Source: Health Science Doctor Chen
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Li Jingzhi's son was abducted and trafficked by criminals, and this loss is a full 32 years. In order to find her son and divorce her husband, she traveled most of China alone and found 29 missing children, but none of them were his children.
It wasn't until the thirtieth that the mother finally fulfilled her long-cherished wish.
But the funny thing is that when the family of three was reunited again, the son said that I had actually seen you a long time ago. So what's going on here?
1. Accidental loss of son
In 1988, Li Jingzhi, who was still very young at the time, suddenly got a bolt from the blue.
After her husband picked up his two-year-old son from kindergarten, his son disappeared inexplicably.
According to her husband's account, while he was picking up his son home, he suddenly felt a little thirsty.
There happened to be a hotel on the side of the road, so he asked the child to wait for him to enter the hotel and asked for a glass of water.
But by the time he finished drinking the water, his son was gone, and it was only a few minutes.
After discovering that his son was lost, Li Jingzhi's husband Mao Zhenping regretted it, but there was nothing he could do.
And Li Jingzhi, who was on a business trip at that time, ran back as soon as she heard the news, followed Mao Zhenping around looking for her son, and they also went to the police station to report the case.
But a few months passed, and there was no news at all, because there were no surveillance cameras in those days.
Moreover, the place where Mao Zhenping took his children was relatively sparsely populated, so no one had seen how his son was lost, and even if the police wanted to track it down, it would take a lot of time.
As their son has been lost for more and more time, the emotions of Li Jingzhi and her husband Mao Zhenping, who are their only son, are on the verge of collapse.
"Why didn't you take your son with you to ask for water, otherwise he wouldn't have gone lost!"
The angry Li Jingzhi finally chose to divorce Mao Zhenping, because in his opinion, it was her husband's negligence and inaction that caused this human tragedy.
After the loss of the child, Mao Zhenpingdu also wanted to maintain the relationship with Li Jingzhi.
But the impact of the loss of the child on the two of them is too profound, and the relationship between the two has been corroded to the core.
In the fifth year after the loss of her son, Li Jingzhi, who couldn't bear it, chose to divorce Mao Zhenping.
"We don't have any contact anymore, but my son is still looking for him." At the time of the divorce, Li Jingzhi was still determined to find her son.
Her husband, Mao Zhenping, was already inclined to live a normal life at that time, and five years allowed him to gradually come out of the haze.
Although he also felt sorry for his son and wanted to find him again, it was very difficult.
And he still has half a life left, and he feels that he can't spend all his life looking for his son.
But Li Jingzhi is different. Li Jingzhi felt that the loss of the child was their problem, and they had to find a way to find their son. This is the biggest disagreement between Li Jingzhi and Mao Zhenping, and it is also this disagreement that finally ended their marriage.
After the two divorced, Li Jingzhi did not return to life like her husband. He swore to heaven that he would find his son in this life no matter what.
After all, her son is the meat that fell from her, even Mao Zhenping doesn't want to look for her son, she has to find it. This is a mother's deepest love for her son.
2. Search half of China
For Li Jingzhi at that time, she had no other better way to find her son.
All he can do is to walk all over China step by step with his own feet. Then he did odd jobs while earning money to print flyers and distribute them around.
In 32 years, she has sent out more than 100,000 posters to find her son. In the process of searching for her son, she also got a lot of news. Some people say that her son has been found, and others have provided some clues for Li Jingzhi.
Every time, Li Jingzhi would thank those people very gratefully, and then run to the destination without looking back to verify these clues. Most of them were disappointed, though.
In 32 years, Li Jingzhi has found more than 300 children who are very similar to her son. But every time the results were disappointing.
It's hard for us ordinary people to imagine this feeling. Every time Li Jingzhi gets news and every clue, it means that she gets a glimmer of hope. But each time those hopes are dashed.
If you are a normal person, you may not be able to stand it after a few times.
But Li Jingzhi persisted for more than 30 years. He endured this torture hundreds of times over and over again, and Li Jingzhi was able to persevere. It depends on two points, one is the sense of responsibility as a mother, and she feels that she must find her son.
And the second is that in the process of looking for her son, she also found some valuable friends, and these friends are also helping her to find her son together.
