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Meng Wanzhou finally returned to China, and netizens welcomed her home from all over the motherland, tears in her eyes.
On the way back to China, Yao Anna excitedly sent a congratulatory post to her sister, and she was also on the hot search.
Yao Anna's Weibo, there were three typos, and it was edited four times before it was all correct.
Not surprisingly, the high praise comments below this Weibo are many mocking her.
Yao Anna may really be too excited and too nervous. Especially after entering the entertainment circle, the little princess really felt how metaphysical and important it was for passers-by.
At the beginning of this year, Yao Anna said when she debuted: "Why do people like my sister and don't like me?" ”
At that time, she should have really been confused that she was still not liked after she had worked very hard. But what is not appropriate is that Meng Wanzhou was still wearing electronic footcuffs at that time, and his future in a foreign country was uncertain.
Because of this sentence, Yao Anna has been ridiculed by the group, and later she said that "my sister is my role model", and she must have really suffered some setbacks and had some feelings.
Meng Wanzhou and Yao Anna, a hard-working sister and a smooth sister, are the epitome of many Chinese-style families.
Ren Zhengfei, 77, said in an internal meeting: I am ready not to see my daughter in this life.
It's a shame.
Ren Zhengfei is notoriously low-key, and two years ago, the public knew very little about Meng Wanzhou, let alone that he had a young daughter named Yao Anna. However, in 2018, these two daughters with their mother's surname have entered the public eye because of completely different events.
At the end of November that year, 20-year-old Anna Yao attended the World Famous Women's Ball held at Shangri-La in Paris, which was only 20 people a year enough to be invited, absolutely top level, and even rejected Ivanka Trump and Paris Hilton.
This is Anna Yao's first public appearance.
Ren Zhengfei, who has never exposed his family life in front of the media, for the youngest daughter's coming-of-age dance, took a family portrait for the "Paris Race", wearing a couture dress and dancing with the Belgian prince Yao Anna, like a little princess.
Just a week later, the eldest daughter, Meng Wanzhou, was arrested while transiting in Canada and placed under house arrest for 1,029 days.
On the one hand, there is a dignified and independent sister, on the other hand, there is a beautiful, seemingly carefree sister, the same as Huawei Qianjin, the two sisters' life encounters are completely different.
Among them, the difference in personality is both nurtured and innately branded.
The sisters were born completely different.
Meng Wanzhou was born in 1972, 15 years before Ren Zhengfei founded Huawei with the 21,000 yuan raised. Since she was a child, Meng Wanzhou has lived with her family in "a house where it rains heavily outside, light rain inside, and ventilation on all sides."
Both parents are in the army, and 5-year-old Meng Wanzhou was taken by her grandmother to Guizhou Duyun Primary School, two years earlier than other children, and could not keep up with her studies. Grandma tutored her in math, saw that she couldn't count her ten fingers, and laughed and said, "How did you raise such a stupid daughter?" ”
After graduating from primary school, Meng Wanzhou followed his father to Jinan, where he attended a rural primary school and played in the fields all day.
In 1984, Ren Zhengfei went to Shenzhen, where construction had just begun, and Meng Wanzhou returned to his grandparents to study at Duyunyi Middle School. Because of the bumps and turns of her childhood, she fell behind too many classes, and she won the first place in the class on the first exam.
Ren Zhengfei, who worked hard to start a business in the early years, has a lot of debt to this eldest daughter.
From entering Huawei at the age of 21 and starting from the grassroots level, to now taking over the baton to become the vice chairman of Huawei, the relationship between Meng Wanzhou and Ren Zhengfei is not limited to father and daughter, but also the most capable of carrying things out of the founder's personal training.
Yao Anna, who was born in 1998, is a veritable thousand gold, and when she was born, Huawei was already a telecom giant with annual sales of 8.9 billion.
Her starting point is the end point that many people can hardly reach: from a young age to practice ballet, play the piano, aristocratic education to cultivate ivy elite, confident, cheerful, beautiful, standing with celebrities and stars, no sense of looking up, is a bright girl in the bones, a realistic version of the barbie girl.
They are all guessing whether she will parachute into Huawei after graduating from Harvard, follow her sister to engage in a career, who knows that she made a high-profile debut with the support of Ren Zhengfei and became a star, which surprised everyone.
