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The star-chasing craze has always been an indispensable part of modern society, and both young and middle-aged people may be immersed in it because of their favorite stars. Star-chasing can be said to be a very passionate hobby, and the process is also full of fun and joy. However, if this enthusiasm for chasing stars is too much, it may become a pathological behavior, and even have a certain negative impact on the lives of the star chasers themselves.
Recently, there is a story about a rural girl chasing stars that has attracted widespread attention on the Internet, and this girl is Yang Lijuan. In order to see her idol Andy Lau, she actually embarked on a road full of thorns, which eventually led to the tragedy of the destruction of her family. Stories like this are undoubtedly a wake-up call to people about how excessive star-chasing can hurt themselves and their families.
1. The tragedy behind the star-chasing mania
In today's society, star-chasing has become a very common phenomenon, and more and more people are beginning to join the ranks of star-chasing. They may learn about their favorite celebrities through a variety of ways, such as collecting relevant information about celebrities, watching celebrities' works, participating in celebrities' concerts, and so on.
And Yang Lijuan can also be said to be one of them, she has liked Andy Lau very much since she was a child, and she is simply fascinated by him, and she can be said to pursue it with all her heart. In order to be able to meet her idol, Yang Lijuan did whatever it takes, even skipping classes and running away from home, which undoubtedly has a great impact on her life and studies.
Later, in order to be able to rush to Hong Kong to see Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan secretly ran away from home, and this runaway turned out to be a full 15 years, and the time during this period is undoubtedly very precious for a girl, but she chose to give up everything, just to see Andy Lau.
In the past 15 years, Yang Lijuan has lived a very difficult life, she has been wandering around, has no fixed job and residence, and food and clothing are a big problem. And in this process, her family is also very worried about her, they have searched everywhere, but they have never found any trace of Yang Lijuan.
It wasn't until 15 years later that Yang Lijuan was found by the police, and at that time she was already a middle-aged woman with yellow face and thin muscles, which made people feel very distressed and regretful. What makes people feel even more sad is that when Yang Lijuan returned to her hometown, she found that her family had suffered a great change, and her father felt guilty and blamed herself for running away from home, and finally chose to commit suicide, which was undoubtedly a very big blow to Yang Lijuan.
2. Reflections behind the star-chasing frenzy
Yang Lijuan's experience is undoubtedly a very big tragedy, and her experience also makes people deeply reflect on the harm of excessive star chasing. Star chasing can be said to be a very passionate behavior, and it will indeed bring some joy and pleasure to people's lives in the process, but if this love is too much, it may become a pathological behavior, and even have a certain negative impact on the life of the star chaser himself.
As Yang Lijuan experienced, her road to stardom can be said to be full of hardships and ups and downs, she was desperate to see her idol, but in the end she lost her family and happiness. Such an ending is undoubtedly very distressing, and it is also a wake-up call for people to realize that excessive star-chasing may lead people into an extreme state from which they cannot extricate themselves.
Behind the star-chasing mania, how should we look at such a phenomenon? We should realize that chasing stars is indeed a very normal behavior, everyone has their favorite stars and idols, and it is normal to support and appreciate them in this way.
However, when we chase stars, we must keep a rational and cool head, and don't be blinded by the fanaticism of chasing stars, causing us to lose our balance in real life, and even hurt the interests of ourselves and our families. Whether it is chasing stars or doing other things, you should know how to stop in moderation and find a balance and degree, so that you can live a truly happy and happy life.
3. The correct way to open the healthy star chasing
The fanaticism of chasing stars is undoubtedly a manifestation of great love for idols, and this love is indeed very pure and beautiful. When we chase stars, we must support our idols in a rational and healthy way, rather than being overly sought after and obsessed.
So, how can we achieve healthy star chasing? We can express our love by watching their idols' works, such as watching their movies, listening to their songs, etc., which can not only enrich our spare time, but also have a deeper understanding of the talent and charm of idols.
In addition, you can also participate in the activities of idols in some other ways, such as participating in charity performances, public welfare activities, etc., which can not only bring some positive energy support to idols, but also influence more people through their own actions, so that love and hope can be better spread.
The most important point is to realize that there is a huge social status gap between celebrities and themselves, the stars we see are only one side of the stage, and they will also face various difficulties and challenges in real life, so we should not have unrealistic illusions, but look at them with a mature and rational heart, and give them the understanding and support they deserve.
Epilogue:
Yang Lijuan's story is undoubtedly a very big reminder, and her experience has made people deeply aware of the harm that excessive star-chasing can bring to themselves and their families. In this star-chasing craze, we must maintain a rational and calm heart, find a way to chase stars that suits us, and make star-chasing a healthy hobby, rather than letting ourselves fall into a pathological state of behavior.
It is also hoped that the society can pay more attention to the possible negative effects in the star-chasing culture, guide the star-chasing people to maintain a rational and healthy attitude, so that this enthusiasm can be better guided and utilized, and bring some positive energy and influence to the development and progress of the society.