundays. Going to bed early is only a third of the way through. I find it really hard to develop a good habit. But I didn't go to bed until 12 o'clock at the latest. Try to go to bed before half past eleven in the future. Besides, it is also during pregnancy, and I am afraid that the child will be a night owl when it is born. Irregular sleep. It's better to go to bed as early as possible!
This month's prenatal check-up was almost all green, and even my worst fear of glucose tolerance was normal. I thought I was fat, I like sweets, I thought my blood sugar was high! It's fine to be normal. The other is thinking, the child's brain develops, and the transparent septum is a little small. The doctor prescribed another box of active folic acid and calcium tablets. Hopefully everything will be fine when the re-inspection comes at the end of June. It's not easy to have a second child when you're getting old!
Follow my female friends, if you plan to have a second child, you must have it early. It is good for the child in all aspects. Luckily, I'm 34 years old, just in time for 35, so I don't have to do that check-up. There are more check-up items for a second child at an advanced age.
I don't know if it's the big guy who has been disenchanted or the whole environment has changed.,I find that I hate the kind of gimmick article with a monthly income of more than 10,000 now.,I used to like to read it.,I really clicked on it.,I feel like there's nothing else to show off my superiority.。 Maybe this is also a kind of growth for yourself!
In fact, many times a thing seems simple, but when you really do it, you find that it takes a lot of time and energy. There's nothing easy about getting something unearned.
I especially like what Mr. He Jiong said: "If you want to get it, you have to pay, and you have to learn to persevere." If you find it difficult, then you give up, but if you give up, don't regret it. Everyone gets what they deserve through their own efforts. "To you and me on the way forward, encourage together!
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About the Author:
I am Yanran, a full-time mother born after 85, with more than 10,000 fans on the whole network, focusing on the official account and Xiaohongshu platform, focusing on reading and writing and personal growth, with the goal of achieving financial independence through self-media and living as you like!