If Meng Wanzhou has experienced a frustrating education of fiery tempering since childhood, then Yao Anna has received a meticulously crafted open and hanging life.
Sometimes I sigh, in a big family, there are both "big sisters" who pick the beams and go to the soup for the family, and there are also "little princesses" who are self-aware and are not tired of their birth.
▲ A high paste but rare, a real family portrait
Just like the gambling king family that has been discussed the most, the four daughters of the second room, there are the eldest sister He Chaoqiong, the second sister He Chaofeng fighting for the family business, and the youngest sister He Chaoyi, who is born rebellious and is installed with the title of "the daughter who gives the gambling king a headache the most", and is also the daughter who is most loved by the father of the gambling king in addition to her sister He Chaoqiong.
▲ Three sisters escorted all the way
▲ The gambling king even named a star after her
The gambling king even cherished He Chaoyi's rebellion, took out 100 million yuan to open a play for her, arranged 4 bodyguards to protect her every time she filmed, and encouraged her to live according to her own ideas, become an actor, be a singer, and marry someone she likes.
▲ Seeing He Chaoyi's name on the list of winners, the gambling king was very happy
These seemingly unremarkable career and life options are all he Chaoqiong, the sister who is "worthy of a big responsibility", who fought hard when she was young, but could not ask for it.
Ordinary people are born with a golden key in their eyes, but they also have a destined family bondage and mission.
"Big Sister" has an unshirkable responsibility, destined to carry the family honor with her own strength, and the business world will float and sink for a lifetime.
The "little princess" is fortunate to be loved and sheltered, and wantsonly chases her ideal life.
The hard mode of the sister and the easy life of the little princess also apply to the royal family.
Last year, a horseback riding photo of Elizabeth II at Windsor Castle was exposed. The 94-year-old Queen's grandmother still looks radiant and her eyes are shining, but is the nearly hundred-year-old man really not tired?
▲ The Queen's three major hobbies: horseback riding, driving, and raising corgis
The sister Queen Elizabeth and the younger sister Princess Margaret are also different choices.
▲ The queen and sister in childhood
Elizabeth was steady, gentle and assertive, and was favored by her grandfather George V at an early age.
In 1940, the 14-year-old Elizabeth gave her first public speech in the company of her sister, saying: "I can honestly tell you that our children are full of joy and courage. We are doing everything we can to help our heroic sailors, soldiers and pilots, and we are trying to share the dangers and sorrows of war. ”
For the next 4 years, Elizabeth and Margaret performed fairy tale dramas every Christmas, whether it was "Cinderella", "Sleeping Beauty" or "Aladdin", the sister was responsible for playing the prince, and the younger sister played the princess.
Elizabeth, 19, trained as a truck driver and mechanic during her world war II service, learned to repair and change tires in her car, and has been passionate about driving ever since.
Compared to Elizabeth, the only Englishman who could drive without a driver's license, the only female royal family member who had served in the military, the only queen who had been trained to replace spark plugs, etc., Princess Margaret was the first to wear a Dior dress into the British royal family, the first person to publicly broadcast the royal wedding on television, the first to marry a commoner in more than 400 years (photographer Anthony Armstrong Jones), and the first royal family to separate and divorce.
In the movie "Roman Holiday", Princess Anne, played by Audrey Hepburn, is based on Princess Margaret.
The princess was the most maverick in her life, never keen on participating in royal activities, but preferring a free and enjoyable personal life.
She loves ballet and the arts, is president of the British National Ballet, and is a theatre connoisseur who makes unique comments on the works and actors she has seen almost every time.
Unlike her sister Elizabeth's dignified and rigorous, and even old-fashioned and heavy-handed, Margaret is like a star, bright and moving, playful and cute, and is the number one social master and fashion icon of the nobility.
In the eyes of the people, Elizabeth shouldered a heavy burden and was always doing her duty; Margaret was always a beautiful but spoiled child, and often became a royal trouble.
Indeed, perhaps considering that Margaret would live forever under the aura of her sister, father George VI poured more love into Margaret, publicly praising "her angelic countenance, her feminine figure, and the temperament of a star." ”
After the death of George VI, Elizabeth felt that she continued to spoil her sister like a father, and continued to be endlessly tolerant of her. When Margaret fell in love with the divorced Major Townsend, who was 16 years older than herself, and caused a national uproar, Elizabeth had just ascended the throne, which was a critical period of internal and external troubles.
