Spoo! The grandson was tripped over, and the aunt overturned the pool and made a fuss on Children's Day: Can this teach children well?

Teacher Zhou talks about education

2024-06-02 19:21Published in Jiangxi

"June 1st" is a children's festival, not only the school will organize a variety of celebrations, but also many community properties will take this opportunity to hold some parent-child activities to build a bridge of interaction between community owners.

As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and it is a good thing for people living in a community to get together to engage in activities, but a few days ago, a community in Changsha, Hunan Province held a children's day crayfish fishing activity at the scene of a stunned scene.

Judging from the video uploaded by netizens, at the event site, an aunt in red was like crazy, holding her grandson in one hand and a water pipe in the other, indiscriminately "nourishing water" to the surrounding crowd, and shouting loudly: "No one should play", and in the end, even the pool for fishing crayfish was overturned.

What's going on? What is the reason for this aunt's thunderous anger? In fact, it was a small problem, and the event was quite good at the beginning, lively and joyful, until the grandma's grandson accidentally tripped and fell to the ground.

The aunt believes that the improper setting of the event venue caused her grandson to trip. Therefore, he was very emotional, walked to the activity area and began to shout accusations, and then picked up the water pipe and began to carry out an "indiscriminate sprinkling attack", and later even overturned the pool at the scene, causing the activity to be a mess.

Looking at the performance of this aunt, the residents at the scene also expressed their dissatisfaction and responsibility, and said: "It is not advisable to blame others for the reason in advance"; "It's unreasonable to stumble and blame others"; "Isn't this a typical mentality that I don't play well, and everyone doesn't want to play......?"

When a child falls, it is understandable that parents feel distressed, but in such a joyful activity environment, if it is just a fall, it seems that there is no need to use the topic to play, splash and roll, make trouble, and lose the face and dignity of adults under the banner of protecting children.

They are saying that today's children are too fragile to withstand a little setbacks and wind and rain, but should we also ask ourselves whether we are too thoughtful about the protection of our children, and where do they have the opportunity to experience some storms? In fact, children are not as "expensive" as we think, and many times, it is just that we are too hypocritical as parents.

Some parents just can't see their children being wronged and hurt a little bit, and they interfere too much in the child's growth process, lest the child receive a little bit of harm, but they don't know that this excessive protection is precisely to deprive the child of the opportunity to grow up and undergo hardship.

Secondly, what kind of impact will the unreasonable behavior of parents have on their children? Can such parents educate their children well? The reason why there are so many bear children now is mainly because there are too many bear parents like this. Regardless of the time or occasion, it is like a detonator, which will explode at one point.

The impact of an emotionally unstable parent on the child is also obvious, because the parents' behavior and emotional state will directly or indirectly affect the children's growth and learning atmosphere. Parents are unreasonable, unreasonable, and hysterical, but in fact, children see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts. In the long run, this will have a negative impact on your child's social skills and ability to handle interpersonal relationships.

As a parent of a child's guide, every word and deed is a role model for the child, if it is really good for the child, you should set an example, teach by example, and cultivate the child's upbringing with your own cultivation. Adults should not lose the most basic upbringing and decency, so how can we expect children to grow up to be people of character?

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