Because in that era of economic and social backwardness, many people had a very poor level of cognition and did not receive education. As a result, in some places, there are indeed industrial lines of abduction and trafficking of infants and young children.
Many people have reported that their children have been abducted and trafficked by traffickers. Some of them went on to have other children and live new lives. But there are also some people who can't accept this, and like Li Jingzhi, they have been running on the road, hoping that one day they can find hope and find their long-lost child.
And because of similar experiences, these people gradually came together and worked together to find their children. Li Jingzhi met many people who had similar experiences to herself during the search for her son.
They collect clues together, take the train and bus together, and rush to their destination. One feels hope, and the other works hand in hand, comforting each other and getting through despair.
In the process, Li Jingzhi and his comrades-in-arms helped each other find their families for 29 missing children. Li Jingzhi's deeds were even reported by major TV stations in the end.
Some people believe that Li Jingzhi can also be regarded as a hero. Although he has not found his children for more than 30 years. But it has helped many families reunite and helped many children who were left behind find their biological parents.
Isn't Li Jingzhi still worthy of a good result? So more and more people are starting to help Li Jingzhi. It wasn't until 2020 that God finally decided to end the test of Li Jingzhi.
3. Successfully find the child
In March 2020, Li Jingzhi suddenly received a message. Someone told him that when his neighbor Gu Ningning was young, he looked very similar to Li Jingzhi's son.
The provider of this information suddenly discovered this after seeing Li Jingzhi's child-seeking video on the Internet. He told Li Jingzhi the news as soon as possible.
After Li Jingzhi received the news, she immediately contacted the police. With the assistance of the police, the boy named Gu Ningning was found. Then I told him the specific situation and got the hair from Gu Ningning.
Finally, in the DNA test, the police found that the boy named Gu Ningning was Li Jingzhi, who had lost his son for 32 years.
Li Jingzhi herself got the news, which happened to be May 10, 2020, which is the day of Mother's Day.
Li Jingzhi has worked hard for 32 years and finally got results. Then she rushed to find her son as fast as she could, but at the first time when their mother and son were reunited, Gu Ningning said something to Li Jingzhi.
He said: In fact, he had already seen his mother.
It turned out that a few years ago, Gu Ningning had seen Li Jingzhi's child-hunting video on TV. But he didn't think much about it at the time, he just felt that the photos Li Jingzhi showed in the video seemed to have some similarities with his childhood.
But he didn't think that the woman on TV at that time was his biological mother. It wasn't until the neighbors helped that they were reunited.
It turned out that after he was abducted and trafficked, he was sold by traffickers to his adoptive parents, and he never knew that he was actually bought.
Because his adoptive parents treated him very well, they not only regarded him as their own, but also provided for him to go to college, and also helped him marry a wife and have children, and settle down in the local area.
Even with the support of his adoptive parents, he has a good job.
He has always regarded his adoptive parents as his biological parents. It was only because his neighbors knew his original details, and it wasn't until the police came to the door that he realized that he was a child bought by his adoptive parents.
When his adoptive father remarried, he had already taken him with him, so his adoptive mother always thought that Gu Ningning was his adoptive father's biological son.
And the adoptive father would buy him back because there were no children at the time. So I want to find a child to carry on the family for myself.
Although what Gu Ningning's adoptive parents did was a little inappropriate, no matter what, they did fulfill their responsibilities as a parent. Let Gu Ningning live in a loving environment since she was a child.
And when the police found Gu Ningning and told him the truth about his background, his adoptive mother did not prevent Gu Ningning from contacting his biological mother. even persuaded him to go back and see his biological father more.
So Gu Ningning is different from many other children who have been abducted and trafficked, she is already very lucky. Although he was indeed trafficked, he had two mothers who loved him and an adoptive father who loved him.
epilogue
Li Jingzhi's story makes people feel embarrassed, and the final facts also prove that man will win the day.
No matter what kind of situation you face, as long as you are willing to work hard, you will always have a good result.
If Li Jingzhi gave up looking for her son like her husband back then, then I am afraid that he will never see his son in his life.
It was his last insistence that led to a good result. So when you encounter something, don't give up hope. Believe in yourself and you can change your destiny if you work hard.
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