It is rumored that the queen single-handedly broke up her sister's happiness for the sake of the royal family's face. But in fact, in order to complete the marriage of the princess, the royal family even prepared to repeal the royal marriage law that had lasted for 200 years.
Unfortunately, in the end, Margaret chose to give up under the pressure of public opinion and the church.
▲The princess smokes all year round
For years, while Margaret, who called herself a it girl, lingered at cocktail parties with a cigar cigarette in one hand and a glass in the other, her sister Elizabeth was struggling to prop up a falling empire.
If you want to wear a crown, you will bear its weight.
Only 4 years older than Margaret, Queen Elizabeth alone shouldered the burden of home.
Is it fate, or is it self-choosing?
I often think of Qiong Yao's novel and TV series "A Curtain of Dreams" that have been joked about in the past two years, and there are also two sisters in the play: Lu Ping and Zi Ling.
Sister Lu Ping is a dancer, she strives for her dreams, is the pride of her parents.
Sister Zi Ling has been troublesome since she was a child, studying poorly and not working seriously, dreaming every day.
▲ 96 version of "A Curtain of Dreams", Xiao Qiang plays the sister, chen Derong plays the sister
Lu Ping loves her sister and thinks that she is her protective umbrella, but she does not know that Zi Ling has always had a crush on her future brother-in-law. As a result, Lu Ping's dream was shattered, and unfortunately she lost a leg in a car accident. But Zi Ling ushered in the life of Kai Hang, fulfilled all her dreams, and lived as a little princess who was loved by thousands of people.
One of the most controversial plots is that the male protagonist Fei Yunfan is unfair to his sister, and righteously rebukes his sister: At that time, you only lost a leg, Zi Ling, she lost half a life, not to mention the love she gave up for you.
How ironic.
When I was young, I felt that love was more important, but now, when I am middle-aged, I do not hesitate to choose to save my legs between legs and love, not that I blaspheme love, but that I understand too well: only legs can shield adults from the wind and rain, and only legs can go out of their own way.
If you lose your leg and become a burden to your lover, which lover can bear hardships and stand hard work to take care of you for a lifetime?
You see, enterprises, royal families, novels, are all like this, the eldest sister seems to habitually choose a hard mode, and the little sister is lucky to live an easy life.
▲ It is rare to have a public photo with his father when he takes a photo with Huawei executives
The love of parents for their children, even if there is no distinction between eccentricity and abundance, is different in nature:
For the eldest daughter, it is more to expect than to love; for the young daughter, it is to love more than to be responsible.
For children with strong abilities, it is more demanding than understanding; for children with weak abilities, it is more protective than rewarding.
George VI often said: Lilibeth (queen) is my pride, Margaret is my joy.
It has been said that what changes a man is not his lover and wife at all, but age and his daughter.
As men grow older, they may gradually fade their feelings for husband and wife and the honey of couples, but the natural pampering of young girls and young sons is increasing day by day.
"Little Princess" and "Little Prince" are both family identities and personalities, and they never lack love and care;
And "big sister", is also a kind of character and responsibility, such a temperament of women is particularly distressing.
▲ The queen and her sister
I am Leo, in the past two years, I have gradually weakened my natural "big sister" personality, and the new skills I have learned are: special heartache and recognition. Eager to split into another self, give a thumbs up to your own self: you are too tired, rest and enjoy.
Then, my life was really a lot easier.
Three-quarters of the year has passed, and I sincerely hope that you, who are strong, considerate and pay high, also know how to feel sorry for yourself.
Li Xiaoyi is a writer and founder of "Woman with a Fragrant Soul". Author of "What is Emotional Intelligence", "Life Lesson", "First Make a Living, Then Seek Love", "Beautiful Women Are Fierce Characters", "Women with Aromatic Souls", the new book "Where is the Aura" in the hot sale, take you from the legendary stories of 19 women, look at the 6 types of aura, help you find your own strengths and weaknesses. Yao Chen, Feng Tang, Chen Shu, and Wu Xiaobo jointly recommended it.
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